Talking About Your Sexual Past
Image result for sexYou can increase your comfort level with sex by talking about your sexual influences and sexual history with someone who has the experience to help you understand it better. You should find someone you trust, a counselor or therapist. Make sure this person has the experience to help you discover how your past influences your present. Then sit down together when you have time and talk to this person about your sexual history. The following items will give you some ideas for sharing:

• Talk about what your mother and father taught you about
sex.

• Discuss other memories you have that involved sexuality in your childhood.

• Talk about the attitude that you had toward nudity and your body image as a child and how (and if) that changed as you've grown.

• Talk about what you remember about your first period (for women) or wet dream (for men).

• Discuss what you thought about masturbation, and when, if ever, you first felt completely comfortable doing it.

• Talk about what you learned about sex from your peers, the media, and sex education.

• Talk about what your early dating experiences were like.

• Discuss why and when you lost your virginity, and what it made you think about sex.

• Discuss how your dating and sex life today is impacted by any of the things that you went through when you were younger. If you're not getting what you want out of your sex life, it may be because of some attitudes or experiences that you had years ago. Once you examine all of those issues, you can start to put the pieces of your sexual past and present together. The more you talk about your issues, the faster you can
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Why should I talk about my sexual past with my partner? It's not necessary


Topic should have read how to talk about sex with your partner, not sexual past.

Epic fails!

Read How to Talk About Sex
There are so many things you can do with your mouth to make sex more enjoyable; talking is at the top of the list. Here are some pointers that might make the discussions go more smoothly: •
Start by talking about sex in subtle ways. For example, over dinner conversation mention topics in the news that involve sexual issues.
Or say something like: “I just saw an interesting story in a magazine about people who abstain from sex because they are so afraid of AIDS. What do you think of that?” That way, you'll be talking about sex, without getting too personal right away.

• Make sure it's the right time and place to talk. Too many people wait to talk about sex until they are in the heat of passion. Or they bring it up when one of them is tired, distracted, drinking, or at some other inappropriate time. You should talk about it when you are both awake, not fooling around, not drinking, and
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You know, one thing about having a partner who is your friend and who understands you, is that you both can communicate effectively on any level.
If you have such partner, you won't don't need to read or learn how to talk about issues like this, the conversation would flow itself and both of you would arrive at a common baseline.

Virginity lost!! Could found it back (Google it) y talking about past.

..move forward

Decker:
You know, one thing about having a partner who is your friend and who understands you, is that you both can communicate effectively on any level.
If you have such partner, you won't don't need to read or learn how to talk about issues like this, the conversation would flow itself and both of you would arrive at a common baseline.

Very true.