There is this friend of mine, he's a Nairalander too, He just got admission into one of the state universities in Nigeria and he would be resuming this January, his dad has given him his school fees and he has the money at hand but he has a girlfriend (the best girlfriend anyone can ever have #my opinion) who is seriously ill nd has been diagnosed with fibroid(an unusual growth on the uterus) and she needs to undergo surgery asap but her mother can't afford the 60k they said she should pay at the hospital. The lady lost her father early last year nd it has been her, her mother and younger brother only. No help is forth coming from any relative or anybody at all.
Now the thing is, should this friend of mine use his school fees to pay this girlfriend of his hospital bill or he should just go ahead and pay his school fees?? ?
I really hope you guys can help him with your invaluable pieces of advice....

1. The boyfriend has no justifiable reason to use the money his father gave him to pay his school fees for any other thing.

2. Does your friend have any means of raising his school fees anytime soon?

3. Can your friend's school fees cover for all the medical requirement of his girlfriend's illness?

4. Can't your friend think of any other way of raising money to support his girlfriend?

Ask your friend to carefully consider these questions, answer himself and get some sense.

Please Nigerian Youths, if your parents are not a billionaires, when they send you to school, focus on your education and delete the word love from your dictionary.

To get more of my reflections on success and politics, visit http://234jam.com

Who is he?

You said "Girlfriend not "Wife, so what i'll do is to go to my school & pay my School Fees.. shikena

Carowline:
Who is he?

amebo give advise jor

fulfillbill:

amebo give advise jor

No joor. Am suspecting you.

Gf not wife .. So your friend should go and pay his fees ...let us assume he has already paid it before she fell ill what will she do

Carowline:

No joor. Am suspecting you.

And ur the one typing from ur sick bed

I think he should help her with the money, especially if he knows it's possible for him to raise money for his school fees, all of you saying she's his GF not wife, I don't get, does it mean if your GF is at the point of death, you cant use ur last dough to save her cos she's jst a GF and not a wife

MediaDeveloper:

2. Does your friend have any means of raising his school fees anytime soon?

not certain

MediaDeveloper:

3. Can your friend's school fees cover for all the medical requirement of his girlfriend's illness?

yes

Doesn't the gal have relatives or they are 'dead' too The guy shud beta goan and pay his school fees oo!! Gals aren't loyal. She'll still leave him some day!













And the Frost descended on them!

Carowline:
Who is he?

is dat really necessary?

drdrei09:
not certain
yes

If 2 is not applicable, do not advice him to jump to 3

Even if she is not ur wife

There is nothing wrong with saving a soul

Come to tink of d pains she is passing through

if the illness isn't a point of death kinda illness... I'd say the guy pays his school fees and try to assist with whatever he can raise


buh if the chick needs it urgently, like she could die or lose her womb and not bear kids in the future, then the dude should....

lie his azz off to his parents, relatives, friends and raise the goddamn money for both his school fees and the operation


I can't advise him to lay off his school... His future matters a lot and dad could permanently lose trust in him

This is a f*cking case.

Ur friend better go nd pay his fees, let her family look for other alternatives to get the money

She might end up leaving him for someone else later

Or does he think that by paying the hospital bills both of dere future is sealed together?

Since he love her he should help her...nobody knows tomorrow.
Some parent still believe that some schools pay second semester school fees, he can recover the money from there.

myfantasies:
Ur friend better go nd pay his fees, let her family look for other alternatives to get the money

She might end up leaving him for someone else later

Or does he think that by paying the hospital bills both of dere future is sealed together?

But these are the fire that relationships go through to ensure that the love is pure.

fulfillbill:


But these are the fire that relationships go through to ensure that the love is pure.

My dear dere is nothing pure in dis

Trust me i am talking from experience

myfantasies:
My dear dere is nothing pure in dis

Trust me i am talking from experience

Well for me i do things for people mainly because i want to help not really because i expect something in return...if he can squeeze the doe some how, i'd say go for it.

MediaDeveloper:
1. The boyfriend has no justifiable reason to use the money his father gave him to pay his school fees for any other thing.

2. Does your friend have any means of raising his school fees anytime soon?

3. Can your friend's school fees cover for all the medical requirement of his girlfriend's illness?

4. Can't your friend think of any other way of raising money to support his girlfriend?

Ask your friend to carefully consider these questions, answer himself and get some sense.

Please Nigerian Youths, if your parents are not a billionaires, when they send you to school, focus on your education and delete the word love from your dictionary.

To get more of my reflections on success and politics, visit http://234jam.com

God bless you. Nice one joor

This is the problem associated with having girlfriend/boyfriend while in school. Face your education for now and simply forget about anything relationship. Your parents hustled money for you to go to school, the money is not meant for medical bills. Receive sense please! If you don't have any alternative means of raising your school fee, never divert it into something else!

Person wey dem dey feed no dey feed person.

sickstars:
Even if she is not ur wife

There is nothing wrong with saving a soul

Come to tink of d pains she is passing through

But do u no this can be very complicated if really digested & reasoned carefully?

Let him follow his Heart.... Or better still toss a coin 2 determine wat he shud do... I understand if pays d hospital bill, and I also understand if he ends up paying his school fees.

myfantasies:
Ur friend better go nd pay his fees, let her family look for other alternatives to get the money

She might end up leaving him for someone else later

Or does he think that by paying the hospital bills both of dere future is sealed together?

My thoughts as well

adepeter26:

But do u no this can be very complicated if really digested & reasoned carefully?

All i care bou is save a soul

She is dying not like wen she dies she wud come back to life

sickstars:


All i care bou is save a soul

She is dying not like wen she dies she wud come back to life

Nice @bolded but hope you no there are more to dat..

Only if you see it from d perspective am viewing it frm.

missKiffy:
I think he should help her with the money, especially if he knows it's possible for him to raise money for his school fees, all of you saying she's his GF not wife, I don't get, does it mean if your GF is at the point of death, you cant use ur last dough to save her cos she's jst a GF and not a wife

Answer to your question is in bold below.

IamLEGEND1:
him no know say all dem slúts ain't loyal shey?

Tell him to better go & pay him schl fees.

one way or the other,the mama go raise the money.

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