andromida:
"They don't have what it takes to be married" na that one dey make me laff.

What does it take for a woman to get herself hitched? From the write up its ability to cook, do laundry, remain fit and be modest. Not a bad list I wonder what the complainy man has to bring to the table because if you look cook book you go become chef sef. The man can wash his clothes why must the woman pass the laundry test? before he meet her he no dey wash him clothes?

Fit and modest well just eat vegetables once a day of something ha the modesty hide the flamboyant clothes from the man although I don't get why he is so worried about clothes she bought herself.

Never mind men need not work on their characters a woman is lucky if any man says HI talk more of I wan marry you chai! She just lucked out.

what is this one saying? go to school,you won't, Oya see your English

sickstars:


M very unfortunate in life dats it

But i will wait and build on my sef more
M nt pained
spoke out of my personal experience
Experience dey say is d best teacher

Eyya, I'm really touch by your comments.

True talk

firstking01:
Op i'm sure you 've heard the saying that two wrongs cannot make a right?,,,the simple law of nature demands that, when something is too hot, you'd dilute it with a cold water and vice versa...all i'm saying is, you don't expect a seemingly perfect gentle men like us to marry a seemingly perfect women like us, there will be trouble @home, cos, she no go ever dey gree...my submission, marry her and make her what you want her to be, hence she loves you and she's willing to learn and adapt...thank you.

Bros, you are sooooooo naive if you think you can change someone by marrying them. Talk about deceiving ones self. It is this kind of thinking that causes many divorces.

davidif:




Bros, you are sooooooo naive if you think you can change someone by marrying them. Talk about deceiving ones self. It is this kind of thinking that causes many divorces.

pls bros, recapitulate my write up...i gave the condition that, if the woman is willing to adapt, and that she loves u too...if a woman loves u...she must dance to ur music just to please u...so, i'm vindicated on what i posted...hence i have 3 people who concured to dis...it then means i'm vindicated

davidif:




Bros, you are sooooooo naive if you think you can change someone by marrying them. Talk about deceiving ones self. It is this kind of thinking that causes many divorces.

pls bros, recapitulate my write up...i gave the condition that, if the woman is willing to adapt, and she loves u too, that's where it could be possible...and if a woman loves u...she must dance to ur music just to please u...so, i'm vindicated on what i posted...hence i have 3 people who concured to dis...it then means i'm vindicated

politricks:
But two like poles repel dont you think so?

True, but according to the principle of cohesion, it is like molecules that attract

Mr right marries miss wrong = divorce

McSquishi:
There's never a lack of threads on here preaching to women about how to catch one of you men (apparently whom are made of gold and encrusted in diamonds based on the way it is sold as such a prize)... This OP is no exception.

So now a woman can't have an ideal man? That too is wrong? If a girl tells you she wants Mr. Right, she wants the guy that's her perfect match. When she meets him they will balance each other out in ways that make a relationship sound. If her Mr. Right doesn't describe you, take your hurt pride and find a girl who is looking for your type. Easy.

And the example of how a woman isn't ideal is not being a good cook? Gtfoh. She shouldn't want a guy who is successful and handsome if she can't cook & clean? Whaat? Maybe she's too busy pursuing her Ph.d to have learned this essential skill. Mr. Right will survive. Any man who left his woman bc she made food too oily deserves himself and himself alone.

Yeah, a girl can't want Mr. Right if she isn't likewise Miss Right, bc it must match, yes? Meanwhile let me peruse the 1,000+ posts from dirty prick men demanding virgin wives. smh

No doubt that u are pained but truth must be told.

justbusy:
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No bro. I ve read all those bulshit about choose a niche. If u wont survive as a blogger, u wont. No be by Niche. I only write whatever my thoughts conceive. And they are 100 percent plagiarism free. I have visited ur blog enhen?
I want to call on all blog owners. Articles like this on any field are in my archive nd have not been published. You can buy it, nd publish it first on ur blog/website before it NL and it will carry ur site address as the source. amadiprincewill1@gmail.com is my email. Contact me. Oshey!!!

