It has been widely believed that sex and marriage go hand in hand and are both like Siamese twins which are inseparable. However, it has posed as much problems as anyone might have thought in most marriages, resulting into chaos ranging from cheating to messy divorces. I have seen situations where many sexual acts have been successfully introduced into marriages, permit me to be vulgar on this one, the sucking, licking, food play and all of that, while some women think they are emblems of the the true and proverbial African woman - one that doesn't engage in "nefarious" and "demeaning" sexual acts. They just want the old time kind of sex which doesn't entail all the "western" fantasies.

On the other hand, 98% of men, I mean men who are enlightened(educated,exposed and such) are so much engrossed in these habits, which I think is good because that is part of the globalization we're talking about evolving into, but their wives have refused to let them exhibit their new found talent in bed. The man subsequently seeks another woman out there who can go to any length to satisfy his needs and before you know it, he falls in "lust" and starts to lose focus on the home front and concentrating real good on the sexual counterpart, sending text messages, phone calls, romantic gifts, and dare I say that the man will be wayward and will start showing off attitudes to his wife if his counterpart is very sexy, good in bed and romantic?

Conclusively, some women are nasty with their husbands in bed, some are nasty within themselves but pretend to be saints to their husbands.  The main problem I think is that most partners don't know how to bring up the subject, Sex. Some don't always want to talk about it. Do you think sex makes a marriage last? Do you think there is any marriage devoid of better sex is prone to perils? Where do you think a marriage where sex is not talked about will land on? Let me know your opinions.

i dnt get the question here

~Sissy~:

i dnt get the question here

Sorry good grammar deserted me as at the time I was writing that. The questions have been included.

while some women think they are emblems of the the true and proverbial African woman - one that doesn't engage in "nefarious" and "demeaning" sexual acts. They just want the old time kind of sex which doesn't entail all the "western" fantasies.

On the other hand, 98% of men, I mean men who are enlightened(educated,exposed and such) are so much engrossed in these habits, which I think is good because that is part of the globalization we're talking about evolving into, but their wives have refused to let them exhibit their new found talent in bed. The man subsequently seeks another woman out there who can go to any length to satisfy his needs and before you know it, he falls in "lust" and starts to lose focus on the home front and concentrating real good on the sexual counterpart, sending text messages, phone calls, romantic gifts, and dare I say that the man will be wayward and will start showing off attitudes to his wife if his counterpart is very sexy, good in bed and romantic?

Madam, thank you for highlighting all this, you hit the message right on the head.

its quite simple really

bad sex = adverse effect on marriage even with abundance of other stuffs

gr8 sex = makes up for a lot of, though not everything in marriage

don't make ur partner need or seek Bleep outside, simple

If the marriage foundation is not built on sex then it should not be a problem IMO.

Black_Revo:

If the marriage foundation is not built on sex then it should not be a problem IMO.

Yup.

On the other hand, 98% of men, I mean men who are enlightened(educated,exposed and such) are so much engrossed in these habits, which I think is good because that is part of the globalization we're talking about evolving into, but their wives have refused to let them exhibit their new found talent in bed.

In other words the "proverbial African woman" should get with the program, I mean watch porn endlessly or surf the internet to get on with the latest sex styles, oh I see, because life revolves around a man's penis. Yippeee globalization here we commeeeeeee!!!

stillwater:

In other words the "proverbial African woman" should get with the program, I mean watch porn endlessly or surf the internet to get on with the latest sex styles, oh I see, because life revolves around a man's penis. Yippeee globalization here we commeeeeeee!!!

well your life will revolve around your husband's penis whether you agree or not.

davidylan:

well your life will revolve around your husband's penis whether you agree or not.

David, David, how many times did I call you? Mind yourself o.
Na so sex shack you people reach, haba?

stillwater:

David, David, how many times did I call you? Mind yourself o.
Na so sex shack you people reach, haba?

As if you wont be purring for more anyway . . . ya better get ready for the ride of your life.

davidylan:

As if you wont be purring for more anyway . . . ya better get ready for the ride of your life.

I will not.

stillwater:

I will not.

lol i already know you're prepared for it. Dont ask me how i figured that out.

