I tried the first, it didn't work . I tried the second and third time, it didn't work. I am now on the forth and it is likely I am turn down. To a lot of people, life may seem easy but for me it is not easy for the single fact that approaching ladies has been my problem. I will see someone I like but the issue is that I end up beign turned down. At one time I used to think may be it is because I dont have too much money. I see people who has less money than I am, being successful in the lady they crave for. I am opened to any form of comment; what I need is how to do it better the next time I approach a Lady I really like. I am afraid of the fact that I may end up marrying somone who I don't love . Most times, approaching them is nt a big deal, the major problem is how to withstand any form of rejection heat from them or how to continously convince them that I really like them despite their attitude of rejection towards me. It has gotten to stage where I now fear any lady I like with the thinking that I may be turned down. At times when I think of the whole issue, I go into depression and will like sleeping and not waking because that aspect of my life is not complete.

Maybe your going beyond standard.....


I mean going for Kim K kinda without Kanyes worth ...

you can get ANY lady you want....it depends on your approach.
i dont know you personally but the next girl you like, dont just go running off your mouth telling her you love her...try and be her friend..
people hardly refuse their friends anything..

i for talk more but i dey inside church

Same problem here op. The fear of rejection usually engulf my heart each time I make a move to any girl and it has made me to distanced myself from ladies because I see them as the same when I see guys who I can say I'm fair than selecting girls I begin to think where one has problem of rejection by girls one is still selecting girls. What a world!!!.

DDeliverer:
you can get ANY lady you want....it depends on your approach.
i dont know you personally but the next girl you like, dont just go running off your mouth telling her you love her...try and be her friend..
people hardly refuse their friends anything..

i for talk more but i dey inside church

Thanks for giving me hope again.

Try not to approach a lady out of the blues. Try to make urself noticed and get a little acquainted first. Might help alittle. And wooing a gal u love is not just a one day stuff. Gals love to sideline guys to c how serious they are dats if they r interested

elijah2u:
Same problem here op. The fear of rejection usually engulf my each time I make a move to any girl and it has made me to distanced myself from ladies because I see them as the same when I see guys who I can say I'm fair than selecting girls I begin to think where one has problem of rejection by girls one is still selecting girls. What a world!!!.

I was thinking I was d only one in that condition ooo. I will almost go mad when I get a yes from some1 I like so much. I am love-starved!

HUGGING TRANSFORMER IS THE SOLUTION.

dachaste:
Try not to approach a lady out of the blues. Try to make urself noticed and get a little acquainted first. Might help alittle. And wooing a gal u love is not just a one day stuff. Gals love to sideline guys to c how serious they are dats if they r interested

Prof Prof

Lagban:
I was thinking I was d only one in that condition ooo. I will almost go mad when I get a yes from some1 I like so much. I am love-starved!

you will not first believe her until she open up she has accepted you wholeheartedly that's what will happened if a girl I love say yes to me cos it will be like movie or dreams .

younghartz:
you can sweep any lady off her feet provided you're using the right broom....improve on yourself first

hmm..Owk