| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Miami11:
Pray and fast for your wife
Talk to her calmly about the issue
Divorce is a sin
Knee down and ask for forgiveness
Treat her right
Talk to your pastor
Take her for deliverance Are you serious? You expect me to keep such a woman, if I were the OP? I won't even bring it such a nonsense here. She's is gone. Period. Divorce isn't a sin; remarrying is. So says the Bible. Stop twisting God's word. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by kay29000(m): 4:08pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Hmm! I caught a married woman staring at me yesterday at a party and i felt bad. I mean, i could see it in her eyes that she had undressed me already and was lost in lustful thoughts of what sex with me would be like. 2 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
May be she wanted to compare something. 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by politicalpastor: 4:11pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
After all this evidence. You still don't know what to do? U make me sick. U are a disgrace to men and ur generation. 2 Likes |
|
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Ah Jonathan sef  1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by nayoubiko: 4:13pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
When you find out what did ur wife say? |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by dammytosh: 4:13pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
elantraceey:
What do you intend to gain from using cuss words on a fellow woman like you? Please don't judge her at least not yet.
@Op I took the time to read all you posted and I can't help but notice how the guy is so immature and your wife too. Please first let go of any thought of divorce in your head as what you have now are just assumptions.
She's your wife and you've been with her for 10years so you should know how to get the truth from her and I'll say you should use love not anger. Ask her questions like if she isn't satisfied with you or where you've missed it or something,.make it seem like the fault is coming from you even though its not and she'll most likely be comfortable and she'll begin to open up. Be ready to forgive no matter how bitter it turns out at least for the sake of your children.
Make sure she deletes and block those guys and try to resolve whatsoever reason she'll give.
#Myhumbleopinion
Lalasticlala help this guy get good advice. Dear Op, Your wife is a step ahead of you. She even sent this comment on Nairaland. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by veraiyke(m): 4:13pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Guy eh you have been seeing all this and yet you keep believing her stories. Abeg you need no advice. Because everything is open before you and you already know what to do. I hate it when guys post all this. Send her away t o go and enjoy her fun. Stupid woman. AstuteJ:
I need your candid advice on how to handle the various cases of infidelity against my wife. We have been married for 10 years with kids and I have never had any reason to doubt her until the following incidents began to unfold;
1. Sometimes in 2012, I took her to the market on a Sunday morning. She left her phone inside the car while she went into the market. A message dropped and I picked her phone to check, what I saw was a joystick sent by one of her BBM contacts. I dropped the phone aand pretended I dint see anything. When she came back, she checked the phone, saw the picture, deleted it and pretended nothing happened.
I waited for like 5hours to be sure she wasn't going to talk about it before bringing it up. She claimed it was sent in error and went ahead to call the guy to register her displeasure. I believed her and laid the matter to rest.
2. About six months later, I was out of the country. She called about 6pm that she needed to drop some items for a client at City Mall, little did I know she went to meet a man at Swe bar. I got back some days later and noticed she was all over her phone chatting and smiling while I was talking to her. I took the phone from her to see whom she was chatting it. All the previous chats had been deleted and I continued chatting with the guy. I could not flow well because the guy was coding and suspected he wasn't chatting with the right person.
I went through her phone for any prior message between them and I saw an SMS she sent to him at about 11:45pm the day she went to City Mall; "I just got home, please call if you can"! I did further findings before she confessed she went to meet with the guy at Swe bar and had to call to lis to me in case she runs into one of my friends. She claimed the guy is an old friend and had issues in his marriage, so she turned a marriage counsellor overnight to go solve the issues.
3. While I was still with her phone, the guy that sent his joystick pinged and I started chatting with him. The guy went very romantic and I cautioned him not to put me in trouble like he did when he sent an unsolicited pix of his joystick. The guy went "Ah Stella, but you asked me to send it na, have you forgotten? That you even sent me a pix of your laps taken in a dark room when I asked for yours"! I was speechless! He went "and you said you told your hubby it was sent in error and he believed you". I confronted my wife with all these and she still had some "stories" to tell.
