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60 Marriage Lessons For Guys by lekhane(m): 4:57am On Jan 17, 2016
Good day Guys, I will love to share these thought provoking words and I hope it goes a long way to help our destinies as we choose the right marriage partner.

Happy Sunday.

1. It’s not the beauty of a wife that keeps a man from straying. It is self-discipline.
2. You need discipline before marriage, and you need discipline after marriage.
3. Pray for a woman who cares about you, who sees your success as her success and her success as yours.
4. Pray for someone who wants you, who’ll be so identified with you she’s you. Two people, one life.
5. Love is a friendship of the heart.
6. In a marriage love matters. Affection maters.
Attraction matters. Physical attributes matter. So does character.
7. If you don’t love her don’t marry her. If you’re not attracted to her leave her alone.
8. If you can’t afford a home of your own it just means you’re not ready for marriage. Get your own home.
9. A man without a mind of his own is not a man.
10. Learn to take responsibility for the natural consequences of your action. Be a man!
11. Stubbornness reads humility as humiliation.
12. Learn to sleep over things. Don’t be hasty of action if the answer is not clear to you.
13. She’s lonely and you’re lonely, hence relationship. There’s a danger to such matches.
14. Sex is a very powerful impulse, a very strong drive. Don’t let it drive you, it’s a bad driver.
15. The greatest danger about addiction to porn and masturbation is that it alienates intimacy.
16. If you want to stop your addiction to masturbation, cut off the accelerant and oxygen to the flame in your groin – porn!
17. Pay attention to your wife so she doesn't feel you don’t really care about her.
18. You can’t approach marriage like you already know. It’s not accommodating and it’s arrogant.
19. Listen. Acknowledge. Adopt. Adapt. Make
time. Make room. Make friends. Seven
matrimonial virtues.
20. Put more resources into your marriage than your wedding.
21. Don’t marry what you can’t afford.
22. Nothing is as depressive as being locked up for eternity in a marriage with someone you don’t like.
23. If you want a truly loving and affectionate
relationship, you and your partner must be sincere
with each other. Sincerity is unclothedness.
24. It is important your wife has a sense of
security in your marriage. It’s why you need to
keep affirming her, assuring her of your love.
25. Love needs to be expressed. You express love
to build faith. Faith comes by hearing what is told.
26. If you do lose a good woman, go and beg her;
woo her back, before another comes to take your
place.
27. Romance is we. Romance is us. Romance is
never me.
28. Balance things in your home. Pay attention to
your wife and kids, or your home may not survive
your ambition.
29. It’s important to have an honest relationship
with your child. Sometimes that’s all children
want.
30. Don’t allow your mum’s pursuit of the status
of grandma turn your marriage into collateral
damage.
31. For a marriage to break from external
pressure there must be fissure within.
32. Loving takes effort. Loving is responsibility.
Just try. That’s all it takes. Try.
33. Whatever you want in marriage you must be
ready and willing to give.
34. When you want to choose a marriage partner,
think of the future not just now. And certainly not
just sex.
35. A bad marriage starts with a wrong choice of
partner. And such partners are not necessarily
bad people. They may just be bad for each other.
36. When our friends are in marital trouble what
they need from us is not sermonizing. Just
compassion. They’re in pain!
37. When values are shared, a marriage has a
greater chance of success.
38. A friend is born for adversity. You know your
friends when you’re in trouble.
39. If character can make someone beautiful, a
deficiency of it can make someone patently ugly.
Character is beauty.
40. A lonely man is vulnerable. A successful
young man is a target. Don’t let the physical blind
you to the obvious.
41. You’ve got to have a primary project every
year – something momentous you’re pursuing for
the year.
42. You have to become successful before you
become successful. That’s the lesson from
Joseph. Joseph was successful as a slave.
43.Tolerating in courtship what you can’t
accommodate in marriage is a creative process
for pain and anger.
44. These four things are important in marriage:
love, peace, happiness, friendship.
45. If you proceed into a relationship knowing it
will bring you sorrow, why, you’ve decided to
crack coconut with your skull.
46. Manhood is not emotionlessness. It is not a
lack of empathy. A man lacking in empathy is
psychopathic.
47. If you’re going to have a shot at marital joy
you’ll have to forbear, and learn to forbear, and
choose to forbear.
48. When there’s no money a marriage soon
wakes from fairy tales of love. Love and
responsibility are co-travellers.
49. Solomon said time and chance happen to all.
That means your opportunity will come. But will
you be ready?
50. It’s not where you start that matters. It’s your
determination to keep going, to keep pushing, on
the inside of you.
51. Whether we acknowledge such or not, your
determination to succeed will impact your
girlfriend’s love for you. Being real!
52. Don’t hate what you desire. Stop hating the
successful. Not every successful person is
crooked.
53. As per your wife, if you want to be the man
who “hit it first”, tell me, the women you hit first
who’ll marry those?
54. The woman you need is the one who believes
in your future, believes in the potential of your
greatness in life.
55. Forget all that stuff about opposites
attracting. Are you a magnet?
56. If you can’t trust someone don’t marry the
someone.
57. Men change as they make money, as they rise
in life. Without groundedness, success can wreck
a home.
58. Never cross the line of violence in your
marriage. Or in anything for that matter.
59. Every line you cross in life becomes
temptation to you.
60. Responsibility defines a man, not virility.

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Re: 60 Marriage Lessons For Guys by drestoneokuta(m): 5:36am On Jan 17, 2016
Interesting grin
Re: 60 Marriage Lessons For Guys by LEOSIRSIR(m): 6:16am On Jan 17, 2016
Nice
To the single and searching NLs this is for you
Cc tosyne2much, obontami, samhay, fynestboi grin
Re: 60 Marriage Lessons For Guys by samhay: 11:13am On Jan 17, 2016
LEOSIRSIR:
Nice
To the single and searching NLs this is for you
Cc tosyne2much, obontami, samhay, fynestboi grin

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Re: 60 Marriage Lessons For Guys by falconey(m): 11:16am On Jan 17, 2016
so help me GOD.
Re: 60 Marriage Lessons For Guys by obontami: 11:44am On Jan 17, 2016
LEOSIRSIR:
Nice To the single and searching NLs this is for you Cc tosyne2much, obontami, samhay, fynestboi grin
thanks breh i understand everything perfectly

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Re: 60 Marriage Lessons For Guys by cruzita(f): 12:10pm On Jan 17, 2016
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