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Please HELP! I Married A Church Girl, Now She's Destroying My Life by Ussyyn(m): 12:43pm On Jan 12, 2016
As a man, if you make the mistake of keeping a demon at home as wife, you're in trouble. Read this:

It all started in 2011 when I met my wife through my collegue in the bank. I used to work in operations and hardly have time to truly search for a wife, that is what I thought back then. So I had this collegue of mind who appears responsible and is also a church worker in a responsible church, not all these money making churchs. so I confided in him.

On one day he came to me that he has this lady where he normally goes to worship atimes that he will take me to meet her, that she is God fearing, a church worker and her father is a pastor in one of the northern states, which he did and introduced us and gradually we started dating.

I even took her to see my parent, to their amazement she woke up around 4am and swept and cleaned the house before we could even wake up for morning prayers.

When my Dad saw this he was really please and was like this truly is wife material. But my mum warned that we should not conclude yet oh, as per girls of nowadays...

My mum said that we should keep praying. At first I wanted us to do our traditional marriage in April 2012 and after that white wedding but she started indirectly pressuring me that we should do trad in August and white in November, 2011. I thought about it, and with my open mind I said to myself that since she seems nice and am ready to marry I will do it.

I agreed and we got married in 2011. We did both court and church marriage, immediately we came back from honey moon my life has been one hell of a life or another. It began when my former collegue in the bank sent her sister to bring her cv to me in case we are recruiting so that I can submit for her. So the lady called later to thank me for the assistance and my wife was with me in the sitting room, it was around 7-8pm.

After the call my wife started quarreling, that who is that lady calling me that am cheating on her, she went inside the room and brought out our wedding cert. that she will tear it and that we should go our separate ways. I became shocked, I then told her that she can take the lady’s number or I can call the lady in her presence, that I don’t even know the lady. I did not even have the lady number in my phone, the lady collected my number to follow up and that is all.

I left her with my phones and entered the room. This was happening barely a month and a half after our wedding. As the days go by she started bringing different quarrels and problem. After like a year two month into the marriage, one faithful Friday night after I came back from work and I was fast asleep she woke me up around 11pm that we should talk, and I told her that if we can leave it till morning knowing fully well that the next day was Saturday unless if the matter is between life and death then I can wait.

She said it is not between life and death but was insisting that we talk... before I knew it she brought out a knife and wanted to Continue Reading..

Re: Please HELP! I Married A Church Girl, Now She's Destroying My Life by 2dice(m): 12:46pm On Jan 12, 2016
recycled Trash Even LAWMA Aint feeling diss poo
Re: Please HELP! I Married A Church Girl, Now She's Destroying My Life by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 12, 2016
I wonder ooo
2dice:
recycled Trash Even LAWMA Aint feeling diss poo
Re: Please HELP! I Married A Church Girl, Now She's Destroying My Life by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 12, 2016
Hehehehe na church demon full pass
Re: Please HELP! I Married A Church Girl, Now She's Destroying My Life by donTbone(m): 12:49pm On Jan 12, 2016
angry
Re: Please HELP! I Married A Church Girl, Now She's Destroying My Life by Penssuwa(m): 1:16pm On Jan 12, 2016
Re: Please HELP! I Married A Church Girl, Now She's Destroying My Life by cruzita(f): 1:21pm On Jan 12, 2016
I just dey observe
Re: Please HELP! I Married A Church Girl, Now She's Destroying My Life by darlingtito(f): 3:50pm On Jan 12, 2016
[color=#990000][/color]even the devil is in the church
Ussyyn:
As a man, if you make the mistake of keeping a demon at home as wife, you're in trouble. Read this:

It all started in 2011 when I met my wife through my collegue in the bank. I used to work in operations and hardly have time to truly search for a wife, that is what I thought back then. So I had this collegue of mind who appears responsible and is also a church worker in a responsible church, not all these money making churchs. so I confided in him.

On one day he came to me that he has this lady where he normally goes to worship atimes that he will take me to meet her, that she is God fearing, a church worker and her father is a pastor in one of the northern states, which he did and introduced us and gradually we started dating.

I even took her to see my parent, to their amazement she woke up around 4am and swept and cleaned the house before we could even wake up for morning prayers.

When my Dad saw this he was really please and was like this truly is wife material. But my mum warned that we should not conclude yet oh, as per girls of nowadays...

My mum said that we should keep praying. At first I wanted us to do our traditional marriage in April 2012 and after that white wedding but she started indirectly pressuring me that we should do trad in August and white in November, 2011. I thought about it, and with my open mind I said to myself that since she seems nice and am ready to marry I will do it.

I agreed and we got married in 2011. We did both court and church marriage, immediately we came back from honey moon my life has been one hell of a life or another. It began when my former collegue in the bank sent her sister to bring her cv to me in case we are recruiting so that I can submit for her. So the lady called later to thank me for the assistance and my wife was with me in the sitting room, it was around 7-8pm.

After the call my wife started quarreling, that who is that lady calling me that am cheating on her, she went inside the room and brought out our wedding cert. that she will tear it and that we should go our separate ways. I became shocked, I then told her that she can take the lady’s number or I can call the lady in her presence, that I don’t even know the lady. I did not even have the lady number in my phone, the lady collected my number to follow up and that is all.

I left her with my phones and entered the room. This was happening barely a month and a half after our wedding. As the days go by she started bringing different quarrels and problem. After like a year two month into the marriage, one faithful Friday night after I came back from work and I was fast asleep she woke me up around 11pm that we should talk, and I told her that if we can leave it till morning knowing fully well that the next day was Saturday unless if the matter is between life and death then I can wait.

She said it is not between life and death but was insisting that we talk... before I knew it she brought out a knife and wanted to Continue Reading..
Re: Please HELP! I Married A Church Girl, Now She's Destroying My Life by kingstylo01(m): 4:00pm On Jan 12, 2016
ntnook

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