4. We were at her Mum's place two years ago and she got a call, she told the fellow to come see her there. Her ex came in some minutes later to the warm embrace of the mum. We greeted and he wasted no time to settle in and joined the discussion on ground. The last time I saw him was before we got married and she claimed they never dated. The guy talked about his wife, how poor she is in home keeping, in the kitchen. on bed etc. My wife cut in "and this lady is supposed to be enjoying Andy o, cos I remember Andy knows how to take care of a woman, each time he came visiting in the university days, he always came with bags full of goodies". She even suggested seeing the woman to advise her and the guy said "no you are not in the best position to do that, you know she is not too comfortable with you".
All these happened right in the presence of my mother in law and I kept my calm all through. We left there after the show of shame and I warned her to cut all communications with the guy.
5. Few weeks later, same guy came to our church to worship. After the service wifey told me his kids would like to follow us home to meet our kids; I did not respond. Her mum and aunt was also in the church same Sunday and I drove them and my wife straight to my house. The guy drove behind. We got home, wifey went to the kitchen to cook, her mum and aunt settled in to a good gist with this guy in my own very living room. I picked my keys and left the house for them. I returned late in the night when they had all left and you can guess what happened afterwards.
6. I was with her phone few weeks later and another ex bumped in. "My baby, how are you doing, I have missed you bla bla bla". He requested they meet somewhere on the mainland two days later! After taking a second look at the unsaved number, I remembered the number had sent her an SMS; "can I call you now" about twice in the past. the second time I saw the SMS, I called the number with her phone but the guy refused to pick all thru the day!
7. Last Christmas dat, she gave me her phone to check something on her whatsapp and a chat came in from a guy I have been monitoring his number for a while. The excerpt of the chat is below (I took over the chat from the line he asked for her pix).
5/12/2015, 7:51 am - sy: May d joy of Xmas be for u and ur family IJN
25/12/2015, 7:52 am - sy: Enjoy ur day
25/12/2015, 11:08 am - Jimmyeatery: snap i wanna see yur Sexy look
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - Jimmyeatery: I hope youre alone
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - sy: Lol
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - sy: Yes
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - Jimmyeatery: Plsssssss
25/12/2015, 11:10 am - Jimmyeatery: IM alone here too
25/12/2015, 11:10 am - sy: That's good
25/12/2015, 11:10 am - Jimmyeatery: IM deleting it immediately
25/12/2015, 11:11 am - sy: Where is the one you have
25/12/2015, 11:11 am - Jimmyeatery: Lemme snap
25/12/2015, 11:11 am - sy: Ok
25/12/2015, 11:14 am - Jimmyeatery: IMG-20151225-WA0006.jpg (file attached)
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - Jimmyeatery: Pls delete it quickly
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - sy: Nice
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - sy: Why should I delete it
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - Jimmyeatery: Tnx
25/12/2015, 11:16 am - Jimmyeatery: Someone can misplaced phone
25/12/2015, 11:16 am - sy: That's true
25/12/2015, 11:16 am - Jimmyeatery: I dont want yur man to one across it as well
25/12/2015, 11:17 am - Jimmyeatery: To be on safe side
25/12/2015, 11:17 am - sy: Ok
25/12/2015, 11:17 am - Jimmyeatery: I wanna see u babe
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - sy: You have my pix already now
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Lemme see yur Sexy body babe
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Nope
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Very not seen it
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - sy: Is it even new to you
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - syt: OK o
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - sy: Till we see again
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Ive not
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - Jimmyeatery: Plsssssss
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - sy: Why are you in a hurry
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - Jimmyeatery: Dont be shy dear
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - Jimmyeatery: IM just lonely here
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - Jimmyeatery: Soo lonely
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - syt: What about your wife
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - Jimmyeatery: In London
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - Jimmyeatery: In London with my kids
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - sy: Good
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - Jimmyeatery: I av 1% left
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - sy: What?
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - Jimmyeatery: Snap lemme see you
25/12/2015, 11:22 am - syt: You will see me when I change my dp
25/12/2015, 11:23 am - syt: You there?
