iice:

What makes it an abomination?

ezinne1212:

Are people now openly letting their sons marry prostitutes, hence it is a profession for some ? The man sold himself for cash, the mum didn't have an affair, she paid for his services .

TheSeeker:

Being Nigerians they rate it an abomination because she had sex with the mom and still have a relationship with the daughter, do you understand where I'm coming from?

You mean the pretentious Nigerians who are capable of much terrible and nasty things? Yeah i would see why being Nigerian it would be considered an abomination.

I would say that the mother should tell, but the daughter might be fragile. She (mother) better pray it doesn't come out if the daughter has set her heart on the guy

iice:

You mean the pretentious Nigerians who are capable of much terrible and nasty things? Yeah i would see why being Nigerian it would be considered an abomination.

I would say that the mother should tell, but the daughter might be fragile. She (mother) better pray it doesn't come out if the daughter has set her heart on the guy

TheSeeker:

Now you understand where I am coming from. If the daughter gets to know I am sure it will be disastrous. Nigerians can be capable of nasty things but we still uphold our heritage. Part of our problems is that we're being greatly influenced by western culture but it's doing us more harm than good by letting anything slide through as long as it's western

Uphold? You mean pretend Holier than thou is our forte Even when we do bad bad things, we use excuses to cancel it out or hide the real deal
Not saying there aren't some genuine people.  Whether African, or Western.  .  .do good, be good - it's humane not a thing of culture.  .  .basic principle.  Do things you know you wont regret or will come back to bite you in the ass - that is common sense

iice:

Uphold? You mean pretend Holier than thou is our forte Even when we do bad bad things, we use excuses to cancel it out or hide the real deal
Not saying there aren't some genuine people.  Whether African, or Western.  .  .do good, be good - it's humane not a thing of culture.  .  .basic principle.  Do things you know you wont regret or will come back to bite you in the ass - that is common sense

TheSeeker:

I believe we can be pretty pretentious, even at that, we're inferior to the westerns in terms of pretense. A lot of them I have hung out with jump into conclusions and would always dish out what they can't half accept. They always are making up excuses for their errors and except everything to be just as perfect and work for them. We can be shady but believe me, Westerners are shadier than we can ever be.

In subtext, we use their flaws to cancel out ours

Anyhoo, we are getting offtopic.

Back to the story. What is the guy's say in all this?

iice:

In subtext, we use their flaws to cancel out ours

Anyhoo, we are getting offtopic.

Back to the story. What is the guy's say in all this?

TheSeeker:

Whilst I agree with you that she paid for his services, don't forget that it was a short sexual AFFAIR. There was an opening and an insertion which also is happening with between him and her daughter. Not to attack your opinion antagonistically, don't you think it is morally absurd? This world is fast decaying into a society where no more values exist.

iice:

Divorce and collapse of familial relationship.  That is some weird situation

ezinne1212:

I don't believe values don't exist, i  believe that people are faced with harder conditions and are inclined to make varied choices, for varied reason. As for being morally wrong, lol! i doubt i can jump on that high horse, it's just a sad coincidence that one of his ex-clients happens to be his girlfriends mum. It's not like he would have planned it given the opportunity. I believe if he cares about her, he'll come clean to her before the mum says anything. That way, he stands a chance of redeeming himself by taking responsibilty for his choice of profession.

fizzybaba:

The stupid woman dug her grave when she didnt let go.

i am looking forward to her reasons except they guy would be 'mature' not to let the cat out of the bag

TheSeeker:

The guy is supposed to tell the tale and she will be left with no positive attributes but shame and rotten dignity, moreover the guy was just paper chasing and the mom was what? I wonder how she will explain that to her daughter as well as her husband.

Magz:

I don't believe your story.

Magz:

I don't believe your story.

JJYOU:

THIS IS A MORALLY BANKRUPT GENERATION

akaa:

Poster,
How do you come to know about this, is it the man in question told you,if yes, he have already let the cat out.
Also they should quit that relationship, because the way I see it now, if the woman in question eventualy come for (Omugwu)she may have another affair with the man.
So let them quit the relationship

proudly9ja:

My advice is for the man to let the girl know what happened and if she still accepts him, then both should go for serious cleansing. Im not much of a culture person but I believe that in any culture, it is wrong for a man to sleep with both mother and daughter. While I cannot mention any consequence as a result of this, I am sure there are and the only way to avoid it is prayers.

If however, the girl decides to opt out, they should both move on to better things and the guy shld stop his gigolo moves