daretodiffer:


Bla bla bla bla

I will give you your due tomorrow.

daretodiffer:
Be nice or not to be

Not to be!

-It is just sex
-Man shall not live on bread alone
-She still loves her home.
-Women are polygamous in nature
-You should learn not to go through her phone. It is a personal device.
-Don't divorce her, how can you tell if the next woman wouldn't be worse than her
-I think seeing a marriage counsellor would be a great idea
-Or you could ignore her it is just a phase

Still thinking.......

elantraceey:



What do you intend to gain from using cuss words on a fellow woman like you? Please don't judge her at least not yet.



@Op I took the time to read all you posted and I can't help but notice how the guy is so immature and your wife too. Please first let go of any thought of divorce in your head as what you have now are just assumptions.


She's your wife and you've been with her for 10years so you should know how to get the truth from her and I'll say you should use love not anger. Ask her questions like if she isn't satisfied with you or where you've missed it or something,.make it seem like the fault is coming from you even though its not and she'll most likely be comfortable and she'll begin to open up. Be ready to forgive no matter how bitter it turns out at least for the sake of your children.


Make sure she deletes and block those guys and try to resolve whatsoever reason she'll give.


#Myhumbleopinion



Lalasticlala help this guy get good advice.

berryBee:
Chai..Ur wife is cheating. Op sorry to say it, but u were too lenient with her in d past when she showed these cheating traits. Now she has turned to full blown kesiah. u hv confront her about it and don't give her room to deny it again.

And if u still want to make it work with her, forgive her, take control and dont ever give her room to mention d word 'ex' in ur house ever again. Even if na ex wey don turn pastor

elantraceey:



What do you intend to gain from using cuss words on a fellow woman like you? Please don't judge her at least not yet.



@Op I took the time to read all you posted and I can't help but notice how the guy is so immature and your wife too. Please first let go of any thought of divorce in your head as what you have now are just assumptions.


She's your wife and you've been with her for 10years so you should know how to get the truth from her and I'll say you should use love not anger. Ask her questions like if she isn't satisfied with you or where you've missed it or something,.make it seem like the fault is coming from you even though its not and she'll most likely be comfortable and she'll begin to open up. Be ready to forgive no matter how bitter it turns out at least for the sake of your children.


Make sure she deletes and block those guys and try to resolve whatsoever reason she'll give.


#Myhumbleopinion



Lalasticlala help this guy get good advice.

RichyRodman:
First of all for her to receive a manhood pics then 6 months later more manhood pics it certainly means that she craves big ones and u have a small one! If u don't satisfy your wife,Dude Another Man Will! (Am so sure my wife won't cheat cus I'll certainly satisfy mine when I eventually get married)
Secondly she likes sex a lot perhaps u don't satisfy her sexually enough!
Thirdly I can't advise u divorce but take drastic steps tha would send chills down her spine for the rest of her life. Take your kids for DNA test that is proof No1 it don't make u hate the kids that aren yours because they already grown up calling u daddy but at least it solves a whole lot of mess and it would make her fear u!
Fourthly,when the result come of course definitely from the way I see her one of the kids wouldn't be yours.
Also get the phone numbers of these shameless men sleeping with your wife,print out some of these conversations,take your wife on a visit to that her mum that welcomed her ex boyfriend,bring out all these evidences both DNA tests result that she never knew when u took your children to the hopital when she Went to the market u tell the children u want to do Genotype and blood group for them but plan with doctor to take samples for DNA too.
Let her mother know how shamelessly her daughter was brought up and how she inculcates it to your children. Call the men in her presence with. Her number put it on speaker and see if he will answer the call with "hello baby" unless she has told everyone there's fire on the mountain. Insist that she stays with her mother for 1 month as punishment unless she the one that bought the house or paying the rent (just as some Nigerian couples do these days and makes a wife the bread winner thereby crippling the husbands powers)
My brother u have to take the bull by the horn and let her cry for forgiveness,u need to take what. Belongs to u back to your possession although it may not change her if u can't satisfy her sexually a woman. Must always go to the man that satisfies her. She belongs to u both of u MUST bring up the kids together,let her realise her mistakes infront of her family,divorce isn't always the answer to an ailing marriage or a cheating partner either Male or female. If anyone advises u better than this I want to read it on my email or whatsapp I'll ask for an account number for a price HOHA! Zentascommunication@gmail.com +2348032907249

nyben4eva:
I'm so sorry.You married a LovePeddler from an irresponsible family.For your info,her family members are aware of her infidelity.You really need to be careful because they don't value you,they might kill you and take all your properties.

I had a very wealthy friend,his wife was just doing same as your wife.He caught her and started planning for divorce,within two weeks,he was history.Now her entire family members live in his mansion and she brings in all manner of men to the house.

If you don't value your life,stay put,but if you do,divorce her and start a new life.It won't be easy for you,but you life is more important than the LovePeddler you call your wife.
The truth is that she'll never change because it's in her blood.

hornyman:
Conduct DNA test on all the children she claimed u fathered first, then seat her down and have heart to heart talk, tell her u know she's cheating on you and lying all along but what caused dat kind of disloyalty? I'm sure she may deny it if she didn't she might tell u her reasons, maybe u cause most of it, remember u need these reasons to know how to conduct urself in your next relationship, then tell her u have forgiven her totally but u can't cope with her in the same roof anymore then divorce her period to have peace of mind. Listen, don't mind people advising u to wait to catch her red handed, cos you might never catch her red-handed, if u confront her at some point whenever u notice anything she will up her game next time to ensure such mistakes don't occur ever again. Some criminals might never be caught red-handed, some criminals are smooth in their operations. Guy remember a cheating wife can cause untimely death to the husband and mind you she might never change cos most cheating wives will always yearn for more excitement outside their homes that which they can't get from their husbands. In your next relationship think twice and devote more time to your woman, it might be because u are not there for her that caused this, mind you, money is not everything, care is major. Say good things to ur woman, complement her efforts most times, be romantic and create quality time for your family all the times.

IBBG:
reading this right now, all i'm saying is thank God i broke up with my ex before it ever got serious she was exhibiting some of this. i told myself guy wake up from your slumber, don't be blinded by love, or else you'll have heart attack in marriage, cos she will turn you into an overnight detective due to her unscrupulous ways. i beg o i no ready to become detective or CIA agent overnight becos of marriage o

elantraceey:


Are you kidding me? So you're perfect ? You've never done something you were not proud of? Can you imagine? Concluding on someone you know nothing about. I'm not saying cheating is excusable but what's written up there is not the story so cut the woman some slag and don't just judge her like that.

Nkemdilim2014:
To start with Mr. Husband, Why were u searching or looking thru u r wife's fone without her consent? Are u sure you don't do d same thing you are accusing the woman? I guess you are feeling insecure cos you too are in it. My opinion though
#leavethrashforlawma! !

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