25/12/2015, 11:43 am - Jimmyeatery: IMG-20151225-WA0009.jpg (file attached)
25/12/2015, 11:45 am - Jimmyeatery: IMG-20151225-WA0008.jpg (file attached)
25/12/2015, 11:44 am - Jimmyeatery: My ba3 low N phone went off
25/12/2015, 11:44 am - Jimmyeatery: Im using my laptop to charge now
25/12/2015, 11:46 am - syt: OK Sir
25/12/2015, 11:47 am - sy: Was wondering why you kept quiet
25/12/2015, 11:51 am - sy: Can't talk please
25/12/2015, 11:51 am - Jimmyeatery: Ok
25/12/2015, 11:51 am - Jimmyeatery: I tot u said youre alone before
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - sy: My kids are here now
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - Jimmyeatery: Lemme know wen youre free to talk
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - Jimmyeatery: Oook
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - sy: Let's chat, say whatever you wanna say here
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - syt: My hubby is out
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - Jimmyeatery: Are u Sure?
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - syt: 😃
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - syt: Yeah
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - Jimmyeatery: Snap lemme be sure if youre d right person IM chatting with................
Please advise me in how to handle all these.......
Thank you.
1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Hahahahahjahahaahahah i dont know what to say about this, goddamn but seriously you have to know that you married a whre. After all the Dz she took since teens. Hahaahahha may God help you. 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by ELGREF(m): 4:15pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
I just don't like marriage...... This generation are not mature for marriage....... What a single parent generation...... 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by ASAMPETE1: 4:16pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Divorce her. Marry two wives at the same time. |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
AstuteJ:
I need your candid advice on how to handle the various cases of infidelity against my wife. We have been married for 10 years with kids and I have never had any reason to doubt her until the following incidents began to unfold;
1. Sometimes in 2012, I took her to the market on a Sunday morning. She left her phone inside the car while she went into the market. A message dropped and I picked her phone to check, what I saw was a joystick sent by one of her BBM contacts. I dropped the phone aand pretended I dint see anything. When she came back, she checked the phone, saw the picture, deleted it and pretended nothing happened.
I waited for like 5hours to be sure she wasn't going to talk about it before bringing it up. She claimed it was sent in error and went ahead to call the guy to register her displeasure. I believed her and laid the matter to rest.
2. About six months later, I was out of the country. She called about 6pm that she needed to drop some items for a client at City Mall, little did I know she went to meet a man at Swe bar. I got back some days later and noticed she was all over her phone chatting and smiling while I was talking to her. I took the phone from her to see whom she was chatting it. All the previous chats had been deleted and I continued chatting with the guy. I could not flow well because the guy was coding and suspected he wasn't chatting with the right person.
I went through her phone for any prior message between them and I saw an SMS she sent to him at about 11:45pm the day she went to City Mall; "I just got home, please call if you can"! I did further findings before she confessed she went to meet with the guy at Swe bar and had to call to lis to me in case she runs into one of my friends. She claimed the guy is an old friend and had issues in his marriage, so she turned a marriage counsellor overnight to go solve the issues.
3. While I was still with her phone, the guy that sent his joystick pinged and I started chatting with him. The guy went very romantic and I cautioned him not to put me in trouble like he did when he sent an unsolicited pix of his joystick. The guy went "Ah Stella, but you asked me to send it na, have you forgotten? That you even sent me a pix of your laps taken in a dark room when I asked for yours"! I was speechless! He went "and you said you told your hubby it was sent in error and he believed you". I confronted my wife with all these and she still had some "stories" to tell.
4. We were at her Mum's place two years ago and she got a call, she told the fellow to come see her there. Her ex came in some minutes later to the warm embrace of the mum. We greeted and he wasted no time to settle in and joined the discussion on ground. The last time I saw him was before we got married and she claimed they never dated. The guy talked about his wife, how poor she is in home keeping, in the kitchen. on bed etc. My wife cut in "and this lady is supposed to be enjoying Andy o, cos I remember Andy knows how to take care of a woman, each time he came visiting in the university days, he always came with bags full of goodies". She even suggested seeing the woman to advise her and the guy said "no you are not in the best position to do that, you know she is not too comfortable with you".
All these happened right in the presence of my mother in law and I kept my calm all through. We left there after the show of shame and I warned her to cut all communications with the guy.
