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| 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by wristbangle: 6:26pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
The notion that a responsible guy will accept a lady despite her flaws and shortcomings are fast loosing track because of so many factors which need to be considered or put in place regardless of how good looking or gorgeous a lady might be. Even though a lady cannot be perfect in character, it is expected of her to make corrections where necessary especially in her mode of dressing, mode of speaking, behavioural pattern and many more; in order to attract responsible "chairmen". Therefore, 8 things ladies need to fix before a responsible man can marry them are as follows; 1. Financial dependence and/or over extravagant/wasteful spending No responsible man wants to marry a lady who mount financial pressure on him at all times, and spends wastefully without considering future possible challenge. Ladies need to understand that we are no longer in the olden days where men harbour their wives in the house, not allowing them to work. Ladies who depend so much on vague things to lifting their financial burden, and spend wastefully need to upgrade their "Operating System" before they are being placed on OLX by their parents 2. Bad attitude The large percent of pretty ladies are somewhat dumb and lack rational thinking. This is because the compliments they receive daily tend to becloud their right sense of reasoning, hence, they become rude and talk foolishly. However, they display all manners of derogatory attitudes such as pride, over-bloated ego, etc. These display of attitudes need to be fixed before in order to attract responsible suitors. 3. Unappealing way of dressing If given chance, some ladies could walk naked on the streets. Some of them dress indecently and provocatively that you begin to wonder if they have brains at all. I am not trying to say that a lady should wear "parachute or agbada" before she can attract a responsible man, but she needs to dress responsibly and reasonably. 4. Poor intellect Some slowpoke ladies believe that beauty is all a responsible man crave for and that is why they use different measures to look beautiful, without venturing in intellectual exercise that will enhance her market value. Ladies need to know that no matter how pretty they are, their boyfriends can dump them for not so pretty ladies. 5. Proving hard to get I don't know why some ladies derive joy in playing kite or chess with the lives of their suitors. It's very important to know that the chase will always dwindle as you grow older. Some ladies have lost their future husbands with this hard-to-get principles. At the end of the day, they will start visiting prophets, herbalists, guru maraji, etc, for deliverance from delayed marriage. 6. Untidiness and laziness During courtship, some ladies will start telling you the number of maids they want as soon as they marry. These ladies are extremely lazy and can't even wash plate or clothes. I have even heard quite a few number of ladies saying " I can't wash my husband's clothes because I'm not his maid". They need to recondition their minds and work on their laziness. 7. Unwilling to do house chores This is a huge turn off for guys who visit a lady's house only to discover that everywhere is upside down. Pants and bras are hovering at every corner of the room; unwashed smelling plates in the kitchen, etc. This will reduce the chase of a man towards that lady. 8. Dating several guys The worth of some ladies is measured by the number of "chairmen" stalking them. You see some of them bragging to their friends that they've got so many suitor asking for a date. As soon as I notice this shameful act in a lady, I will just lose interest in her and drift away. 54 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by tosyne2much(m): 6:27pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Wristbangle, the write-up is flawless. Thumbs up baba  Since you have started the aluta, lemme continue  9. Not Replying PMs Each time I send avalanche of PMs to a lady and she intentionally decides not to reply, I will shake my head for such a lady, and my respect and regard for such a lady will dwindle afterwards. This reminds me when I sent a PM to a lady (don't ask me for her moniker ). She replied and the following conversation ensued "Tosyne2much: Hello Miss....... Miss...... : Tosyne, please I want to draw your attention to something, please, don't ever send me a PM cos I'm not looking for a boyfriend on nairaland. I know your intention of sending PM. Please I'm in a relationship that will land on the alta soon, so don't think you can get me with your 10 things 10 that, so steer clear off me 10. Being Too Hostile Many ladies have lost potential husbands due to ignorance and hostility. However, many have chased their husbands away just because they couldn't answer the question "where did you get my PIN or phone number?" . Last month, I added a lady on BBM and before I knew it, she PING me saying I won't succeed if I added her with the intention of getting under her skirt. She further added that I should introduce myself, or else, she will use the deleted feature at once. They need to stop this silly attitude in order not to be placed on LOX, so that they can attract responsible "chairmen" like us *Nobody should quote me, or else, I will show you why elephants and hippopotamus are the only mammals that cant jump* *Permit me to add this Bonus* Social Media Addiction A lady needs to be apply moderation in surfing the web. Sometimes you will see a lady registered on all social media bashing guys here and there, and giving 1, 000 reasons as to why they can't date guys like Cutehector, TheSonOfMark, Decker, Agawaru23, etc simply because they aren't working in Shell or Chevron. The same lady is registered on Twitter, Badoo, Facebook, Mocospace, Instagram, 2go, and the likes, giving relationship advice at odds hours (1am- 5am). Haba na only u ? I can't imagine dating such a lady *Nobody should quote me, otherwise, I wil show you why elephants and hippopotamus are the only mammals that can't jump* 46 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Over 50% Of Ladies are Guilty of Most, If not all Of the things you listed Above. Little Wonder Most of them End up With Irresponsible Men. BUT your Number 5 Though. You know "Playing hard to get" is a Norm in Most Ladies, They think it makes them appear less Cheap. My Question is; How does "Playing hard to get" attract irresponsible Men? What is the mechanism  We all know that Number 8 is an "Unavoidable" practice amongst Most Ladies today. That leads me to my earlier conclusion. Great Thread! 11 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Op nice points. But sadly nothing can be done about point 4. The ill-wittedness of some ladies just can't be helped. Some are just inherently_stupid and not much can be done about that. But funny enough, ladies like this still do find husbands. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by cashcity: 6:41pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Some ladyz dnt believe they can offer any other thing in dis life except that ther sexuality... Kiss, romance, sex dats wt most now believe they are created for. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
