My good friend married about three years ago to a loving sister but their home is sour now.

He said " she is not romantic, hardly had I enjoyed up to twenty rounds of sex with her. Yet God blessed us with a handsome son. I have ever remained faithful as well as she. She is sex-phobia in nature. I did so many things to help her out but failed. I therefore took this as a cross and reward of my failure to be a Reverend Father. I determined to move on by having romantic ladies as friends without breaking my marital vows I.e without sex or relationship. All I have ever met ended up seeking for something higher than my power.

Finally, I met a single lady recently, we got along quickly. I later found out that she is her type in sex-phobia but shown some care in conversations, although she is in a relationship but afraid to settle down. I have encouraged her to settle down, she promise to work on it but wish to even become Reverend Sister if possible.

Since I met this lady, I experienced happiness and off my mind on any evil sexual thought like before. She always engaged me with chatting, we only met twice and she cares for my family.

Lastly, my wife found out about her and sent abusive message to her yesterday. She replied my wife back by swearing never to have any evil to do with me and she can't break any home. She blocked me on all the social media and stopped to pick my calls after wishing me luck. Now I feel bad toward my wife, I left home since yesterday. Please advise"

Please don't mind the grammar help out

Go home first.

Respect yasef and keep it that way.

Don't try to get back to "the lady"..

And take ur wife to a psychologist

prayer x da key

Try to find out how ur wife got deflowered, or if she has an ugly sexual experience coz sex is a natural thing nd shudnt b driven by phobia.


Better still, let her meet a therapist or u shud see a qualified counselor for Marriage Counselling.





As for ur female friend, she did d right thing by blocking you off.
I have being in her shoe once nd knw her embarrassing it is.

You only need to find a way to apologise to her nd after stay away frm her.


Marriage is not a bed of roses you knw and trials are inevitable

Tinz lyk dis baffles me a lot' wat were u plp discussin during courtship' and how cum its after 3yrs u jst realised she's gat dis sex phobia syndrom n' u still went and jam anoda sex phobia woman' visit mfm 4 serious deliverance

U shouldn't hold anything against ur wife. She was only doing what she could to keep her husband. Ur Lady friend indeed doesn't want to be a home breaker and that's commendable.

Now, pay more attention to ur wife and son and see what u can do to revive ur sex life. Surf the net for information on such issues... Take ur wife for therapy, if u must. But pls, the situation needs to be looked into. Ur marriage is still very young.

stupidity.


your wife did what a normal woman would have done.

prettyjo:
stupidity.

your wife did what a normal woman would have done.

God will deliver u frm d insurgency of d enemy.

Gbam!!! He said my mind

Tallesty1:
Go home first.

And which is?

prettyjo:
stupidity.

your wife did what a normal woman would have done.