I started a relationship late last year with someone who has been my friend for some years now, not really close though but we say hi on phone calls occasionally because we dont live in the same town. The following are my worries for now:

1, This beautiful damsel used to date my friend but they broke up. Before they went separate ways, i tried to reconcile them through phone calls but no avail, this breakup happened about 4 years ago. The girls Dad is close to my family but we have not told anyone about it. I know people will always tag me or her by giving us bad names but i want to hear what you guys think, is this relationship going to hold the test of time?

P.S The ex guy is married with no issue yet and to be honest, she showed me the green light.

2, The second issue that is giving me sleepless night is the distance between us in terms of finance and status. she has a very good job, she can decide to get whatever she wants when the need arise. Me myself, i gat no job, just doing errands and street jobs to survive till a good job comes or when the door opens through business. She is worried about my status but she is very supportive through prayers and speaking to people on my behalf but no good news yet. Her tender, love and care is out of this world, i have never collected money from her and i dont intend to. I dont know how long she can hold on to. Her parents are on her neck to get married soonest but she told them she will settle down when the time is right. We have been making plans for our future. Am worried too cause I might just loose her one day. she is 28yrs old.

Pls pals, i trust you to give me good advise, its my future that is at stake here.

Lalasticlala, mynd44, please do the needfull

She being ur frnd's ex is a sign there's bound to be complications in future.

Sunnymatey:
She being ur frnd's ex is a sign there's bound to be complications in future.

Thanks, i wuld love it if you can explain any form of complications that may arise.

una no want make we wake up finish before una start to ask for advice.anyway I think u should......*sorry my mouth dey smell make I brush first*

cruzita:
una no want make we wake up finish before una start to ask for advice.anyway I think u should......*sorry my mouth dey smell make I brush first*

the matter hard that's why, abeg brush quickly

See you really have no problems then. The ex is married and you're still having sleepless nights. And why do u fucking care what others say? Stay prayerful and a good job will come in no distance time, coz I know that's ur major concern

One way or another...she gon Fúck her Ex...


Don't get surprised then.

See this op. 28yrs gal under pressure to marry. She go soon dust u for anoda man like she dust ur friend. Forget tender love, nothing permanent comes from a woman. Enjoy urself while it last.

Well na u dey do gentle man, I know a 32yr old guy with no job dating a 33yr old lady, collecting money from her and still womanising with other girls around.

Its like d economy favor women than men these days, they work, we eat

just get a good job before she leaves

nanauju:
See you really have no problems then. The ex is married and you're still having sleepless nights. And why do u fucking care what others say? Stay prayerful and a good job will come in no distance time, coz I know that's ur major concern

thanks for lifitng me up, I appreciate

iceberylin:
One way or another...she gon Fúck her Ex...


Don't get surprised then.

she won't do that cause she is not that type, the only way she might do it is when I push her by acting funny, that I don't intend to do. Thanks anyway.

RadicallyBlunt:
See this op. 28yrs gal under pressure to marry. She go soon dust u for anoda man like she dust ur friend. Forget tender love, nothing permanent comes from a woman. Enjoy urself while it last.

Well na u dey do gentle man, I know a 32yr old guy with no job dating a 33yr old lady, collecting money from her and still womanising with other girls around.

Its like d economy favor women than men these days, they work, we eat

what will i gain if I treat her bad, bros I have sisters who are ripe for marriage and they are single, I know what karma is all about, I don't wanna experience one. Tanks

Have you seek your friends permission on your relationship status with his ex? If no beef from him then go ahead man. i've been in your shoes before. Just seek his blessing first, that's very very important. Besides, look people don't get married intentionally these days. Give the babe belly and see if you won't be married in less than 7months from now. Good luck man

mistytohcute:
just get a good job before she leaves

Am still trying to,Tanks.

koladata:
Have you seek your friends permission on your relationship status with his ex? If no beef from him then go ahead man. i've been in your shoes before. Just seek his blessing first, that's very very important. Besides, look people don't get married intentionally these days. Give the babe belly and see if you won't be married in less than 7months from now. Good luck man

To be honest, I have not told the ex, my plan was to tell him and others when we decide to go to the altar. The pregnancy though, e heavy for mouth o. Thanks bro.

peterdrury:
what will i gain if I treat her bad, bros I have sisters who are ripe for marriage and they are single, I know what karma is all about, I don't wanna experience one. Tanks

Ok o. Karma guy. If this is how all d runz gals believe in karma, they'll help guys save money and not eating their money.

Just here to read comments.

Work hard, pray, work hard and keep praying. It's a dicey issue but love conquers all. I believe you're a good person with a likeable persona but still make sure you get some form of self sustaining job before advancing plans for marriage. Reassure her that things would be fine and you would soon get a job.

RadicallyBlunt:

Ok o. Karma guy. If this is how all d runz gals believe in karma, they'll help guys save money and not eating their money.

LOL

sapiosexual1:
Work hard, pray, work hard and keep praying. It's a dicey issue but love conquers all. I believe you're a good person with a liveable persona but still make sure you get some form of self sustaining job before advancing plans for marriage. Reassure her that things would be fine and you would soon get a job.

Tanks, we are working so hard on the job issue. I pray it comes quickly.