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7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by topzywazzy(m): 9:38pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
1. ‘I’m too busy for this’ There will definitely be times when you will feel overwhelmed by your work pressure and even personal issues at home due to which you won’t be able to give your undivided attention to your partner. However, even if your partner approaches you with a problem or even for a certain conversation while you’re under a lot of pressure, avoid brushing her off with this phrase. By doing so, you are only going to make her feel like what she has to say is not important enough. Instead, just briefly explain your situation to your partner when you’re too caught up with your own life to avoid any misunderstandings. Here are 8 ways to build intimacy with your partner. 2. ‘Stop wearing that’ Don’t try to dictate what your partner should or shouldn’t wear. Avoid making her feel uncomfortable about her choice of clothes and accept her the way she is if you want the relationship to last. Did you know that a strong relationship helps keep stress away ? 3. ‘I don’t like your friends’ Your partner has most probably known her friends for several years and even grew up with some of them. Even if you might strongly dislike your partner’s friends due to various reasons, avoid voicing your opinions about them, especially if they are negative. Instead, you could simply restrict the amount of time you spend with her friends to avoid any form of friction. 4. ‘You won’t understand’ This is probably one of the most hurtful things you can say to your partner because it implies that you don’t think your partner has the ability to gauge how you might be feeling and what kind of impact a certain life event had on you. Also, you will only further alienate your partner by using this phrase. 5. ‘Never mind’ This is one of the most frustrating answer you can give to your partner. Of course, there will be times when you might not be in the mood to explain something, especially after a heated argument. If that is the case, then ask for some time for you to process your thoughts and feelings before resuming with the conversation. By saying ‘never mind’, it will only sound like you are brushing her off. 6. ‘Do what you want’ Unfortunately, fights and conflicts are an unavoidable part of any relationship and there will be times when you and your partner might have conflicting interests. If such a situation arises, avoid being passive aggressive by using this phrase. 7. ‘Stop talking to him’ Again, avoid dictating what your partner should or shouldn’t do. By restricting who she should talk to, you will only come across as jealous, insecure and immature. Not to mention, it also means you don’t trust her enough. By exhibiting such behaviour, it is only a matter of time before your relationship disintegrates. http://africwap.com/2015/12/09/7-things-you-should-never-say-to-your-partner/ |
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Nobody: 9:39pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
Last Days advise |
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by tundelis(m): 9:40pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
end time post |
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Nobody: 9:40pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
with all these 7 things, 10 things, 20 ways, cases of divorces are on the increase.! Mek una take time o! |
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Cutehector(m): 9:41pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
Nice |
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by midehi2(f): 9:41pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
'Never mind' i hate that |
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by greatness22(m): 10:02pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
midehi2:Are u sure u can....... |
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Nobody: 10:05pm On Dec 11, 2015 |
I've said all that. |
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by obiorathesubtle: 8:29am On Dec 12, 2015 |
I've said all that and she still loves me like crazy... You're just misguided. |
Re: 7 Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Partner by Aremu01(m): 12:13pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
I don't agree with everything |
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