some years back when I started having serious relationships, i dated a girl who was six years older than me.. The relationship was fun, matured, it was just beautiful, we still had our bad moments but it never lasted cos she will always find a way to fix it. she taught me how to treat a lady right and handle her properly.. she gave me an insight on relationships in general(God bless you doris)

when I gained admission to the university, we lost contact and the relationship ended... I started dating girls who were younger than I was but I wasn't just feeling the relationship.. I always look down on them, treat them bad and eventually break up with them cos I didn't feel a connection at all.. it got worse as time passed by and I decided to take a break

Now fast forward to this present moment, i still find it difficult to date ladies who are younger than me and also I am still attracted to ladies who are older than I am, even married ones..

pls I need help to over come dis cos ma mom and siblings says it's not normal and I shouldn't even think of settling down with any lady older than I am... though they didn't give concrete reasons but ma mom is against it

please nairalanders I need your help...

U need 9 days dry fast. That's how you will turn 40 and still be looking for 50 year old women to date.

its 100% percent normal.
I can't date my age mate.

follow your heart and be happy


Its going to be your marriage

Not ur mum or sister's marriage bt urs

Wow! At last, i hve seen my broda

@op its normal older women have more experience than the younger ladies, more matured and well reserved



#TeamMatureLadies #TeamMilf #Team_my_love_for_30+_Single_ladies

Its very normal... There are some ladies a young guy will just spot and get attracted to dem instantly....

The older the berry, the sweeter the juice

Maiconyoung:
Wow! At last, i hve seen my broda

Lol... thank goodness am not alone in dis

Normal its because younger girls are too naïve and inexperienced

mizquote:
its 100% percent normal.
I can't date my age mate.

are u a lesbian?

@OP we are in d same boat

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akwana:
U need 9 days dry fast. That's how you will turn 40 and still be looking for 50 year old women to date.

very funny

akwana:
U need 9 days dry fast. That's how you will turn 40 and still be looking for 50 year old women to date.

very funny

Djdamian:

Lol... thank goodness am not alone in dis

i had this problem 4rm time immemorial, i see girls my age nd below as childish, no one in my family married an older lady, is my own a curse?

Nothing is wrong with yu....u just av to change ur mentality abt the ladies younger Dan yu....the reason yu think the way u do is becos of ur experience with the older lady u dated b4....av in mind dah nt all older ladies will treat yu the way d she did....give younger ladies a try in ur life and stp looking for sugar mommies!!

Harbosede02:
Nothing is wrong with yu....u just av to change ur mentality abt the ladies younger Dan yu....the reason yu think the way u do is becos of ur experience with the older lady u dated b4....av in mind dah nt all older ladies will treat yu the way d she did....give younger ladies a try in ur life and stp looking for sugar mommies!!

you have a point...thank you

and i don't look for sugar mummies

you are perfectly okay. Right from when i could remember, ladies much older than i am, have always find a way of coming into my life. With time, i became atracted to them. I love matured ladies. They just have a way of taking care of my physical, emotional needs and otherwise. They do not give you hassles and they can be very loving and caring. On bed, it is a different ballgame. Dem sabi wella.

Grabs chair o....
Mk I wait for who fit explain perfectly wetin de worry op nd my self