I got this from a friend: I met a young charming guy about 8months ago. We had two mind blowing dates (no sex) and I was swept off my feet literally. The guy is very intelligent,knows a lot about different stuffs, witty, funloving, kind, ambitious, truthful, love kids, very humble and a good dresser (GQ style). I got to know about his faith on bbm when he posted *Alhamdillilah*. I asked him and he confirmed he is a liberal spirit filled muslim.lol. There and then I knew friendship was the last bus.stop between us. I had to give in to an xtian guy that was also on my case but in all areas he cant hold a candle to the muslim guy's sun. I sent an sms to the muslim guy and explained why the r/ship will not work. Religious difference.. He asked for another date & he literally schooled me in bible knowledge & explained the unequally yoked meaning . I got to know he is a petroleum engineer ,(upstream), a poet and a professional chef. We maintained our friendship and he kept asking me for a relationship. He is very caring,matured(29) and family oriented.I was at his beautiful crib and saw his massive library.i have met his Sister (xtian), a doctor & she is very hospitable.He has made me a better person.in my faith (drives me to church),work, and finances. I have tried to make him jealous with my boyfriend on social media but he appears very calm but he has seem a bit withdrawn lately. he does not call anymore.I love him so much as I think of him everytime & cry at night.I have tested his love for me & he has passed 100% but my parents are strong xtians and they would disown me if they hear I am dating a muslim. He is from a dual religious home. His father, an educated Alhaji.mom xtian & they are yoruba.He says he wants to marry me & he would allow me practice my religion. I am from Akwaibom (26). what do I do.

Stop being stupid...mtsw

Gurrrrllll..... All I can say is he's not your soulmate then.

Tell your friend to try apple hair cream, it is an affordable alternative to soul mate.

Eyah. Your lover is a potential terrorist. Flee for your life before it's too late. Islam is synonymous with death.

Tallesty1:
Tell your friend to try apple hair cream, it is an affordable alternative to soul mate.

.....LOL
Or better still Damatol

Women and their plenty problems.......

MelancholicGuy:
Eyah. Your lover is a potential terrorist. Flee for your life before it's too late. Islam is synonymous with death.

I don't usually like to dabble into religion, particularly Islam as its not my fort. But I think it's wrong to assume Islam represent death.

There are over 1.6billion Muslims in the world and if they're what you said world war would be a child's play compared to the catastroph that would have befallen the world.

You or your friend?

The poster should look before she leaps sha. Some people might tell you they would allow you practice your religion just to make you succumb but start forcing their belief on you when married.

A lot of people are intolerant when it comes to religion and in an excessively religious country like Nigeria friends and associates might making caricature of him for allowing his wife practice a different faith which would mount pressure on him to change your belief.

ronald4lif:


I don't usually like to dabble into religion, particularly Islam as its not my fort. But I think it's wrong to assume Islam represent death.

There are over 1.6billion Muslims in the world and if they're what you said world war would be a child's play compared to the catastroph that would have befallen the world.

Islam is a dark, secret cult which is operating under the guise of religion. Islam has always been an evil entity hiding beneath the cloak of a so-called nonexistent, peaceful religion. When traced back to its origin, it would be ascertained that Islam was erected on an evil platform. Their unending thirst for war and blood is very terrible. They impose harsh orders on people. Anyone that challenges the Islamic rules is liable to suffer a cruel death. Islams as a whole do not have human sympathy, they do not have an atom of respect for human life, they slaughter with ease as if humans are animals. Atleast animals still deserve some respect. I wouldn't make a mistake of consenting to a person's relationship with a muslim, be him a relation or a friend. Muslims have shown to the whole world that their siblings and pals are insignificant in the pursuit of Islam. I stand to rightly say that the islamic religion is solely characterised by voilent acts. Beasts who are unfeeling as wood. I heard a case of one unfortunate girl who was gladly beheaded by her own blood brothers because she renounced islam and its woes and was in league with her christian boyf. Other religions wouldn't muster the courage to perepuate such wicked act but muslims. The Boko Haram Sect, the shiite group, are all works of muslim. We blame the Bifras (the Bifras who are being killed on a regular basis by the muslims) for clamoring for independence from Nigerian in unison. I let you know one thing bro: if Igbos are granted their request, then Nigeria would fall apart - the movie industry, music industry and others numerous to mention would perish. What do our lovable muslim brothers and hijab sisters contribute to the growth of our beloved nation, if not countless deaths?
There's nothing left to say bro. As far as I'm concerned, Muslims are blockheaded beasts possessed by demons of ages. World war? LOL. Humour me.They wouldn't dare sneeze. Unless they want to be grinded into unforgotten ruins.