5. Few weeks later, same guy came to our church to worship. After the service wifey told me his kids would like to follow us home to meet our kids; I did not respond. Her mum and aunt was also in the church same Sunday and I drove them and my wife straight to my house. The guy drove behind. We got home, wifey went to the kitchen to cook, her mum and aunt settled in to a good gist with this guy in my own very living room. I picked my keys and left the house for them. I returned late in the night when they had all left and you can guess what happened afterwards.
6. I was with her phone few weeks later and another ex bumped in. "My baby, how are you doing, I have missed you bla bla bla". He requested they meet somewhere on the mainland two days later! After taking a second look at the unsaved number, I remembered the number had sent her an SMS; "can I call you now" about twice in the past. the second time I saw the SMS, I called the number with her phone but the guy refused to pick all thru the day!
7. Last Christmas dat, she gave me her phone to check something on her whatsapp and a chat came in from a guy I have been monitoring his number for a while. The excerpt of the chat is below (I took over the chat from the line he asked for her pix).
5/12/2015, 7:51 am - sy: May d joy of Xmas be for u and ur family IJN
25/12/2015, 7:52 am - sy: Enjoy ur day
25/12/2015, 11:08 am - Jimmyeatery: snap i wanna see yur Sexy look
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - Jimmyeatery: I hope youre alone
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - sy: Lol
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - sy: Yes
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - Jimmyeatery: Plsssssss
25/12/2015, 11:10 am - Jimmyeatery: IM alone here too
25/12/2015, 11:10 am - sy: That's good
25/12/2015, 11:10 am - Jimmyeatery: IM deleting it immediately
25/12/2015, 11:11 am - sy: Where is the one you have
25/12/2015, 11:11 am - Jimmyeatery: Lemme snap
25/12/2015, 11:11 am - sy: Ok
25/12/2015, 11:14 am - Jimmyeatery: IMG-20151225-WA0006.jpg (file attached)
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - Jimmyeatery: Pls delete it quickly
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - sy: Nice
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - sy: Why should I delete it
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - Jimmyeatery: Tnx
25/12/2015, 11:16 am - Jimmyeatery: Someone can misplaced phone
25/12/2015, 11:16 am - sy: That's true
25/12/2015, 11:16 am - Jimmyeatery: I dont want yur man to one across it as well
25/12/2015, 11:17 am - Jimmyeatery: To be on safe side
25/12/2015, 11:17 am - sy: Ok
25/12/2015, 11:17 am - Jimmyeatery: I wanna see u babe
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - sy: You have my pix already now
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Lemme see yur Sexy body babe
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Nope
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Very not seen it
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - sy: Is it even new to you
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - syt: OK o
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - sy: Till we see again
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Ive not
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - Jimmyeatery: Plsssssss
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - sy: Why are you in a hurry
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - Jimmyeatery: Dont be shy dear
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - Jimmyeatery: IM just lonely here
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - Jimmyeatery: Soo lonely
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - syt: What about your wife
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - Jimmyeatery: In London
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - Jimmyeatery: In London with my kids
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - sy: Good
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - Jimmyeatery: I av 1% left
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - sy: What?
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - Jimmyeatery: Snap lemme see you
25/12/2015, 11:22 am - syt: You will see me when I change my dp
25/12/2015, 11:23 am - syt: You there?
25/12/2015, 11:43 am - Jimmyeatery: IMG-20151225-WA0009.jpg (file attached)
25/12/2015, 11:45 am - Jimmyeatery: IMG-20151225-WA0008.jpg (file attached)
25/12/2015, 11:44 am - Jimmyeatery: My ba3 low N phone went off
25/12/2015, 11:44 am - Jimmyeatery: Im using my laptop to charge now
25/12/2015, 11:46 am - syt: OK Sir
25/12/2015, 11:47 am - sy: Was wondering why you kept quiet
25/12/2015, 11:51 am - sy: Can't talk please
25/12/2015, 11:51 am - Jimmyeatery: Ok
25/12/2015, 11:51 am - Jimmyeatery: I tot u said youre alone before
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - sy: My kids are here now
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - Jimmyeatery: Lemme know wen youre free to talk
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - Jimmyeatery: Oook
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - sy: Let's chat, say whatever you wanna say here
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - syt: My hubby is out
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - Jimmyeatery: Are u Sure?