You should also create a thread about this... Lemme give You some insights... "10 Things All Guys should fix before A Responsible Woman Could Marry His Ass..." Potbelly××  just thinking about it gives me the creeps! ugh..No packs/Muscles--Another big Turnoff.. The likes of tupac, treysongs, Christ brown, D Rock? ain't they humans? You guys should start workingOut abeg!  About the muscles ish, how do You expect to protect your beloved wifey without muscles ?? ehn?Snoring In bed×× We already have enough noise pollution in Nigeria as it is. Too much beards/untrimmed goatie..A huge turnoff..×× beardgang my ass!  Too Much Sex..×× Girls are Humans people!! not sextôys! Grumpy Attitude×× ugh. Too many Social networks..×× one humanbeing would be on Fb, whatsapp, bbm, Nairaland, IG, Yahoo, Twitter, snapchat, Skype, IMO... ugh! it shows you're very unserious..  Bad Cook... It's Imperative that A good husby should learn howtah Cook...Not just indomie!  Good hygiene--its No news that guys wear their boxers twice a year? y'all need to change that too.. Girls have nose! Unwillingness to do chores--He should also learn Howtah do laundries.. e,g his wife's undies and all that? very romantic... ugh!! the list is endless!!! I think I'm done? thankme later? 51 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by wristbangle: 6:43pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Decker: Thanks brother. It's a pity that one cannot change what's already corrupt except if the person choose to change. I know that some ladies will take offence in this article but I hope they can learn from it |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by wristbangle: 6:45pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Esther! I have created your requested thread in the past. 8 Things Guys Need To Fix Before Approaching A Lady 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
wristbangle:Well, You missed those! |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Eliass: 6:47pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Estharfabian: lol if I hear beside is dis d Esther I used to know in Fb? |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by wristbangle: 6:49pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Everything was included infact u did not mention "mouth odour" 2 Likes |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by TheSonOfMark(m): 6:50pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
cashcity:You aren't far from the truth. Most contemporary females believe the best compliment one can give them is "YOU'RE SEXY". Everything they do is geared towards enhancing their looks which they believe is the basic requisite for attaining success. They do little or nothing to develop themselves intellectually. They prefer to preen than read. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Laveda(f): 6:50pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Nice points wristbangle  You won't blame these ladies when they play hard to get ..guys sometimes term some ladies cheap when they accept too quick...but I think I've gone past such stage 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Eliass:Ugh...Maybe? I used to be on Facebook? Practically fbf..Buh I stopped using the account ages ago... made lots of enemies..2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Hadez(f): 6:51pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Decker:this is just too harsh. I pity your wife  1 Like |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
wristbangle:Oh! yeah!! missed that... You included packs and muscles too?? I think I Like You already!! |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by shegxi(m): 6:53pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Let d bickering begin 2 Likes |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Hadez(f): 6:53pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Op you are right though, we all(irrespective of the gender) have to do away with some bad attitude in order to become responsible enough for out family. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Nobody: 6:55pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Hadez: Did I say anything that isn't true? Besides, I said some, not all. And how does this have anything to do with my wife? 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Hadez(f): 6:56pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Nice counter. Go girl!  1 Like |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Dotwillis1(m): 6:56pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Their excess foundation powder too 3 Likes |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by funlord(m): 6:56pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
| Oh no! A thread like this can only end up in "gender based carnage"!!! Na to observe be that!!!! **quietly sips green label mixed with kunu** 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Hadez(f): 6:59pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Decker:You hit the nail too hard on the head. What if you are telling her something and you are being to harsh about it. Remember no matter how strong a woman might seem to be. She is still a woman with fragile heart  |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by agarawu23(m): 6:59pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
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| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by wristbangle: 7:02pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
tosyne2much: Brilliant comments bro especially point 9. An example of this happened to me few days ago. |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by wristbangle: 7:03pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Babe, u gat no choice. Wait wait... can u explain in details about packs and muscle? Is it a turn on or off for u? |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by agarawu23(m): 7:05pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Some ladies are just permanently silly, some don't even know what they want I recently deleted and blocked one 2days ago. If you dey claim say u fine or you are feeling somehow important, I will make u feel like u never exist 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by wristbangle: 7:05pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Laveda: What if I tell you that I love u. Are u willing to date me immediately? |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by ShakurM(m): 7:06pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
What gives me pain is seeing a beautiful girl with eyebrow on fleek, brains on sleep, IQ lower than my hanging balls. They can't hold an intelligent conversation , I can't stand it! 15 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by wristbangle: 7:06pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
agarawu23: Epic! Hahaha |
| Re: 8 Things Ladies Need To Fix Before A Responsible Man Can Marry Them by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jan 07, 2016 |
Hadez:Haha! High5! |
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