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Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by NifemiOlu(m): 10:44am On Dec 23, 2015 |
donTbone: Only dumb people need consent from others to get married. And intelligent people don't throw insult online. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by donTbone(m): 10:47am On Dec 23, 2015 |
NifemiOlu:Only smart ppl will know questions are not insult! |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by norame(f): 10:47am On Dec 23, 2015 |
OSU my ass.... That believe is nonsense. Happiness is the most important in marriage and she has find one. She should first of all talk to her parents in a matured manner and at the same time her final decision before them. Thanks |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 10:56am On Dec 23, 2015 |
That's scary. Lol Was just thinking if they don't know nothing or heard nothing about it, they be safe. Since ignorance is bliss. Lol icedbeatz: |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Otsealu1(f): 11:43am On Dec 23, 2015 |
Sometimes parents can be so annoying. Why will they accept introduction without knowing anything about the guy? It is very necessary that when your child brings someone home, you quickly find out about that person and warn your child if its not what you want before you accept that person and whatever they bring. Na wa oooo. After introduction you will now come and tell me rubbish, it will not work na. 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by rockyh(m): 1:07pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
GboyegaD:in a typical igbo tradition,a girl is married to her husband's family so goes to the man cos they play important roles in the marriage |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Monalisa185(f): 1:37pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
hustler86:what part of my smiley is confusing you? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by 400billionman: 1:48pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
funkyibodude: So you want her to terminate the pregnancy and marry her father ? End time advice. Ler her family not be involved nah. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by hustler86(m): 2:39pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Monalisa185:This |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Clarakings(f): 3:52pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
I will start like this. Marriage is a lifelong commitment and one should think carefully before going into. Good news both of you love each other very much. Now Osu caste system is still strongly practiced in some Igbo communities inspite of the advent of christianity. And I can understand where the parents are coming from. Even if she eventually wins the parents' consent, I doubt if the members of her family will want to partake in such marriage. Before she makes up her mind and go ahead to marry the guy: *she should confide in her mother about the pregnancy and see if they will shift ground *Incase the parents refuses still, can she live without her parents' blessing for all her married life *Can she ignore the effect on her kids All in all, she should pray and seek God's counsel. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by MattChidi(m): 4:57pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
Just break up with him immediately. Osu cast system is something that even religion cannot stop. The consequences of marrying one is far more hurting than you can think of. A broken relationship is better than a marriage of bitterness! Find a way to tell him you're ending the relationship. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Chuksgeo: 6:09pm On Dec 23, 2015 |
why get pregnant before being married. I don't support Osu in igbo land, it is barbaric and a lot of igbos will go to hell just because of this |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by mikolo80: 6:02am On Dec 24, 2015 |
rockyh:hear hear, traditions must be upheld. time to start beheading twithey must not be allowed to live.also women are properties, not property o, but properties and must be married to their dead husbands brother with no inheritance and put ashes on their head and drink dead husband juice. yes tradition must be upheld...... not. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by nnamdiosu(m): 10:08am On Dec 24, 2015 |
donTbone: oh... i finally get. the problem was that actually, you don't know the meaning of some English words you are using. fyi, consent means approval o. (you can confirm from the dic). meaning friends must give approval first. also you said.......[/quote]Friends too aren't neccessary... No probs, just go ahead and marry without seeking for advice and wisdom from elders![/quote]. bros.. friends and elders are two different things na. why are you confusing yourself. are you sure you don't need to start an english blog of words and meaning instead?... this dating blog doesnt seem to work. #softer |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 24, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod:i think that force is a legal practioner, ignorance of its law is not an excuse for its people hahahahaahahahahah. I Wish well to the people that wants to go against it though. At some point someone have to MANDELA this things. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 10:17am On Dec 24, 2015 |
icedbeatz:hahahahaha this got me laughing had. Bros, You can be the Mandela. Fight against it bruv. You can do it |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 5:10pm On Dec 24, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod:hahasha nooooo not against something that i cant see. Not me bro. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 5:29pm On Dec 24, 2015 |
icedbeatz:see this Bros o. Hahahahaha all is well sha. May we never fall victim |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by mamachizzy(f): 6:05pm On Dec 24, 2015 |
whether we admit it or not, family is important when getting married. She shld try as much as possible for her parents to accept de man she wants to marry and give them their blessings. I knw it will be hard or almost impossible, am an Igbo gal and I understand dis OSU ish. That thing can mess up Ur life and hurt Ur own children but at least with de blessings of her family, it will be easier |
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