If he's a yoruba muslim,then no problem they are very tolerant. A northerner or middle-belt muslim however...

Follow the advice of your parents cos him is following his own father's step.
You may not know now until when you're fully married to him then you will see certain doctrine that you wouldn't like e.g if he decides to take a second wife his religion permits him but there is nothing you can do but the regret everything.
Just let him go the God you serve will give you the best.

captain247:
Follow the advice of your parents cos him is following his own father's step.
You may not know now until when you're fully married to him then you will see certain doctrine that you wouldn't like e.g if he decides to take a second wife his religion permits him but there is nothing you can do but the regret everything.
Just let him go the God you serve will give you the best.

Look into this Op!

Who cares abt Religion dis days? My sis plss shut up. u don't even love him. Love conquers all.

ronald4lif:
The poster should look before she leaps sha. Some people might tell you they would allow you practice your religion just to make you succumb but start forcing their belief on you when married.

A lot of people are intolerant when it comes to religion and in an excessively religious country like Nigeria friends and associates might making caricature of him for allowing his wife practice a different faith which would mount pressure on him to change your belief.

I think he would allow her to

There are lots of inter faith marriages in the western part of Nigeria

ronald4lif:


I don't usually like to dabble into religion, particularly Islam as its not my fort. But I think it's wrong to assume Islam represent death.

There are over 1.6billion Muslims in the world and if they're what you said world war would be a child's play compared to the catastroph that would have befallen the world.

thanks for killing another religious war. @op choosing a life partner is not by gambling. I advice you pray more so that God can show you the way, and dont disobey or be rude to ur parents under any circumstance.

bamid2:
I got this from a friend: I met a young charming guy about 8months ago. We had two mind blowing dates (no sex) and I was swept off my feet literally. The guy is very intelligent,knows a lot about different stuffs, witty, funloving, kind, ambitious, truthful, love kids, very humble and a good dresser (GQ style). I got to know about his faith on bbm when he posted *Alhamdillilah*. I asked him and he confirmed he is a liberal spirit filled muslim.lol. There and then I knew friendship was the last bus.stop between us. I had to give in to an xtian guy that was also on my case but in all areas he cant hold a candle to the muslim guy's sun. I sent an sms to the muslim guy and explained why the r/ship will not work. Religious difference.. He asked for another date & he literally schooled me in bible knowledge & explained the unequally yoked meaning . I got to know he is a petroleum engineer ,(upstream), a poet and a professional chef. We maintained our friendship and he kept asking me for a relationship. He is very caring,matured(29) and family oriented.I was at his beautiful crib and saw his massive library.i have met his Sister (xtian), a doctor & she is very hospitable.He has made me a better person.in my faith (drives me to church),work, and finances. I have tried to make him jealous with my boyfriend on social media but he appears very calm but he has seem a bit withdrawn lately. he does not call anymore.I love him so much as I think of him everytime & cry at night.I have tested his love for me & he has passed 100% but my parents are strong xtians and they would disown me if they hear I am dating a muslim. He is from a dual religious home. His father, an educated Alhaji.mom xtian & they are yoruba.He says he wants to marry me & he would allow me practice my religion. I am from Akwaibom (26). what do I do.

tell your friend to open a nairaland account and post his problem himself.

banjicom:


.....LOL
Or better still Damatol

Women and their plenty problems.......

Sulphur 8 is another option too...

