There was this girl back in school days, she was my coursemate, a microbilogist to say .. shes prettt,gorgeous and smart! most espacially shes brilliant and trust me thats one of the major things that turns me on in opposite sex.. there is this course we do then in school.. food and quality control,she was very good in this particular course while im good in other aspects like virology,mycology and the rest.. which seems hard for her to pick up..
one fateful day,i approached her and asked her if we could be FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS .. like she helping me in that course while i do help her in others.. as i mention friends with benefit na so the babe frown come dey para.. what do i take her as? a bitchh or what? i just have to calm her down and explained what i really meant by that..

its disheartening that most of us sees the word FRIENDS WITH BENEFIT As a situation whereby a guy and the girl got to have sexual relationship with no emotions attached.. but that is more than what it is..

PLEASE WHATS YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING OF THE TERM FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS??

U have said it all na

u myt have ur opinion too or a diff defination

sinaj:
U have said it all na

A situation that involves 2 people(mature minds regardless of age, if i may add) of the opposite sex who 'in a way' are either "emotional unstable" or "emotional unavailable " or both, coming to an understanding of "helping" eachother with mostly their sexual needs, n sometimes other aspects(less of that though), just like two people playing video games.
That's my understanding of the term.

I no know wetin em mean.explain more

It does not have any sense in it

Well, it depends on how you both wanna define it.

But IMO, I don't think you have to add 'with benefits' to the type of friendship yur referring to. Cuz real friends helps each other out not necessarily minding if it's beneficial

But in the case of friends with benefits, the friendship doesn't really matter to any of the parties. What matters is the gain involved. A case of 'scratch my back I scratch your'. And as we all know, such benefits mostly revolves around 'sex'

good

Let's define friend first
Then benefits
I bet we will get the answer