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How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by German1234(f): 9:07pm On May 16, 2010 |
I just have a few questions, How can I get a naijaboy to love me more? Is it important to show: - good housekeeper? - good in bed? - economically stability? Or something more, ? also, what does this mean: "Nkem, odi'ka ichoziri i isukarim na igbo. Nsowo adia kedi ife i'na eme ugboa. Muwa emechana efe nneme ugboa ozo ano echegi ugboa." Greetings from a nigerian-loving german |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by skfa1: 9:15pm On May 16, 2010 |
Just show that you are a good wife, for example cooking (No fast food), general house maintenance and be submissive to him. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by German1234(f): 9:19pm On May 16, 2010 |
skfa1: Yes it is my picture, why do you ask? Well, to be submissive is not a good thing, Or is it? |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by jesus3: 9:33pm On May 16, 2010 |
Maga won pay shout halleluyah |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by German1234(f): 9:34pm On May 16, 2010 |
c-zer: This is funny, why should I lie?? I am not black, Dont know where this is coming from, "kpako" |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by maedan(f): 9:59pm On May 16, 2010 |
@ German1234, It's a pity that only the jokers have taken interest in your topic. I think it's cool you want to understand your partner better, it shows you care and are sincere. Just be yourself, don't force it. There's no textbook way to get to a "Naija" man's heart. Some care about home cooking, some don't. Some care about you being submissive, but most just want you to be a strong woman. One major thing though is RESPECT. That's one fast way to keep a (good) Naija man. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by German1234(f): 10:08pm On May 16, 2010 |
maedan: Thank you for your reply! Yes it is most certainly a pity, But what can you expect from an internet forum? When you say "respect", what do you mean. There are many ways of giving respect I think, One is giving him the respect to be a man that wants to do what he wants to do. Another way is to respect his ways as a Nigerian - which I think is the best kind of respect you can give, |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Freiburger(m): 10:09pm On May 16, 2010 |
I see. Well, i wish you all the best in your search. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Donvilo(m): 10:43pm On May 16, 2010 |
German1234: This is what it means; "My dear, it seems that u intend to speak igbo more than i do. No problem. What's going on now? I'm already through with my job but another is waiting for u now." Hope i got it to ur satisfaction. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by no1madman(m): 10:46pm On May 16, 2010 |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by German1234(f): 10:47pm On May 16, 2010 |
odiaero: Okay, and what is it exactly I am trying to scam here? Good advise? haha, Yes, that will put me to jail for sure, I think that you are the 419 here! |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by fynedr(m): 11:10pm On May 16, 2010 |
guys, i dont think there's a reason to crucify the poster. she s in need of some quality advise, i think she deserves our candid opinion. i am wondering my self what she ll gain by faking her identity. even if she 's fake, it ll take another equally GREEDY chap to fall for her cheap blackmail. so pls hear her out. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Nobody: 11:34pm On May 16, 2010 |
Just be a nice girl/lady, show him you can make a good wife and always keep your words. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by maedan(f): 12:25am On May 17, 2010 |
Gosh!! Nairaland! You all never take anything serious. When it's a genuine person, you still doubt him/her. Yet you fall hard for the smooth-talking fakers. @ German1234, By "respect" I meant don't be rude, talk to him with courtesy no matter his financial/educational status etc. Western women are known to be very opinionated, but treating him with due respect would win any man's love. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Nenum(m): 12:59am On May 17, 2010 |
lets start from d basics. were is ur man from, how long have u guyz been together. is he mixed, niger proper or a lost son. dat wud help for a start |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Gabry(f): 1:14am On May 17, 2010 |
Poster, Yeah. . . To be with a Nigerian guy, you need to be submissive. . . You need to be a clean and neat girl. . . At least thats what I see in most Niegrian men need's. They get taste And u must know how to cook. . . And try to learn to cook their native dish! Thats like 10 points! But most of all, if their friends come by, your hosting skills is needed, They love it plus please whatever you do, dont serve them too much or any sugary items. and when u serving drinks, dont serve any if you dont have alcohol. Just let them source your fridge for drinks. LOL! And speaking about physical appearances, well, different men has different taste. Some like the lepa shandi some like lepa some like orobo and some likes puff puff |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Kgdavid(m): 1:47am On May 17, 2010 |
hmm i would have thought that we nigerian guys are the same as all other guys. there might be one or two cultural differences but u will have to find about from him directly and be ready to reach certain compromises. there is no rocket science to it you really just have to be yourself. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by newmusic: 4:18am On May 17, 2010 |