Why is no one talking about the fact that this girl is actually in another relationship? The poor boyfriend is there thinking he has a girlfriend, unknown to him she's just using him to pass time having found her Sulphur 8. Sorry Soulmate.

Nigerian relationships: Joke

Nitefury:


Sulphur 8 is another option too...

Why is no one talking about the fact that this girl is actually in another relationship? The poor boyfriend is there thinking he has a girlfriend, unknown to him she's just using him to pass time having found her Sulphur 8. Sorry Soulmate.

Nigerian relationships: Joke

...................LOL.................. you are just too funny

The truth is most of this girls dont even know what they really want, i wont be surprise if she open another thread later with a title that reads " my rich muslim boyfriend is too caring and loud, i want to go back to my gentle Christian boyfriend"......lol

I'm currently in the guy's shoe, only that ain't no Engineer. Would a thought its me!

Anyway girl, If u really love this guy, I'd urge you to do it Nancy ( my cousin, a Muslim) style. Go ahead with the relationship, give it time to blossom and when its ripe enough , get pregnant for this guy. Your parents will boil but trust me, they wouldn't have any choice if they getu know u mean and need this.

banjicom:


...................LOL.................. you are just too funny

The truth is most of this girls dont even know what they really want, i wont be surprise if she open another thread later with a title that reads " my rich muslim boyfriend is too caring and loud, i want to go back to my gentle Christian boyfriend"......lol

As in eh... Can you imagine even after flaunting her said boyfriend in order to make the (Sulphur guy jealous, she now complaining the guy is now withdrawn from her.

She doesn't want to date him, but she wants him to continue chasing and drooling over her while she bask and enjoys the thrills of his attention.

Probably she's already putting up attitude for her current boyfriend with possible threats of leaving him because she already has a guy waiting to take his place. But at the same time she doesn't want the Sulphur 8 (don't know why i keep calling him that. I meant the soulmate) guy to move on by complaining of his dwindling attention towards her.

pinceprinz:
I'm currently in the guy's shoe, only that ain't no Engineer. Would a thought its me!

Anyway girl, If u really love this guy, I'd urge you to do it Nancy ( my cousin, a Muslim) style. Go ahead with the relationship, give it time to blossom and when its ripe enough , get pregnant for this guy. Your parents will boil but trust me, they wouldn't have any choice if they getu know u mean and need this.

TERRORIST SPOTTED

Nitefury:


As in eh... Can you imagine even after flaunting her said boyfriend in order to make the (Sulphur guy jealous, she now complaining the guy is now withdrawn from her.

She doesn't want to date him, but she wants him to continue chasing and drooling over her while she bask and enjoys the thrills of his attention.

Probably she's already putting up attitude for her current boyfriend with possible threats of leaving him because she already has a guy waiting to take his place. But at the same time she doesn't want the Sulphur 8 (don't know why i keep calling him that. I meant the soulmate) guy to move on by complaining of his dwindling attention towards her.

You are very right bro, she is enjoying the attention from her hair cream.......oh! i mean mr. sulphur
she want to eat her cake and have it back.
I guess she was just keeping the Christain guy has her backup plan, women and their fish brain sha!

OP u don't have a soul mate. stop deceiving urself

sorry.

Soulmate


Dear op.

I can't tell you or your said friend what to do but I will advice you listen to your parents.

Truth be said, they won't marry you but they know much better than you do

Not all that glitters is gold

just be careful and be prayerful

banjicom:


You are very right bro, she is enjoying the attention from her hair cream.......oh! i mean mr. sulphur
she want to eat her cake and have it back.
I guess she was just keeping the Christain guy has her [b] backup plan [b/] women and their fish brain sha!

God save us from being any girl's backup plan.

Compliments and happy new year sir

Religion won't just make it happen,so forget it.

Ladies
U smoke...Dem Go talk
U no Sabi Smoke...Dem Go talk
I just pray your so called Boyfriend have you as his Plan B or C.

Nitefury:


God save us from being any girl's backup plan.

Compliments and happy new year sir

Amen ooo

Thank you Dear, Am wishing you The same too.