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8 Things You Didn't Know About Cheaters by JSmart4u(m): 5:23pm On Jan 10, 2016
Bad news if your partner loves rock n' roll ...
While there may not be a clinical definition of
what constitutes a cheater , the fact is that
cheaters exist and they cause far more damage
than it's usually worth. Whether you consider
cheating as sex or simply a kiss, no matter what
the parameters of your relationship, a betrayal is
a betrayal.
Here are a few things that you may have never
known about cheaters, but probably should
because, you know, there are many of them out
there. You might as well educate yourself on this
breed of people.

EXPLORE YOURTANGO

1. Cheaters Are More Likely To Be Rock 'n' Roll
Fans.
Because music and sex really do go hand-in-
hand, researchers have found that when it comes
to cheaters, 41 percent of them prefer rock music
to all other genres. Falling in line after that,
respectively, is pop music (16 percent), country
music (11 percent), classical music (7 percent)
and rap/hip-hop came in last place with only 2
percent of cheaters favoring that stuff.
Takeaway? Kanye and Kim really have a chance!

2. When Women Cheat, It's A Dangerous
Business.
For some reason, a long time ago, a rumor was
started that when it came to infidelity, men held
the honor of being the most likely to stray, but
it’s a lie! Not only do women cheat, but studies
have found the difference between the two sexes
is that usually when women stray, it's to fulfill an
emotional need as opposed to a physical one.
Emotional involvement is pretty much just one or
two steps away from a completely kaput
relationship that can't be saved. Purely physical
entanglements might still have a chance of
getting a relationship back on track.

3. Cheaters Are Actually Happy In Their
Relationship.
Cheating doesn't necessarily mean that the
cheater thinks their relationship is the absolute
pits. While that’s not to suggest that every
cheater feels this way, but the majority of those
who commit adultery are happy in their lives and
relationships, and aren’t even looking for a break-
up. According to a Rutgers University study, 56
percent of men who had affairs were happy with
their partners, while 34 percent of women who
cheated were also really content in their
relationship. They just do it, because, well, they
can.

4. Cheaters Get "Friskier" When They're Cheating.
According to intimacy expert Mary Jo Rapini,
once that sex drive is awoken in the cheating
party, sometimes after years of hibernation, things
can go from zero to 20 with their spouse fast. It
might seem like things have turned around with
all that extra attention, but in reality, there's a
little somethin' somethin' going on elsewhere.

5. Women Are More Likely To Cheat When
They're Ovulating.
Oh, dear. It sounds like something out of a How
To Be A Good Wife handbook from 1957, but it's
true. As UCLA researcher Dr. Martie Haselton
explains, "We found that women were most
attracted to men other than their primary partner
when they were in the high fertility phase of the
menstrual cycle. That's the day of ovulation and
several days beforehand." Yikes! Not only that,
but women feel sexier when their body is in tip-
top mode to make a baby, so combine that with
their desire for men other than their partner and
we have a double yikes situation.

6. Men Will Cheat To "Fix" Their Marriage.
It may sound like the most ridiculous thing in the
world, but according to marriage and family
therapist Susan Mandel, PhD, men who love their
spouses think that by going outside their
marriage, they can save it. Perhaps it's a difficult
concept to swallow, but in their brains, they think
they can have it all, and therefore it will lead to
less of a longing for something else.

7. Cheaters Usually Cheat With Someone They
Already Know.
It may be comforting to think that if your partner
is going to cheat, it will be with a one-night
stand, but cheaters tend to stick closer to home.
In fact, the most common place for an affair to
blossom is at work. Research has found that 85
percent of cheating starts amongst coworkers,
with friends and neighbors not being too far
behind.

8. Cheaters Want To Get Caught.
Think about the burden it must be to carry
around such a weight day in and day out! The
guilt! The secrecy! The fear of, "OMG! Am I about
to be found out?” Welp, cheaters, some of you
actually want to be found out after all. According
to Scott Haltzman, MD, a clinical professor at
Brown University and author of The Secrets of
Happy Married Men, "People may actually set it
up so the spouse or partner find out. Whether it's
lipstick on the collar or emails left open on the
family computer, we leave our fingerprints
everywhere. Oftentimes, it's a cry to say 'I need
to get help.' Some people make it obvious
because they want to stop but don't know how."
Well then. I guess we can’t all live with being
conniving and deceitful forever, now can we?

Go us!

