I read a news release some time ago where it was reported that many eligible grooms in the north are dumping the city girls to settle for ladies in the idp camps and this was seen as unfair by the city ladies.

It is indeed unfair for guys to dump their ladies for no tangible reason to settle for IDP ladies,but i really don't blame them considering the pedigree of some of these city girls.

This is an excerpts from the news release:
"Some of the girl that spoke to Daily Trust, who call themselves ‘city girls’, said all the girls in the IDP camps are villagers who want to relocate to the city that is why they are offering themselves cheaply to men, referring to low bride prices and other costs attached to marriage in the region".
http://pulse.ng/weddings/in-borno-eligible-grooms-rush-to-idp-camps-for-brides-over-cheaper-dowry-id4192399.html

The lesson i want many ladies to learn from this is that most guys are not interested in your sophistication or your accent neither are guys interested in spending so much to marry a lady who asides the fact that she can not boast of sexual chastity,she will find difficult to be as domestic as she ought to be.

Men are not only interested in your classy outlook or your level of enlightenment but men want a wife first before all that and tell me which guy will not be tempted to get a fresh,sexy,humble "village" lady who will be ready to do a wife duty without stressing out your finance and most of all,you don't have to break your safe to marry them.

If every city lady can be humble and domesticated enough,if every educated classy lady can mellow down enough to understand that sophistication and modern life is the reason why many ladies of marriageable age are still unmarried,the better it will be for them.

Hope this makes sense.

The pishure make sense. The designs on the girl's hand is so cute and simple.

Ehen are all ladies city girls,Op it depend d tribe a man his marrying from...and wife material are all over d country, shine ur eyes well

Nothong good comes cheap and nothing good tears the pocket!

happyjuliet:
Ehen are all ladies city girls,Op it depend d tribe a man his marrying from...and wife material are all over d country, shine ur eyes well

What is my own?

Its funny how people quickly juxtapose a write up with the writer. This was what i read and i wrote my opinion on the matter.

Asides that im not buying the shine your eyes assertion cos that is what every city lady says....im different is their national item but at the end same ni.

mictima:
Nothong good comes cheap and nothing good tears the pocket!

It might interest you that good things dont come easy yet they readily come with little cost so contrary to your opinion,i believe good things usually dont cost much.

The interpretation i can.give to this thread is that men want a wife(an indirect slave)first before you bring in your sophisticated self....













END TIME MEN

misspicy:
The interpretation i can.give to this thread is that men want a wife(an indirect slave)first before you bring in your sophisticated self....













END TIME MEN

That end time thingy got me cracked up...now you are talking like a city girl. ..when does being a wife tantamount to slavery?

misspicy:
The interpretation i can.give to this thread is that men want a wife(an indirect slave)first before you bring in your sophisticated self....
END TIME MEN

End Time misuse of End Time. This is the dream. Life would be so much simpler and pleasant

JimiCoker:

End Time misuse of End Time. This is the dream. Life would be so much simpler and pleasant

end time mention .......end time daddy

Toks2008:


That end time thingy got me cracked up...now you are talking like a city girl. ..when does being a wife tantamount to slavery?

when you start to.look for someone to serve you in the name of being a wife

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What is my own?

Its funny how people quickly juxtapose a write up with the writer. This was what i read and i wrote my opinion on the matter.

Asides that im not buying the shine your eyes assertion cos that is what every city lady says....im different is their national item but at the end same ni.


Congrats

misspicy:


end time mention .......end time daddy

End Time baby

End Time morning

End Time Igbira
Abele?

JimiCoker:
End Time baby
End Time morning
End Time Igbira Abele?

igala

misspicy:

igala

Ugala, mepuffpuff

Lol, yeah. Sometimes get the two mixed up. Agba emi