Learn to appreciate the fact that a guy feels something for you even when you are in a relationship because no one knows tomorrow.

Don't string him along or try to toy with his emotions just because he refused to back out.

Turn him down, keep turning him down but do it politely. Even if it takes you 1 year, keep doing it. If done maturely, you will earn his respect even more.

Lol...nobody said tat to me yet

KashyBaby:
Lol...nobody said tat to me yet

So like i have trying to get ur attention for quite a while now but you have totally blown me off...

moonraker:


So like i have trying to get ur attention for quite a while now but you have totally blown me off...

Hahhaha...attention for quite a while? In ur dreams maybe...we never even chatted ooo.

I888:
Learn to appreciate the fact that a guy feels something for you even when you are in a relationship because no one knows tomorrow.

Don't string him along or try to toy with his emotions just because he refused to back out.

Turn him down, keep turning him down but do it politely. Even if it takes you 1 year, keep doing it. If done maturely, you will earn his respect even more.

I liked your post until I got to the emboldened. Why will any sane man chase a lady for a year?. That's rubbish, and if aso a guy the girl you've been toasting for over a year finally accept, then what?.

Sorry for the heartbreak op but u guys will never learn nor listen. If a lady does not agree to your proposal for @least three times, she is obviously not interested in a relationship with you. Deal with it and move on.

But no, guys will never listen, the worst is even those that try to woo a lady that is already in a relationship.

If you try to pressure a lady into a relationship, the result is what makes pple like op come on here and open threads like this

I chased a lady for two solid years but she kept brother zoning me so 2016 I told her to f*ck that sh*t.

KashyBaby:





Hahhaha...attention for quite a while? In ur dreams maybe...we never even chatted ooo.

Being serious here

I sent you several PMs but no response. zinch nada, zero. I am not sure why i would make that up..

That's how stupid they behave as if they ain't enjoying the attention but when it siezes to come they start complaining.. Foolish people

passionate88:
I liked your post until I got to the emboldened. Why will any sane man chase a lady for a year?. That's rubbish, and if aso a guy the girl you've been toasting for over a year finally accept, then what?.

I actually meant keep turning him down for as long as it takes.

well ,dats how girls are wired .they can't give in easily in other not to appear cheap and desperate.so quit advicing dem and instead advice the men because they need advice the most.thank you

Suigeneris93:
Sorry for the heartbreak op but u guys will never learn nor listen. If a lady does not agree to your proposal for @least three times, she is obviously not interested in a relationship with you. Deal with it and move on.

But no, guys will never listen, the worst is even those that try to woo a lady that is already in a relationship.

If you try to pressure a lady into a relationship, the result is what makes pple like op come on here and open threads like this

as if most don't keep the toaster as a plan B option.

I888:
as if most don't keep the toaster as a plan B option.

There you go! You agreed to be her plan B aka side boo. So what are u whining and complaining about? You got served like a plan B, deal with it

Suigeneris93:



There you go! You agreed to be her plan B aka side boo. So what are u whining and complaining about? You got served like a plan B, deal with it

Hey, don't get all worked up about this. I will beat you at it and I hope you don't deactivate your account. Take it calmly, we ain't fighting. Stop feeling funky all because I gave you the privilege.

I888:
Hey, don't get all worked up about this. I will beat you at it and I hope you don't deactivate your account. Take it calmly, we ain't fighting. Stop feeling funky all because I gave you the privilege.

Pls o, don't carry out ur anger on me. Its too early for an e-brawl which I won't even have the time to respond to. Just learn from your experience and don't repeat ur mistakes. Goodluck!

Suigeneris93:




Pls o, don't carry out ur anger on me. Its too early for an e-brawl which I won't even have the time to respond to. Just learn from your experience and don't repeat ur mistakes. Goodluck!

lol

cruzita:
well ,dats how girls are wired .they can't give in easily in other not to appear cheap and desperate.so quit advicing dem and instead advice the men because they need advice the most.thank you

lol

moonraker:



Being serious here

I sent you several PMs but no response. zinch nada, zero. I am not sure why i would make that up..

