One undeniable fact is that the Sisterhood () will come together to protect their own, and will also have the many seeking attention men help them promote their narratives. They will fight the man seeking to know a woman past sexual life and wonder how dare this man questioned how many partners or type of men she had sex with, he should know that was her past but she has changed now.

The fact, they rally behind her because they know the clock is tickling on her side and soon she will hit the inevitable biological wall where her sexual attention level and fertility capability rapidly declines that no man will notice her any more.

So women in this declining state cannot and will not allow any man to judge her past party life and random sex with the ‘alpha bad guys‘, after all it was a temporary thing, it just happened!

She also understand that if the ‘nice man’ (beta male http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/12/6-things-nice-guy-attract-girl-every-real-man-must-never/ ) she wants to marry and start a family with, raise children from her previous relationship become aware of how she fuc*ked, then he too may request for similar performance which she is not ready to offer him because he is not like the ‘bad guy‘ she fuc*ked at that time.

If he needs it, he has to earn it because that performance is reserved for the Alpha bad guys.

God be with the beta husband who treats the wife like an angel because he was afraid, ignorant or blindly in romantic fairy tale love to want to know her past sexual performance…if she one day bump into one of the Alpha Exs…It just happened! The best way her hamster will rationalize it.

Women are so afraid of men getting to know their past sexual experience that a man will be punished for trying or even wanting to know about it.

However, it’s important for any man to know his wife to be past sexual experience because the ability or capacity for a woman to build a strong connection with a man reduces with every new man she fu*cked, if she fuc*ked many men it may become very difficult for her to bond to one man as a husband.

Basically, the more lovers a woman had before marriage will determine how high her chances of cheating or divorcing her husband. A study by National Survey for Family Growth in 2002, 2006 – 2010 and 2011 – 2013 for women marrying since the new millennium shows that:

Women with 10 or more sexual partners before marriage were likely to divorce her husband.

Women with 3 – 9 sexual partners before marriage were less likely to divorce than those with 2 partners before marriage.

Women with 0 – 1 partner were least likely to divorce their husband.

Believe it or not, this is very important because every new man a woman slept with has the potential to give her a better sex than the last man. But she would want her husband not to know about her past sexual experience and how they impacted on her if she is to get the man who will take care of her and parent her children with his time and money.

A man must strive by any means necessary to know this past especially from a woman he’s considering to be mother of his children. I wrote about this here (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/24/5-deadly-sexual-habits-reveal-girlfriend-not-wife-material/)

Of course, the popular belief by the feminine imperatives is for the man to look past those past indiscretions and see it as a learning process in her life, she’s still discovering herself but she has changed and it’s not his concern anymore.

The irony is when she divorced the man tomorrow, she’s going to say she’s leaving to go discover what she really want for her life.

1. Right Thing To Do:

Seeking to know a woman past sexual life may not be legally correct but it’s the right thing to do and very important that you can’t just ignore it. It will help you keep a healthy relationship and the risk is too much not knowing even though women never understand, appreciate or empathize with this risk. It’s very important you know or vet her sexual past.

2. Avoid Divorce Not On Your Terms:

Knowing her past sexual life before putting a ring on it, will let you know if she will compare you to her past sexual lovers and if one day she feels you can no longer measure up to her past lovers, she could hit you with divorce papers but knowing her past will let you know whether to put a ring on it in the first place.

3. Protect Yourself:

The common believe that asking her past sexual life is a sign of insecurity and weakness of the man is a complete falsehood. One of the most important decision you must make with the woman you consider to marry is to know her past sexual life because it means you are smart and know what you want.

You simply want to know if you will be the Alpha husband or someone in between or the person she get to compare her past sexual performance with other men while you spend your money, invest time to take care of the children (whom may be from her previous relationships).

Conclusion

To know her past means you have to covertly pick her cues, how she behaves, feels when talking about her past. Draw your conclusions from this behaviors. Some men would just ask her directly, this is good but she will tell you what you want to hear not the honesty you are looking for. http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/04/13/3-reasons-you-need-to-know-the-type-of-men-she-slept-with-and-sexual-past-before-marrying-her/

This na Episto o!

Summary
Universal Donorship status nor dey quick wash, even with hypo!

Hope you know it works both ways and the women too have a right to sniff out our body counts too.

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Why would you want to get married in the first place ?