I am also in some foreign sites and they have never been so skeptical as you guys are. So she needs advice,give it to her. germany1234 :- Be submissive and learn to cook naija food. Have interest in his local language. Plan along with him on how he can make a better future. Do not turn yourself to a remote control,say out your opinion when and where necessary but have it in mind that he is the man and he deserves respect. Dont be a talkative in the midst of his friends or family,be calm as mush as possible and be a good listener. Please do not nag unnecessarily. Please do not smoke,if you drink alcohol,make it less than moderate. be very good in bed anytime you are making love,but don't be a intimacy machine,say no when you don't feel like. Pls use this for now,if i can remember something else,i will let you know. cheerz |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Gabry(f): 1:14pm On May 17, 2010 |
newmusic: GBAM!!! Exactly that!!! |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by djcrucifix(m): 3:30pm On May 17, 2010 |
you people have seriously deviated off this topic, if u want love from a naija bloke, d first tin na food *local delicacy*, second tin na submission, 3rd tin na care, 4th tin na straffs *naija boiz like kitten die*, etc etc, but if u do all dis tins and d guy no gree love u, na babalawo b d next step. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Gabry(f): 5:18pm On May 17, 2010 |
Gosh! Poster, Come to think of it. . . Naija men are kinda cute u know? I know they dont like getting angry with us females but at times its so good to make them angry cause their faces look like some cute little peanut and when they raise their voice, u can really see the man in them! Not any man but the REAL MAN!!! Oh Gosh! Its sooo good and the feeling is great! |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Ivynwa(f): 4:18am On May 18, 2010 |
Please love him and respect him very much, find out good things he likes and make him happy doing them okay. I beg to differ with this submissive thing not that I am challenging men. Relationships and marriage are all about two people respecting each other, when one of the party is disagreeing and is wrong at the same time, respect here means the other party arguing in love and trying to make the wrong partner over to the right path as gently and respectfully as possible to avoid heated arguments, nagging and unhappiness. A woman does not need to agree verbatim with a man when he is wrong in the name of submitting and making him feel like the head, she can still give her opinion respectfully. Should a woman close her eyes and watch her man lead their family astray because she has to submit? I believe that relationship and marriage is so much about loving and respecting each other to the point that there's no room for Mr. submission, if you love a woman you will not want to put her through stuffs that she hates but closes her eyes to in order to submit to you neither should she close her mouth when her man is doing dirty and risky deals. I'm not a feminist & neither am I saying this to spite men , I know how to compliment, respect and value the people around me and make them feel real appreciated.Our men are taking this submission thing to such levels that most men will go to a great length in search of a "yes woman" as a wife, it is very important to him that he can control her. What control? She is a human being like you, not a slave, not a servant. A mature human being does not need to control the people around him or his wife, just let her be as comfortable as you are in the relationship and you will have all her love. Will you rather your wife develops the fear of you and begin to detest you and not want you around, when you are nearing home her hearts beats faster. That is the unhappy condition many women in our country are living in. A person that desires to be submitted to,wants to be controlling and set out in search of a woman to control has some form of complex & lacks confidence. I know this will draw the ire of the unmatured ones here but yes somebody has to say this, if not now maybe in years to come because some of us have it all wrong. Us women already know that we need to make our men feel like the head of the family, submission is just not the word but respect is. Can't you see that that word is even making you naija men look like villains and bullies in the eyes of the world. Think hard about that! |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by denony(m): 7:58pm On May 18, 2010 |
well, i've read a lot candid advices here, so chose ye the part to follow |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by benabbey(m): 8:19pm On May 18, 2010 |
@German1234 don't you think you are wired differently, upbringing, culture, environment, mental attitude. To be able to jell you will learn to see through his coloured window panes |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by styles2009: 8:24pm On May 18, 2010 |
@German1234 Woher kommst du? es gibt ja viele Nigerianisce Maenner in DE/EU,der so eine huebsche wie du suchst? If he offer all you asked,what do you have to offer? |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by maedan(f): 8:27pm On May 18, 2010 |
benabbey: Hmmmmn. Poetic . |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by timothyedo(m): 8:30pm On May 18, 2010 |
Be a good cook. Clean the house. Be submissive. Look good always, don`t let your self down because you are now together. I will suggest you learn to cook some naija dishes. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Acidosis(m): 8:39pm On May 18, 2010 |
just 'be' yourself and don't cheat on him, ok? |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by boomii(f): 9:03pm On May 18, 2010 |
How did this make front page You can pick from any of the candid advice here, just try to be yourself cos life has got no specific rules. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Akosbaba(m): 9:04pm On May 18, 2010 |
Good in bed? |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by gregejige: 9:15pm On May 18, 2010 |
E be like say una don chase the oyinbo poster away sef. |
Re: How Do I Get A Naija Boy To Love Me? by Xbox1: 9:19pm On May 18, 2010 |
gregejige: |
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