MORNDEW:

No doubt that u are pained but truth must be told.

I don't even know why you bothered to quote me with such a reply.

Lol. I'm "pained"? Please don't patronize me. I know in your archaic third-world mindset you believe we women are temperamental and thus our expressed thoughts should be dismissed as just the emotional meanderings of the lower species, so I'll forgive your ignorance.

The truth was told in the op, I agree. It told the truth that the person who posted it needs to get a life.

firstking01:
pls bros, recapitulate my write up...i gave the condition that, if the woman is willing to adapt, and she loves u too, that's where it could be possible...and if a woman loves u...she must dance to ur music just to please u...so, i'm vindicated on what i posted...hence i have 3 people who concured to dis...it then means i'm vindicated

Yes, you have a very good point. I do agree that it might happen on some occasions but a lot of times, people can be deceitful and pretentious just because they are desperate to get married. After the wedding is when their true self and character begins to truly manifest but by then you already said 'I do'. Please don't be naive o.

davidif:


Yes, you have a very good point. I do agree that it might happen on some occasions but a lot of times, people can be deceitful and pretentious just because they are desperate to get married. After the wedding is when their true self and character begins to truly manifest but by then you already said 'I do'. Please don't be naive o.

naive??...i ain't naive, we councel people on relationships...that's why i said u need to be fully convinced that she's willing to adapt to the kinda woman u want her to be before tying the knot with her, nw, dis is nt too hard for u to grasp or apprehend, is it??

No Nigerian man is Mr right, most of them are school drop outs, criminals, drug pushers and they are in abundance in the Nigerian prisons and abroad.
The ones that are so called marriage material are chronic cheaters, infidels and chauvinists.
Quote me.

Temperament : being able to be silent in the face of anger, annoyance, betrayal, suspicion is the greatest quality any woman can possess.

Most ladies lack attitude. Any woman with good attitude will have suitors everyday. I learnt this 2 years back. If a guy lacks attitude, he too cannot marry such a lady.

Silence is a virtue. Time reveals all things..

sickstars:
Smh even if u are perfect nd average looking

They will still dump u for a girl who cant do half of this but extremely beautiful

As a lady pray dat d husband God planned for u is who u shd find nt even mr right

Gods choice for u

God can never hurt u

Refer to my comment up there.. ^^^

McSquishi:


I don't even know why you bothered to quote me with such a reply.

Lol. I'm "pained"? Please don't patronize me. I know in your archaic third-world mindset you believe we women are temperamental and thus our expressed thoughts should be dismissed as just the emotional meanderings of the lower species, so I'll forgive your ignorance.

The truth was told in the op, I agree. It told the truth that the person who posted it needs to get a life.

Third world achaich- mindset? Na that mindset make our mothers stay till old age with theri hubby o. Unlike ur self acclaimed first-world modern mindset that has splashed out several divorce cases which is becoming a menace that can best be compared to terrorism. Truth is there women that is made but still retain what can best be described as anacceptable standard of character worthy for marriage and thats the objective of the article.
We had feminist like mizmycoli who championed what u are doing here on NL but i bet u by now she knows its meaningless u can ask her.

sickstars:
Smh even if u are perfect nd average looking

They will still dump u for a girl who cant do half of this but extremely beautiful

As a lady pray dat d husband God planned for u is who u shd find nt even mr right

Gods choice for u

God can never hurt u

men don't fall in love with "perfect" women, men fall in love with authentic women, be yourself and stop trying to please men, stop being a pushover and say no when u want to but still retain your sweet nature.

Lastly stop with the pity party and low self esteem and hold yourself as a woman of high quality who has a lot to offer a man. Men don't chase women who don't love and value themselves. They go after women who are happy in their own skin.

I maybe wrong but by reading your comments I deduced that this May be your problem.

MORNDEW:


No bro. I ve read all those bulshit about choose a niche. If u wont survive as a blogger, u wont. No be by Niche. I only write whatever my thoughts conceive. And they are 100 percent plagiarism free. I have visited ur blog enhen?
I want to call on all blog owners. Articles like this on any field are in my archive nd have not been published. You can buy it, nd publish it first on ur blog/website before it NL and it will carry ur site address as the source. amadiprincewill1@gmail.com is my email. Contact me. Oshey!!!

