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Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by lizzygrace(f): 4:14pm On Nov 18, 2015
Am 23 years of age and a master student in one of Nigeria's top universities.
I stay off campus in a self contain apartment so that I can feel independent.
My neighbor who works with an insurance firm seems friendly but I never knew he had an hidden agenda.
He asked me out severally but I turned him down always.. recently he behaves weird, like trying to bust into my apartment without him knowing my door was locked.
It got too serious that I confronted him one day and he says exactly this words "If you don't let me into your life, I must get into your pant"
Please Nlders what should I do because I can't concentrate on my studies anymore.

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by osaslord500(m): 4:16pm On Nov 18, 2015
Go to the police

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by sisisioge: 4:19pm On Nov 18, 2015
Yes, the police , the landlord and threaten to include his office too. Say no to rape!

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Nobody: 4:20pm On Nov 18, 2015
What da
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by ITbomb(m): 4:20pm On Nov 18, 2015
Stop accepting recharge cards and gifts from him if at all you do collect before.

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by lolu007(m): 4:20pm On Nov 18, 2015
Why are u posting it on nairaland.. You know where to go abeg stop disturbing us

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Nicolars(m): 4:21pm On Nov 18, 2015
1.. Police no dey dat area ni, if dem dey go and meet dem
2.. If police no dey dere or no anza u, go and meet ur landlord
3.. If u no gt landlord,or e no anza u
4.. Just use magun on ursef and allow him enta

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Tallesty1(m): 4:23pm On Nov 18, 2015
He wants to get into your pant?





Then give him one to wear. Haba!

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by thorpido(m): 4:24pm On Nov 18, 2015
osaslord500:
Go to the police
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by delishpot: 4:25pm On Nov 18, 2015
Since its a man no insults have been hurled his way. If it was a woman that said those words to a man, insults would have started flying , women in general would have been called names.

OP go to the police or move out of that house.

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by lizzygrace(f): 4:33pm On Nov 18, 2015
sisisioge:
Yes, the police , the landlord and threaten to include his office too. Say no to rape!
Thanks so much, I was scared to death..
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by lizzygrace(f): 4:36pm On Nov 18, 2015
ITbomb:
Stop accepting recharge cards and gifts from him if at all you do collect before.
I don't take things from him, I rather give to him often.
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Khd95(m): 4:45pm On Nov 18, 2015
Self defence is paramount.

Firstly,report to NPF,then get ur sef a nice sharp scissors,shears,hammer,pepper spray,2by2 piece of wood,

then spread then in corners of ur room,easily accessible,when evrr the idiot come around nd want to get into ur pants Make use of any of d aforementioned,NPF is ur witness


thank me later tho

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Danhumprey: 5:34pm On Nov 18, 2015
ITbomb:
Stop accepting recharge cards and gifts from him if at all you do collect before.
how far? you no try at all.
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by ITbomb(m): 6:09pm On Nov 18, 2015
lizzygrace:

I don't take things from him, I rather give to him often.
That means it is worse than I thought
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by ITbomb(m): 6:09pm On Nov 18, 2015
Danhumprey:
how far? you no try at all.
Na me try pass
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Nobody: 6:12pm On Nov 18, 2015
If it was any member of my family, my brothers would pay him a visit. wink
He would avoid any of us for the rest of his life.

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Nobody: 6:16pm On Nov 18, 2015
Op go to a police station if you have elderly ones, explain to them incase anything happens they will know who to hold responsible.

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by ChristineC: 6:40pm On Nov 18, 2015
Make a report at the closest Police Station, involve one or two mature neighbours (a man and a woman preferred), tell the landlord or caretaker too. Let him have full knowledge of the people involved, then get pepper spray and anything you think can aid you in emergency attack.

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Erums(m): 6:51pm On Nov 18, 2015
deyve said it all
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Koleman(m): 6:55pm On Nov 18, 2015
Jolllyjoy:
Op go to a police station if you have elderly ones, explain to them incase anything happens they will know who to hold responsible.
yes take this particular quoted advice seriously. Your family must know. Dont waste anymore time.
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by blaze2cool(m): 7:29pm On Nov 18, 2015
Well like they all said Go to the police



And stop giving him reasons to wanna still be a friend.


He is Now a threat to ya life.... wake up and do the needful before we go here Any rape Case


#####SAY_NO_TO_RAPE
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by tellwisdom: 12:01am On Nov 19, 2015
Op, gve me ur number...How big is ur Yansh? sad
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Pidggin(f): 12:51am On Nov 19, 2015
OP, if you like pets, get a dog, it might help.
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Nobody: 2:48am On Nov 19, 2015
Do you have an older brother?
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by jabojafa(m): 9:41am On Nov 19, 2015
Mindfulness:
If it was any member of my family, my brothers would pay him a visit. wink
He would avoid any of us for the rest of his life.
what if d guy also has brothers too in d army nko?
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Urgent2015: 10:07am On Nov 19, 2015
To start with, I feel disappointed with your write up. A master's student in one of Nigeria's top most university as you stated cannot differenciate between " am,i'm and i am, this and these, a and an". This is pathetic if i must say.
lizzygrace:
Am 23 years of age and a master student in one of Nigeria's top universities.
I stay off campus in a self contain apartment so that I can feel independent.
My neighbor who works with an insurance firm seems friendly but I never knew he had an hidden agenda.
He asked me out severally but I turned him down always.. recently he behaves weird, like trying to bust into my apartment without him knowing my door was locked.
It got too serious that I confronted him one day and he says exactly this words "If you don't let me into your life, I must get into your pant"
Please Nlders what should I do because I can't concentrate on my studies anymore.

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by Sanguine(f): 12:41pm On Nov 19, 2015
In situations like this, self defence is very very key. Next time he trys any nonsense, his groin would be a target point...and then, he'd regret his damn life forever!
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by bukatyne(f): 12:52pm On Nov 19, 2015
What business do you both have together?
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by ogawisdom(m): 4:45pm On Nov 19, 2015
Urgent2015:
To start with, I feel disappointed with your write up. A master's student in one of Nigeria's top most university as you stated cannot differenciate between " am,i'm and i am, this and these, a and an". This is pathetic if i must say.

Hw does ur comment save her from being raped tongue

Anyway I agree with u, the written English of most educated youths r terrible dt is to put it mildly n its fast becoming a national calamity undecided

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Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by LastProphet: 11:02pm On Nov 19, 2015
no neighbor can wake up one morning and talk about your pant if you have not been encouraging him one way or the other, you must have been talking dirty with him.
anyway call him to an open place in the compound and tell him you are displeased by his last utterance and that nobody is permitted to even joke with you like that, tell him if your dad hears this it will lead to the unimaginable and that he should please never joke like that again.
after that even if he apologizes don't allow him your room anymore, then watch your back till u leave that place
Re: Please Help! My Neighbour Is Threatening Me With Rape by lizzygrace(f): 6:31am On Nov 26, 2015
Urgent2015:
To start with, I feel disappointed with your write up. A master's student in one of Nigeria's top most university as you stated cannot differenciate between " am,i'm and i am, this and these, a and an". This is pathetic if i must say.
Thanks for noting my errors.....
My writting skills have nothing to do with my current predicament..
If you are yet to commit blunder in writting, then you can quote me again otherwise just swerve pls.

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