Every man who desires to get married must be willing to take responsibility by providing and protecting his home.....which should be borne out of genuine love. Some get into it as a means to show off to their peer that they have 'arrived', some do it as a result of pressure from parent to raise them grandchildren, some do it as a mark of meeting religious and/or reach a certain career promotion, some do it coz they want to cage the lady and run after every other thing in skirt, some marry because of her elegant looks and curves, some do it because the sex is mind blowing. This is utterly selfish....those looks will fade away when your children suckles her bosom....she will grow fat upon getting pregnant. This is usually a test period for the guys, if truly they ever loved their spouse....you find some of them complain about her cooking, her nagging, her excessive sleep, her sluggishness et al....what happened to your fixing dinner and serving her tea in bed when you both were young and daring, what happened to those short love messages and pings. We constantly neglect our duty which is to groom her as our bride........listen being your bride, and you the groomer isn't only on your wedding day......the grooming continues infinitum. Women blossom when she receive those little spicy romantic vibes from her man, helping comb her hair...the rose....the outings and walk in the park, opening your car door for her.....kissing and complement her openly in the public.... She goes blue red, in fact radiates all the rainbow color. You become her idol, such a woman would stop at nothing to worship and adore you.....all she wants is to be heard. You complain her gist bores you to death....women's birth right is to talk, she enjoys it more when she does it to someone who listens whom she love's. Most marriage breakdown because some of us men are tyrannic and worst, control freak....we make ourselves the emperor of the home....we pass command and judgement, she frets at your presence. What?!No! It shouldn't be. The Holy book makes it clear that we should love them....for them to submit......there is no submission without love.
C'mon guys let add some spark in that relationship our ours!

K

What men go through all cos of cunja...

koife:
Every man who desires to get married must be willing to take responsibility by providing and protecting his home.....which should be borne out of genuine love. Some get into it as a means to show off to their peer that they have 'arrived', some do it as a result of pressure from parent to raise them grandchildren, some do it as a mark of meeting religious and/or reach a certain career promotion, some do it coz they want to cage the lady and run after every other thing in skirt, some marry because of her elegant looks and curves, some do it because the sex is mind blowing. This is utterly selfish....those looks will fade away when your children suckles her bosom....she will grow fat upon getting pregnant. This is usually a test period for the guys, if truly they ever loved their spouse....you find some of them complain about her cooking, her nagging, her excessive sleep, her sluggishness et al....what happened to your fixing dinner and serving her tea in bed when you both were young and daring, what happened to those short love messages and pings. We constantly neglect our duty which is to groom her as our bride........listen being your bride, and you the groomer isn't only on your wedding day......the grooming continues infinitum. Women blossom when she receive those little spicy romantic vibes from her man, helping comb her hair...the rose....the outings and walk in the park, opening your car door for her.....kissing and complement her openly in the public.... She goes blue red, in fact radiates all the rainbow color. You become her idol, such a woman would stop at nothing to worship and adore you.....all she wants is to be heard. You complain her gist bores you to death....women's birth right is to talk, she enjoys it more when she does it to someone who listens whom she love's. Most marriage breakdown because some of us men are tyrannic and worst, control freak....we make ourselves the emperor of the home....we pass command and judgement, she frets at your presence. What?!No! It shouldn't be. The Holy book makes it clear that we should love them....for them to submit......there is no submission without love.
C'mon guys let add some spark in that relationship our ours!

women are complicated
If you like do snake in the Monkey shadow style
Murder her with Love
When a Better Nigga in any aspect show face your Episode done finish be that

Money. Just money. I thought you should have known.

I'd thought it was actually a question, good to see you've got suggestions... cool.

What women want from men vary a lot. Some want attention, Some want affection, Some want protection, Some what companionship, Some want sex, Some want money. Some want a combination of two or three of the afforementioned while some want all and more.


The true fact is that most ladies do not actually know what they want. So they end up clueless thereby believing that they're actually getting what they want But in the real sense they're only getting what their partner wants them to get.