Do you rank high on search engine? What about keywords? Not looking for a niche is typical of 'jack of all trades, but master of none.' It's about search engine ranking. Linda Ikeji is successful because she knows the nitty-gritty of blogging and has got the money to spend on ads. And, you don't publish on top-level domain. I'm cogitating about moving to WORDPRESS.

Good luck!

justbusy:
Do you rank high on search engine? What about keywords? Not looking for a niche is typical of 'jack of all trades, but master of none.' It's about search engine ranking. Linda Ikeji is successful because she knows the nitty-gritty of blogging and has got the money to spend on ads. And, you don't publish on top-level domain. I'm cogitating about moving to WORDPRESS.

Good luck!

ur advice plenty o. I shud remove , i shud use wordpress. Well the search engine stuff is d only thing i want. I dnt want to master anyone.

MORNDEW:

Third world achaich- mindset? Na that mindset make our mothers stay till old age with theri hubby o. Unlike ur self acclaimed first-world modern mindset that has splashed out several divorce cases which is becoming a menace that can best be compared to terrorism. Truth is there women that is made but still retain what can best be described as anacceptable standard of character worthy for marriage and thats the objective of the article.
We had feminist like mizmycoli who championed what u are doing here on NL but i bet u by now she knows its meaningless u can ask her.

They stayed with wireless husbands till old age? YES. We're they happy in their marriages? NO. We modern women have decided that our happiness matters too. So you me either sit up or..........

MORNDEW:

Third world achaich- mindset? Na that mindset make our mothers stay till old age with theri hubby o. Unlike ur self acclaimed first-world modern mindset that has splashed out several divorce cases which is becoming a menace that can best be compared to terrorism. Truth is there women that is made but still retain what can best be described as anacceptable standard of character worthy for marriage and thats the objective of the article.
We had feminist like mizmycoli who championed what u are doing here on NL but i bet u by now she knows its meaningless u can ask her.

They stayed with wireless husbands till old age? YES. We're they happy in their marriages? NO. We modern women have decided that our happiness matters too. So you men either sit up or..........

MORNDEW:
Most times when you see a single lady and you engage her in a conversation on why she is not married, they often give many reasons but one that has most times formed their argument is that they have not seen ''Mr right''. When you probe further on what qualifies a man as Mr right? Then you are in for an answer that could rival any essay in a WAEC exam. You will such things as he must be tall, handsome, rich, treat me like a queen, must not be a cheat, and others to numerous to mention.

As they say, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander, many women want MR. RIGHT but are MISS WRONG. Equity demands that since you want Mr. Right, you should also be "Miss right" of strive to be one in order to strike a balance when you both finally meet or even to be ahead of other women in getting married.

Sadly enough, many women are "Miss Wrong". They don't have what it takes to be married. They want to get married but they still keep more than one man, many of these Mr right seeking ladies can't cook, clean the home, and do laundry. They lack rudimentary elements of how to make a successful home. A friend of mine just parted ways with a certain lady who each time she cooks, the oil used in preparing such meal will be enough to cook three different types of food. He has tried to teach her, but it appears there's no success in sight.

Some of these women have not improved themselves over the years to make a man consider them for marriage. Many over eat themselves and get unnecessarily fat and ugly, what to them is beauty is to fix all the artificialities of this world and engage in frivolous spending on irrelevant things. Some ladies, their wardrobe alone can start three boutiques in their street of which none of the money used in buying those things was sourced by them.

A lady that is up to marriage age should have something doing and has weaned herself off different bad characters. You don't expect to married to a Mr right and you are Miss wrong yourself are expecting to go and pollute his rightness or complement it. Will it be fair to be Miss wrong and you expect Mr right?

Princewill Chimereze.
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Writer, Public Affairs Analyst,
Social Commentator.