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - syt: 😃
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - syt: Yeah
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - Jimmyeatery: Snap lemme be sure if youre d right person IM chatting with................
Please advise me in how to handle all these.......
Thank you.
DIVORCE THE USELESS BIITCH AND GO FOR DNA TEST ON YOUR KIDS TO BE SURE YOU A'INT GROOMING BASTARDS. DONT MIND ALL THESE NAIRALAND GIRLS TELLING YOU TO WORK IT OUT OR FAST AND PRAY. THIS IS YOUR BEST CHANCE TO SAVE YOUR LIFE AND YOUR FUTURE. A CHEATING WIFE CAN KILL HER HUSBAND IF SHE OBSERVES YOU'RE BECOMING TOO SNOOPY. MOST NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE LIKE THIS AND ITS UNFORTUNATE U FELL INTO THIS TRAP. YOU MARRIED A COMMERCIAL SEX WORKER BRO. I WONT SUGARCOAT MY WORDS. THIS IS WHY I HATE NIGERIAN WOMEN. DAMN IT 4 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by ojnnaco(m): 4:17pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
You don't need Juju to tell u say ur woman is an assh0le and she's terribly cheating on you...
I pity the Union ... cox it won't last longer than Nokia battery 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 4:17pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Bros visit her parents with this information. If possible visit your Pastor too. They are in a better position to give you advice. But as for me I go will confront her and whatever she says I will agree. Then I will start going into dating and adult websites. 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by megafone: 4:17pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
You must be talking about your ex here... Not a wife! 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by slap1(m): 4:18pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
I'm scared of getting married with these stories. Honestly. Even having a girlfriend is a big task. Which way, ladies? Oga divorce her please. But it seem there's something wrong from your side because even her family seem to prefer the ex. How did you meet her?  Did you 'buy' her love? 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by godoluwa(m): 4:18pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
AstuteJ! AstuteJ!! AstuteJ!! if you wanna live long, divorce ur wife dis week 2 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
My brother, this is real bad way to begin the new year. But i tell u, if you do anything drastic, you would harm yourselves.
My candid advice is that you use this as an opportunity to know GOD indeed. Your wife,is your wife and with the way it is now, its a Divine Hand that can bring her back to her. Senses. I perceive that you love her so much. Come to GOD in prayers. Seek him more. Get down to your Bible. Every answers are right there. God bless you as you take steps to restore tour Marriage. Its well 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by mentorandfriend(m): 4:20pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Well, I'll advise you to first deal with your self esteem first. A very healthy self esteem is a must have for any family man. It protects your wife and children, gives them a sense of security, and makes the wife know in advance that you can't tolerate nonsense when it calls. Every man who wants to build a successful home must not just draw respect from his wife, but some element of fear as well. A healthy self esteem that shows you're in control does it all.
Instance, the day her ex had audacity to come to gist her up in your presence and that of your mother in law was the day you should have risen to the occasion, man the discussion, tell the guy to go home and get his acts right and keep his home rather than running to your lawfully wedded wife each time he has issues at home. Wax ecclesiastical, like a preacher, and never let him boss the discussion. Spare your wife in the public discussion but let her and your mother in law know afterwards that you're not nice, and you won't tolerate the shit of seeing an ex show up again in your alone moments with family.
Write this somewhere and remember it as long as you live: LIFE NEVER FAVOURS 'NICE PEOPLE' . They bring nothing else to the table except niceness.