Marriage shudnt be based on sex IMO
Yeah sex is gr8 but marriages shudnt revolve around sex alone

TOPE2000!:

Marriage shudnt be based on sex IMO
Yeah sex is gr8 but marriages shudnt revolve around sex alone

marriages never revolve around sex . . . if not couples 50 and over would be divorcing in large numbers. But the divorce rate is highest among the very young who should be the most sexually active abi.

davidylan:

lol i already know you're prepared for it.   Dont ask me how i figured that out.

I know, you used four figure table to figure me out.  

@topic
That was so last generation. Seriously, those Nigerian university girls we hear about and I have seen are you telling me they'll restrict their husbands from handling them?

TOPE2000!:

Marriage shudnt be based on sex IMO
Yeah sex is gr8 but marriages shudnt revolve around sex alone

David wants his to be revolved around his lipstick.

davidylan:

marriages never revolve around sex . . . if not couples 50 and over would be divorcing in large numbers. But the divorce rate is highest among the very young who should be the most sexually active abi.

Do u think they are divorcing each other because they dnt shag enuff or because their marriage is based on sex

stillwater:

David wants his to be revolved around his lipstick.

Mine revolves around those eyes of yours and the apple between your legs.

TOPE2000!:

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Do u think they are divorcing each other because they dnt shag enuff or because their marriage is based on sex

Exactly . . . marriages based on sex dont last. One day you'll wake up and not feel like shagging, what happens then?

davidylan:

Exactly . . . marriages based on sex dont last. One day you'll wake up and not feel like shagging, what happens then?

True talk
yeah physical attraction matters alot in a relationship to me but SEX . . . .nah

davidylan:

Mine revolves around those eyes of yours and the apple between your legs.  

The apple is under lock and key.

stillwater:

The apple is under lock and key.

well you forgot you gave me the key sometime ago . . . i know its hard for you to admit it . . .

davidylan:


Exactly . . . marriages based on sex dont last. One day you'll wake up and not feel like shagging, what happens then?

Lai Lai. Oya take back that statement. *Nonsense and Ingredient*

I am always ready to . . . . . . . . . .  

chic2pimp:

Lai Lai. Oya take back that statement. *Nonsense and Ingredient*

I am always ready to . . . . . . . . . . 

i see why your username has in love-vendor it

davidylan:

well you forgot you gave me the key sometime ago . . . i know its hard for you to admit it . . .  

That key is fake. You were whining a lot, I had to make a fake to keep you quiet.

chic2pimp:

Lai Lai. Oya take back that statement. *Nonsense and Ingredient*

I am always ready to . . . . . . . . . .  

Na wa o. Is sex food?

Another name for sex is. . . . . . . . . . .David! I mean Donuts.

TOPE2000!:

i see why your username has in love-vendor it

Errrrr. . . . . . Well Dat is one of the talents Baba GOD give me ooo.

The Sly:

Another name for sex is. . . . . . . . . . .David! I mean Donuts.

funny enough if another name for sex were truly David then sex wouldnt be important at all.   You better change it to chic2 if you love your sex.

stillwater:

That key is fake. You were whining a lot, I had to make a fake to keep you quiet.

Na wa o. Is sex food?

I know, you love to deny your own heart.  

chic2pimp:

Errrrr. . . . . . Well Dat is one of the talents Baba GOD give me ooo.

U call that talent? indeed, shior

davidylan:

funny enough if another name for sex were truly David then sex wouldnt be important at all.   You better change it to chic2 if you love your sex.

I know, you love to deny your own heart.  

Ok have a kiss.

The Sly:

Another name for sex is. . . . . . . . . . .David! I mean Donuts.

stillwater:

Ok have a kiss.

now that's my sweetheart.

stillwater:

Na wa o. Is sex food?

Well wetin be the difference?

I dey shag,u dey eat food but I healthy pass u. No be so?

If u wan live pass the age of 90,berra start eating more of the fruits of Labour

TOPE2000!:

U call that talent? indeed, shior

Look @ dis girl ooo . If dat no be talent,wetin u go call am ehn?

If Stephen Hawkins can lay claim to being a genius, then I am also a Genius.

davidylan:

funny enough if another name for sex were truly David then sex wouldnt be important at all. You better change it to chic2 if you love your sex.

Imma quote the bible for y'all .'GOD made humans in his likeness and Image'. This means GOD must like sex. If GOD likes sex,why shouldn't mere mortals like me like am too?