If anyone should see me as an unconventional woman on this forum, he or she should better have rethink. This is my opinion and am just expressing it. I'm not promiscuous and has never been. Through out my 4 years in higher institution, I never misbehaved because I was aware of my family background. That doesn't mean I saw dating as a crime as I was social like any FCT babe on campus.

NOW, this is my opinion about the much talked about making love with a guy and getting dumped. For me, its nothing but a commonplace fallacy! Sex is a human act. Humans are just a higher species of animals and both animals and humans (higher animals) mate/have sex

Most ladies are quick to feel that a guy would possibly dump them when they allow him make love to them. The truth is that sex, even if I don't encourage it for unmarried people, would not necessarily make him dump you. He would dump you because he doesn't love you in the first place. If having sex with someone would definitely bring an unusual hatred to the extent of dumping them, then our parents won't be married again because am very sure they must have had countless rounds of love-making even before we were born!

Most girls that get dumped after a guy has made love to them experienced that because of their naïve nature; they are always too quick to trust a guy with all their heart without finding out the type of person he is and his social, religious and moral backgrounds. This is why I always encourage my fellow ladies to remain friends with a guy for sometime to assess him properly. Two people are likely to reveal their real character when both of them are just friends than when romance and sex have been involved. When you chat with him, whether online or offline, you should study his discussions, conversations and replies to your questions. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh and the fingers typeth (4give my English, I could act like an Elizabethan woman sometimes ) Most guys these days have nothing but sex in their mind when they meet a lady. If you fall for deceit without being friends first, you might get dumped and you blame it on sex! It is rare for a guy that's your bestie to dump you because he has made love to you when both of you finally decide to date with both families being aware Look beyond swags but his maturity and personality as regard romance. I wonder how some ladies get themselves involved in sex chats with guys and still expect such guys not to dump them after the act! He probably has sex and nothing but sex in mind when he sex-chats with you; what could he be possibly thinking if not just satisfying his sexual urge?

This is 2016 Check people's class and values...I know there are some intelligent, ambitious and hard-working young men who would understand me better.

Hey! I no know say you get sense like this o.. Chai!

obiorathesubtle:
Hey! I no know say you get sense like this o.. Chai!

Gracia!

StephanieEzeh:
Gracia!

Beautifully written. Thumbs up!!

I no know say threads for romance section still dey make sense.....
Op wetin you go take...? Vodka abi origin?

I can sight u, op. Better one

Smh..Lord pls fix dis

Op head dae dia. Nice one

op.. your post is on point like icicles..

Op what you are trying to express with the all your whole grammar that u have not bleep a guy that later dump you to anoda lady abi..........u too much shaaaa smh

nice one... you just said the truth as it is

buh some brainless peeps would still come to say trash

thank God

oseod:
I no know say threads for romance section still dey make sense.....
Op wetin you go take...? Vodka abi origin?

Lol! Orijin will do

Lordprez:
nice one... you just said the truth as it is


buh some brainless peeps would still come to say trash

Such is life

ucnwafor:
Op what you are trying to express with the all your whole grammar that u have not bleep a guy that later dump you to anoda lady abi..........u too much shaaaa smh

Am far too wise for that. Don't see everyone as the same.

darkenedrebel:
op.. your post is on point like icicles..

Thanks dear

adepeter26:
Op head dae dia. Nice one

IamLEGEND1:
at least I get to sleep today knowing I've seen one sensible thread.

Even if most of the time,the OP is usually unhinged.

Thanks LEGEND

oseod:
I no know say threads for romance section still dey make sense.....
Op wetin you go take...? Vodka abi origin?

Lol, you make me laugh

Now Playing Brandy - Fall

TrapLORD:

Beautifully written. Thumbs up!!

Thanks dear

fulfillbill:
Now Playing Brandy - Fall

Hmmm

StephanieEzeh:
Am far too wise for that. Don't see everyone as the same.

if I hear..........Liar muhammed

Estharfabian:
I actually thought it was another one of those Annoying/cliché Virginity threads. I stand corrected.



Thumbs Up Miss!

Thanks Esther

StephanieEzeh:
Lol, you make me laugh

Really?...I just asked what you want to drink nau..

Laveda:
Nice thread girl!!!

I know some stupid guys still live with that childish mentality of getting into a woman's panties then dump her afterwards...

I pray I don't meet such guy

They roam everywhere seeking for who to devour!

Laveda:
Nice thread girl!!!

I know some stupid guys still live with that childish mentality of getting into a woman's panties then dump her afterwards...

I pray I don't meet such guy

Amen, Amen! You Have The Right One

Estharfabian:
I actually thought it was another one of those Annoying/cliché Virginity threads. I stand corrected.



Thumbs Up Miss!

u again?

ucnwafor:
if I hear..........Liar muhammed

I expected you to get the message clear.