Re: 8 Things You Didn't Know About Cheaters by falconey(m): 5:24pm On Jan 10, 2016
grin


9. Women cheat with someone more handsome/richer than their partner.
Re: 8 Things You Didn't Know About Cheaters by obiorathesubtle: 5:27pm On Jan 10, 2016
H Ah Ah Ah Ah A
Re: 8 Things You Didn't Know About Cheaters by StefanSalvatore: 5:29pm On Jan 10, 2016
Who told cheaters wanna get caught ??
Re: 8 Things You Didn't Know About Cheaters by ronald4lif(m): 5:30pm On Jan 10, 2016
A cheat want to get caught? Where did you sniff that from?
Re: 8 Things You Didn't Know About Cheaters by GodpunishBuhari: 6:02pm On Jan 10, 2016
Serious?
Re: 8 Things You Didn't Know About Cheaters by Ajinoride(m): 6:45pm On Jan 10, 2016
JSmart4u:
Bad news if your partner loves rock n' roll ...
While there may not be a clinical definition of
what constitutes a cheater , the fact is that
cheaters exist and they cause far more damage
than it's usually worth. Whether you consider
cheating as sex or simply a kiss, no matter what
the parameters of your relationship, a betrayal is
a betrayal.
Here are a few things that you may have never
known about cheaters, but probably should
because, you know, there are many of them out
there. You might as well educate yourself on this
breed of people.

EXPLORE YOURTANGO

1. Cheaters Are More Likely To Be Rock 'n' Roll
Fans.
Because music and sex really do go hand-in-
hand, researchers have found that when it comes
to cheaters, 41 percent of them prefer rock music
to all other genres. Falling in line after that,
respectively, is pop music (16 percent), country
music (11 percent), classical music (7 percent)
and rap/hip-hop came in last place with only 2
percent of cheaters favoring that stuff.
Takeaway? Kanye and Kim really have a chance!

2. When Women Cheat, It's A Dangerous
Business.
For some reason, a long time ago, a rumor was
started that when it came to infidelity, men held
the honor of being the most likely to stray, but
it’s a lie! Not only do women cheat, but studies
have found the difference between the two sexes
is that usually when women stray, it's to fulfill an
emotional need as opposed to a physical one.
Emotional involvement is pretty much just one or
two steps away from a completely kaput
relationship that can't be saved. Purely physical
entanglements might still have a chance of
getting a relationship back on track.

3. Cheaters Are Actually Happy In Their
Relationship.
Cheating doesn't necessarily mean that the
cheater thinks their relationship is the absolute
pits. While that’s not to suggest that every
cheater feels this way, but the majority of those
who commit adultery are happy in their lives and
relationships, and aren’t even looking for a break-
up. According to a Rutgers University study, 56
percent of men who had affairs were happy with
their partners, while 34 percent of women who
cheated were also really content in their
relationship. They just do it, because, well, they
can.

4. Cheaters Get "Friskier" When They're Cheating.
According to intimacy expert Mary Jo Rapini,
once that sex drive is awoken in the cheating
party, sometimes after years of hibernation, things
can go from zero to 20 with their spouse fast. It
might seem like things have turned around with
all that extra attention, but in reality, there's a
little somethin' somethin' going on elsewhere.

5. Women Are More Likely To Cheat When
They're Ovulating.
Oh, dear. It sounds like something out of a How
To Be A Good Wife handbook from 1957, but it's
true. As UCLA researcher Dr. Martie Haselton
explains, "We found that women were most
attracted to men other than their primary partner
when they were in the high fertility phase of the
menstrual cycle. That's the day of ovulation and
several days beforehand." Yikes! Not only that,
but women feel sexier when their body is in tip-
top mode to make a baby, so combine that with
their desire for men other than their partner and
we have a double yikes situation.

6. Men Will Cheat To "Fix" Their Marriage.
It may sound like the most ridiculous thing in the
world, but according to marriage and family
therapist Susan Mandel, PhD, men who love their
spouses think that by going outside their
marriage, they can save it. Perhaps it's a difficult
concept to swallow, but in their brains, they think
they can have it all, and therefore it will lead to
less of a longing for something else.

7. Cheaters Usually Cheat With Someone They
Already Know.
It may be comforting to think that if your partner
is going to cheat, it will be with a one-night
stand, but cheaters tend to stick closer to home.
In fact, the most common place for an affair to
blossom is at work. Research has found that 85
percent of cheating starts amongst coworkers,
with friends and neighbors not being too far
behind.

8. Cheaters Want To Get Caught.
Think about the burden it must be to carry
around such a weight day in and day out! The
guilt! The secrecy! The fear of, "OMG! Am I about
to be found out?” Welp, cheaters, some of you
actually want to be found out after all. According
to Scott Haltzman, MD, a clinical professor at
Brown University and author of The Secrets of
Happy Married Men, "People may actually set it
up so the spouse or partner find out. Whether it's
lipstick on the collar or emails left open on the
family computer, we leave our fingerprints
everywhere. Oftentimes, it's a cry to say 'I need
to get help.' Some people make it obvious
because they want to stop but don't know how."
Well then. I guess we can’t all live with being
conniving and deceitful forever, now can we?

Go us!
o

that number 2. is absolutely CORRECT
Re: 8 Things You Didn't Know About Cheaters by youngds: 7:43pm On Jan 10, 2016
Ajinoride:
o
that number 2. is absolutely CORRECT
Ode must you quote everything

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