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7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by topzywazzy(m): 9:38pm On Dec 11, 2015
1. ‘I’m too busy for this’ There will definitely be times
when you will feel
overwhelmed by your work
pressure and even personal
issues at home due to which
you won’t be able to give your undivided attention to
your partner. However, even
if your partner approaches
you with a problem or even
for a certain conversation
while you’re under a lot of pressure, avoid brushing her
off with this phrase. By doing
so, you are only going to
make her feel like what she
has to say is not important
enough. Instead, just briefly explain your situation to your
partner when you’re too
caught up with your own life
to avoid any
misunderstandings. Here are 8 ways to build intimacy with your partner.

2. ‘Stop wearing that’ Don’t try to dictate what
your partner should or
shouldn’t wear. Avoid
making her feel
uncomfortable about her
choice of clothes and accept her the way she is if you
want the relationship to last.
Did you know that a strong
relationship helps keep stress away ?

3. ‘I don’t like your
friends’ Your partner has most
probably known her friends
for several years and even
grew up with some of them.
Even if you might strongly
dislike your partner’s friends due to various reasons, avoid
voicing your opinions about
them, especially if they are
negative. Instead, you could
simply restrict the amount of
time you spend with her friends to avoid any form of
friction.

4. ‘You won’t understand’ This is probably one of the
most hurtful things you can
say to your partner because it
implies that you don’t think
your partner has the ability to
gauge how you might be feeling and what kind of
impact a certain life event had
on you. Also, you will only
further alienate your partner
by using this phrase.

5. ‘Never mind’ This is one of the most
frustrating answer you can
give to your partner. Of
course, there will be times
when you might not be in the
mood to explain something, especially after a heated
argument. If that is the case,
then ask for some time for
you to process your thoughts
and feelings before resuming
with the conversation. By saying ‘never mind’, it will
only sound like you are
brushing her off.

6. ‘Do what you want’ Unfortunately, fights and
conflicts are an unavoidable
part of any relationship and
there will be times when you
and your partner might have
conflicting interests. If such a situation arises, avoid being
passive aggressive by using
this phrase.

7. ‘Stop talking to him’ Again, avoid dictating what
your partner should or
shouldn’t do. By restricting
who she should talk to, you
will only come across as
jealous, insecure and immature. Not to mention, it
also means you don’t trust her
enough. By exhibiting such
behaviour, it is only a matter
of time before your
relationship disintegrates.

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Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Nobody: 9:39pm On Dec 11, 2015
Last Days advise
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by tundelis(m): 9:40pm On Dec 11, 2015
end time post
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Nobody: 9:40pm On Dec 11, 2015
with all these 7 things, 10 things, 20 ways, cases of divorces are on the increase.!

Mek una take time o!
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Cutehector(m): 9:41pm On Dec 11, 2015
Nice
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by midehi2(f): 9:41pm On Dec 11, 2015
'Never mind' i hate that
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by greatness22(m): 10:02pm On Dec 11, 2015
midehi2:
'Never mind' i hate that
Are u sure u can.......
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Nobody: 10:05pm On Dec 11, 2015
I've said all that.
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by obiorathesubtle: 8:29am On Dec 12, 2015
I've said all that and she still loves me like crazy... You're just misguided.
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Aremu01(m): 12:13pm On Dec 12, 2015
I don't agree with everything

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