Good morning people, I just want to know places where I can meet financially stable guys that are also career minded and wouldn't mind staying outside Nigeria. I am not desperate for marriage as I still have time but I would love to start up a family on time. Thanks.

check yaba left

Lmao, u can check oshodi under the bridge, I heard a lot of guys that meet ur criteria hang around there, hope this was helpfull

Na God dey do am! it is not by "nairaland"

covbrand:
Good morning people, I just want to know places where I can meet financially stable guys that are also career minded and wouldn't mind staying outside Nigeria. I am not desperate for marriage as I still have time but I would love to start up a family on time. Thanks.

maybe not nairaland

but sincerely, dea go airport well well.. u fit get luck

You can find them in the Bible or Quran.

cruzita:
check yaba left

Ohhhh do you stay there? just asking tho, cos you seems to have comprehensive knowledge of people staying there.

feran15:


maybe not nairaland

hmm. You really think so?

feran15:


maybe not nairaland

hmm. You really think so?

cosby02:

Ohhhh do you stay there? just asking tho, cos you seems to have comprehensive knowledge of people staying there.

how u go naive no be dia our life start

Lexxyfund:
but sincerely, dea go airport well well.. u fit get luck

I mostly fly, but tend to meet older men or younger men that are not interested in settling down

Patented:
Na God dey do am! it is not by "nairaland"

thank you

cruzita:
how u go naive no be dia our life start

Ask your creator

I don't know who to call but I want this to get to the front page. I need diverse opinion from people from all works of life.

cosby02:
Ask your creator

na u I wan ask

cruzita:
na u I wan ask

Maybe your creator have been sleeping. Wake him up and ask him.

cosby02:
Maybe your creator have been sleeping. Wake him up and ask him.

ok

covbrand:
hmm. You really think so? hmm. You really think so?

Yh.. look outside

Attend functions more often.

You said you're not desperate but the message reeks of desperation. When you set out looking for career minded people or any caste of people for marriage then you are desperate. You've to let it happen naturally. In my opinion, one shouldn't seek for marriage, marriage and marriageable partner should find them.

Perhaps, this is why marriages keeps collapsing lately like pack of cards. People in their urgent bid to get married, driven by societal pressure and to avoid stigmatisation, fall for an incompatible partner.

With your present state of mind, you've avail yourself vulnerable and likely to succumb to relationship/marital advances from just anyone who's financially stable. And with such mindset, your sense of judgment will be rendered ineffective and as a result you won't see the negative side of him.

ronald4lif:
You said you're not desperate but the message reeks of desperation. When you set out looking for career minded people or any caste of people for marriage then you are desperate. You've to let it happen naturally. In my opinion, one shouldn't seek for marriage, marriage and marriageable partner should find them.

Perhaps, this is why marriages keeps collapsing lately like pack of cards. People in their urgent bid to get married, driven by societal pressure and to avoid stigmatisation, fall for an incompatible partner.

With your present state of mind, you've avail yourself vulnerable and likely to succumb to relationship/marital advances from just anyone who's financially stable. And with such mindset, your sense of judgment will be rendered ineffective and as a result you won't see the negative side of him.

not necessarily, I think it's about knowing what you want and making hay

Check atan Cemetery....Them full dia

covbrand:
not necessarily, I think it's about knowing what you want and making hay

I sense you're young, smart and career driven yourself but don't make marriage an urgent goal. A man is supposed to find a wife, right? Let him find you. Just keep going about your daily businesses and functions and developing yourself.

Not saying you shouldn't get married as soon as you can afford but don't prioritise it. Let it happen when it is due.

You can find him anywhere; at a bus stop, inside a bus, cinema, church/mosque or even at your place of work. Don't just set out to find him, let it be a fluid coincident.

ronald4lif:


I sense you're young, smart and career driven yourself but don't make marriage an urgent goal. A man is supposed to find a wife, right? Let him find you. Just keep going about your daily business and functions and developing yourself.

Not saying you shouldn't get married as soon as you can afford but don't prioritise it. Let it happen when it is due.

You can find him anywhere; at a bus stop, inside a bus, cinema, church/mosque or even at your place of work. Don't just set out to find him, let it be a fluid coincidence.

quality advice. Thanks sir

covbrand:
I mostly fly, but tend to meet older men or younger men that are not interested in settling down

but if I may ask, how old are you now?

covbrand:
I mostly fly, but tend to meet older men or younger men that are not interested in settling down

but if I may ask, how old are u now?

am having same p too.

cruzita:
check yaba left

Lolz, U're To Cruel.. ;-)

Check Sambisa forest.

octopusfreaky:
am having same p too.

I don't think you have a problem.

covbrand:
Good morning people, I just want to know places where I can meet financially stable guys that are also career minded and wouldn't mind staying outside Nigeria. I am not desperate for marriage as I still have time but I would love to start up a family on time. Thanks.

Happy new year.

All these hoes sef.