Oohhh yeah...well, i stopped responding on that coz i dnt know who to trust to...some yahoo yahoo boys sent me spams many times and someone even tried to open using my email add

Sorry If I don't reply to emails anymore.

passionate88:
I liked your post until I got to the emboldened. Why will any sane man chase a lady for a year?. That's rubbish, and if aso a guy the girl you've been toasting for over a year finally accept, then what?.

Leave am o, you never see anything. I will even chase a lady for ten years even with my wives beside me. No amount of days is too much to wait for one provided that the lady in question worth it.

passionate88:
I liked your post until I got to the emboldened. Why will any sane man chase a lady for a year?. That's rubbish, and if aso a guy the girl you've been toasting for over a year finally accept, then what?.

u go just bleep her hard and run to another hole

passionate88:
I liked your post until I got to the emboldened. Why will any sane man chase a lady for a year?. That's rubbish, and if aso a guy the girl you've been toasting for over a year finally accept, then what?.

some body like me no dey give up on any babe way I like oh, even tho it takes 5yrs to get u I will wait, once I dn tell u my mind, no going back till u say yes

Heheheheheeh some stubborn guys dnt back out after the rejection, they kept chasing and hoping.........,is just so annoying

@I888, I like your post, makes some sense buh are you going thru the motions?
Ok like seriously, when a lady is in a serious relationship, pls don't go on toasting her and flirting with her, it's impolite and disrespectful. Tell her wosup and move on. If you soo much as fancy her, go on and be plain friends with her.
I also don't see the maturity in chasing a girl for soo long. Makes you appear desperate with ulterior intentions.

sapiosexual1:
@I888, I like your post, makes some sense buh are you going thru the motions?
Ok like seriously, when a lady is in a serious relationship, pls don't go on toasting her and flirting with her, it's impolite and disrespectful. Tell her wosup and move on. If you soo much as fancy her, go on and be plain friends with her.
I also don't see the maturity in chasing a girl for soo long. Makes you appear desperate with ulterior intentions.

respect buddy. I have moved on.

EzePromoe:
Leave am o, you never see anything. I will even chase a lady for ten years even with my wives beside me. No amount of days is too much to wait for one provided that the lady in question worth it.

Being worth it is the key and why it happened. If she isn't worth it, I doubt I would have spent 1 month on her case.

menabae:
Heheheheheeh some stubborn guys dnt back out after the rejection, they kept chasing and hoping.........,is just so annoying

while it is annoying, what is the guarantee that the dude you are with will marry you? I mean in a case where a guy is very serious, he made it clear that it's not sex nor your beauty that he is after but more important things that beauty or sex can't offer.

You have got to appreciate him, irrespective of the fact that it's annoying. It does not give you the right to toy with his emotions when you very well known there are no ulterior motives.

Estharfabian:
Truth be told..They'd still bother You even if You Turn them down Politely and probably kneel down, giving them money too...


Guys are way too stubborn, Clingy And parasitic...
On Recent occasions, I Told one I was married! Nigga said he'd wait till I get divorced!

You enjoy the attention. Did you show him picture of your wedding ring, your husband and kids? Please do that asap.

Estharfabian:
Truth be told..They'd still bother You even if You Turn them down Politely and probably kneel down, giving them money too...


Guys are way too stubborn, Clingy And parasitic...
On Recent occasions, I Told one I was married! Nigga said he'd wait till I get divorced!

You weren't supposed to discuss our private affair on here dear.
Now i'm convinced you hate all men.

I888:
while it is annoying, what is the guarantee that the dude you are with will marry you? I mean in a case where a guy is very serious, he made it clear that it's not sex nor your beauty that he is after but more important things that beauty or sex can't offer.

You have got to appreciate him, irrespective of the fact that it's annoying. It does not give you the right to toy with his emotions when you very well known there are no ulterior motives.

well,if he is very serious with actions not word of mouth alone he might be appreciated or considered cos most ladies dislike irritants without genuine action of what he felt

menabae:
well,if he is very serious with actions not word of mouth alone he might be appreciated or considered cos most ladies dislike irritants without genuine action of what he felt

Action speaks louder than words.