Source:
www.enlightennigeria..com/2016/01/you-want-mr-right-when-you-are-miss_8.html

Op thou art honourable "mr right", remove the speck in ur eyes before u remove that off the women. Don't u pple get tired of women, anyway continue making us popular and well noted. Pls look beyond their attitude $ see their inner beauty. My one pence though!

Nori:
men don't fall in love with "perfect" women, men fall in love with authentic women, be yourself and stop trying to please men, stop being a pushover and say no when u want to but still retain your sweet nature.

Lastly stop with the pity party and low self esteem and hold yourself as a woman of high quality who has a lot to offer a man. Men don't chase women who don't love and value themselves. They go after women who are happy in their own skin.

I maybe wrong but by reading your comments I deduced that this May be your problem.

tank u ma i av learnt

no need reading at all since the thread is clearly talking about women. so i'll just comment

Joy1706:

They stayed with wireless husbands till old age? YES. We're they happy in their marriages? NO. We modern women have decided that our happiness matters too. So you men either sit up or..........

you know the beauty of life? Many right thinking ladies have embraced the advice of this article and it will help them. But i pity the guy that will bear the brunt of ur rigidity and believe that a particular way of life pays.

Staying together with your hubby is not in and of itself a thing to brag about. Men notorious for cheating and/or abusing their wives yet the wife remains with him. She should be applauded or pitied? An archaic third world mindset like yours applauds her, enjoy that. But then you should also relinquish the right to use first world technology to come and preach your Stone Age dribble to modern thinkers, lol

The "truth" is that there are both men & women who aren't perfect & never will be, Marriage isn't about being perfect. It's about finding a person whose flaws balance with your strengths and vice versa. Marriage is especially not about a woman being perfect, virginal, AND a professional chef. Smh. The write up is an attempt to tell a woman she can't even have an ideal man in mind... It describes dumb things like her not being a good cook, which try as you might to spin it, has nothing to do with her character. It's simply an attempt to dissuade a woman from having any standards and thereby accepting any raggedy guy who proposes. lol

I'm not on a mission as you infer. I'm on a forum sharing my thoughts like everyone else. Labeling me feminist or whatever doesn't insult me. Anything I'm "doing" on here can't be any more meaningless than the bs you posted. So I'll continue on this track.

MORNDEW:

Third world achaich- mindset? Na that mindset make our mothers stay till old age with theri hubby o. Unlike ur self acclaimed first-world modern mindset that has splashed out several divorce cases which is becoming a menace that can best be compared to terrorism. Truth is there women that is made but still retain what can best be described as anacceptable standard of character worthy for marriage and thats the objective of the article.
We had feminist like mizmycoli who championed what u are doing here on NL but i bet u by now she knows its meaningless u can ask her.

McSquishi:
Staying together with your hubby is not in and of itself a thing to brag about. Men notorious for cheating and/or abusing their wives yet the wife remains with him. She should be applauded or pitied? An archaic third world mindset like yours applauds her, enjoy that. But then you should also relinquish the right to use first world technology to come and preach your Stone Age dribble to modern thinkers, lol

The "truth" is that there are both men & women who aren't perfect & never will be, Marriage isn't about being perfect. It's about finding a person whose flaws balance with your strengths and vice versa. Marriage is especially not about a woman being perfect, virginal, AND a professional chef. Smh. The write up is an attempt to tell a woman she can't even have an ideal man in mind... It describes dumb things like her not being a good cook, which try as you might to spin it, has nothing to do with her character. It's simply an attempt to dissuade a woman from having any standards and thereby accepting any raggedy guy who proposes. lol

I'm not on a mission as you infer. I'm on a forum sharing my thoughts like everyone else. Labeling me feminist or whatever doesn't insult me. Anything I'm "doing" on here can't be any more meaningless than the bs you posted. So I'll continue on this track.

You might have decided that you may never have a lasting marriage, but please allow good women to.

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tank u ma i av learnt your welcome dear

MORNDEW:

You might have decided that you may never have a lasting marriage, but please allow good women to.

Child, hush now, your idiocy is showing through.

*edited to add that your reading comprehension skills are seriously lacking. You can't argue with anything I posted so u just type up some meaningless sentence. Typical of cave men.