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How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by muheewa(m): 11:45pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Olamide’s beef with Don Jazzy over the Headies
Next Rated awards has come and gone, but for one
couple the damage done may be everlasting.
According to an unnamed 33 year old lady, a
discussion via Skype with her boyfriend over the
whole saga has led to a termination of the
relationship that began when she was 25.
She disclosed the details in an email she sent to
popular online blog Stella Dimoko Korkus.
She wrote:
Dear Stella, I have been following ur blog since
2012. Call me a monitoring spirit cos I know
everything happening over there but I have never
commented. No, I commented once but it wasn’t
posted. Lol. So here goes my chronicle.
I’m 33, by the way. I’ve been dating this guy since
2008. We served together but started dating after
service. He left the country in 2008 but we have
been dating since then. I’ve had a couple of
“serious relationships” but somehow they keep
getting messed up and I keep going back to him.
He has been awesome and treats me well. He
loves and respects me and sometimes I get
irritated because he doesn’t have a mind of his
own.
We do anything I want to do, and I’d prefer
someone who would make major decisions
sometimes. I have visited him a couple of times in
the UK.
So day before yesterday we were skyping and
inside the gist he asked me what I think about the
Olamide/Donjazzy ish. And I said I think they were
both wrong, Olamide shouldn’t have thrown a
tantrum and Don J should have just ignored.
Boyfriend starts saying Donjazzy is a pretender,
etc etc and as far as Olamide has apologized it’s
ok.
I told him not to judge as he doesn’t know what
goes on in the life of these people but My crime
was to say that saying sorry does not wipe away
your f-up as you might say sorry and the person
says it’s ok but it doesn’t change what you have
done or the pain you have caused. Gbam.
My guy starts shouting that I am mean and
unforgiving. At first I thought it was a joke
because we were having a healthy argument till I
realised he wasn’t joking. Like joke he ended the
relationship saying he’s not sure he can be with
someone who can make a comment like that
(saying sorry doesn’t right your wrongs) and went
off the line. I’m still confused.
I can categorically state that I never disrespected
him or raised my voice. A part of me is finding it
funny cos if someone asks why we are not
together am I supposed to say we broke up on
top of Donjazzy and Olamide argument?
I called yesterday and all he said was that it
wouldn’t work. I can’t apologize for having an
opinion but I’m scared. Will I meet someone else?
Or am I supposed to remove my heart from a 7
year relationship because of this? I know it
sounds unbelievable because people have posted
chronicles and I have rolled my eyes and asked
myself “who dis one wan lie to”, but it is true.
Please post this, Stella, under chronicles or in
house gists I don’t even know. I shouldn’t be
finding it funny because we were supposed to do
our traditional wedding in April.
Someone Please help me make sense. Am I
supposed to beg? |
Re: How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by Medunah: 11:51pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Sounds like another wale adenuga production. Well if true 33yrs olds, u say? Both of them are dummies |
Re: How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by Nobody: 11:53pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Any story that ends with true story Na confam wash. Watch out! |
Re: How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by 2dice(m): 11:55pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Your Mumu collect Grammy Him Mumu carry Ballon D'or |
Re: How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by obiorathesubtle: 12:01am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Thing is, he wanted to dump yo ass long ago.. Nigga was just looking for a window. 1 Like |
Re: How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by kilokeys(m): 12:03am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Don't beg o.. Don Jazzy will marry u, u hear? |
Re: How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by muheewa(m): 12:05am On Jan 05, 2016 |
kilokeys:Don jazzy never ready for marriage o |
Re: How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by tommychow(m): 12:42am On Jan 05, 2016 |
Nah, he was wasn't mad because you didn't take Olamide's side in that overrated publicity stunt. He's mad because of your mentality on forgiveness. Who the hell wants to spend the rest of his or her life with someone that doesn't forgive and FORGET? Big fvck ups are bound to happen, so the capability to forget and look forward is intrinsic to a successful marriage. Btw, his usual passiveness is a bad sign. Every woman wants a leader as her man. Not good. You two need a long, completely open conversation on each others flaws. You NEED to make it work. |
Re: How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by Lordskyes(m): 12:45am On Jan 05, 2016 |
The Nigga has got no chill... He's probably a die hard fan of olamide |
Re: How Olamide's Beef With Donjazzy Broke 8yrs Relationship.true Story by deshysmalls(m): 12:56am On Jan 05, 2016 |
When a guy needs an excuse to end a relationship, he clutches at the least of straws just to get out. OP i dont think your man ended the relationship because of the argument, i think he did for an entirely different reason. |
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