May be one of these days, I'd do a thread on Authentic Manhood, a fallout of things I learnt last year at DLI in DC, and I'll tag you if I remember. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by justmenoni: 4:20pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Op I don't blv ur story haba...wait wait I belive but are u living abroad,wait have u seen why did I get married too,u see when the ex showed up in Bahamas without been invited,hope you saw the yabbings he got.. Well I don't know how old or who you are but I think the first thing to do is cut off ur wife from her family and some friends(there might be some gingering her up as well)...restrict her movement and some actions.. I think she has too much freedom and I think u hv complex issues,is she too beautiful,well educated, wealthier than you I mean are u a true Nigerian man  Well I would hv suggest divorce right away but it's damn gonna affect ur kid's(dats if they are venue urs,if I were u I would hv taken those kids for Dna) I am sorry to tell u;ur wife is cheating and sleeping around plus she's loose and there ain't a reason for doing so,how are u sure ur MIL is not even the alarena (middle man) lots of mothers do this. I still don't know why u're keeping ur Mil to close to ur heart,shey u know naija police Dats how some Mil are don't keep them too close |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by lagosrd: 4:21pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Prevho:
Which advise do you want.
Divorce? l Before divorce pls apply thunder bolt.to teach those guys some lesson. |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by carlcar2012(f): 4:21pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Sit her down and talk to her |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by elantraceey(f): 4:22pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
dinachi:
May other women send their pussy pics to your husband. May he cheat on you with several women and deny it. At least, it will afford you the opportunity to use your own advice! Do not reject it. Your parents should have saved us this unpleasantness by selling you to buy Suya. I don't understand your frustrations but you know what I forgive you, maybe you are just a kid and you probably grew up in a broken home that's why you're this frustrated but I'll leave you to your agony and may God help you. 3 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by Lalaity: 4:22pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
This Life sha: Perfect women are going through fire in the hands of men who don't deserve them, and Here is a woman playing GINGLE OVER with a good man.  2 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by naijaboiy: 4:23pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
elantraceey:
What do you intend to gain from using cuss words on a fellow woman like you? Please don't judge her at least not yet.
@Op I took the time to read all you posted and I can't help but notice how the guy is so immature and your wife too. Please first let go of any thought of divorce in your head as what you have now are just assumptions.
She's your wife and you've been with her for 10years so you should know how to get the truth from her and I'll say you should use love not anger. Ask her questions like if she isn't satisfied with you or where you've missed it or something,.make it seem like the fault is coming from you even though its not and she'll most likely be comfortable and she'll begin to open up. Be ready to forgive no matter how bitter it turns out at least for the sake of your children.
Make sure she deletes and block those guys and try to resolve whatsoever reason she'll give.
#Myhumbleopinion
Lalasticlala help this guy get good advice. Are you kidding me?
Exchange of raunchy pictures are not good enough evidence that his wife is cheating? Oh so you are the type that believe it is compulsory to catch a cheating partner before concluding?
If you have a husband and you keep waiting until you catch him red handed before you take an action even after seeing so many signs for years then you are just waiting for your own death in that marriage.
What in seven hells will my wife be doing with the picture of another man's dick? And you are saying she should not be judged.
Please settle down and think before you post sometimes. 10 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by showreals(m): 4:23pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
One word...Animashaun 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by lagosrd: 4:24pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Prevho:
Which advise do you want.
Divorce? l Before divorce pls apply "Thunder Bolt.to teach those guys some lesson. This is because an adulterous woman if she doesn't kill herself she will kill the husband. U better take the step you need to take now before her shameless family comes begging. 1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by tellwisdom: 4:24pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Reason I find it difficult with ladies with previous men. I prefer one without man before  1 Like |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by akudinaobi(m): 4:24pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
I won't feel pity for you or either your wife I feel for the kids
You too I bet you are cheating too
Now let's go to the point
I want to ask you a question
How do you manage your absence at home
How do you manage your wife sexuality
For 10years now you sopouse to know how active your wife is
If you are not romantic enough to her and in this world of ours that is corrupt I bet she will mess up
Flash back your memory and try to remeber when you guys started what is it that went wrong
Is it the busy schedule of your just to meet up with the family demand or what
To be continued if you are intrested in rebuilding your solid home again No divorce 2 Likes |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by unknown87: 4:25pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
Your wife is a badt geh!! Pls pray and fast. Seek the face of the almighty b4 making any move. Any wrong move will scar your KIDS and you. Pray that the almighty God sees you through. |
| Re: Wife's Infidelity; Please Advise. by BABANGBALI: 4:25pm On Jan 03, 2016 |
kai dis guy don suffer for vickyrotex hand |
