Hello NL's, I have been dating this girl for close to 8months now, we reside in different neighbouring states. She's the one that visit most often but her presence is almost equal to her absent. She'll just come, lay on my bed and close her eyes not that she's sleeping o. If i offer to take her out she'll object it with the reason that she prefer been indoors. If i try to make any advances she'll refuse. We only manage to hug and kiss but if i decide to go further she'll give me a back look and i'll stop. I used to experience this pain around my scrotum anything i have a very strong erection without penetration so i discussed it with her that we should stop clapping since we're not ready to dance. I suggested to her that our meetings will now be in public so that there'll be no room for kissing and hugging which she accepted but i'm not comfortable with it. How long will i continue like this with a woman i want to marry in the near future. Please I need your candid advise.

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Blue balls... Its no joke.. Painful as sh*t.

Date somebody that's open minded.

I just asked bae to Google 'blueballs"

The next time she came over.. She gave me a bj.


Communication is key... Set mutual boundaries.. Thats okay too

no clapping if you don't intent to dance

not having sex with you= to not romantic? how shameful. the way to cope with it is to just give yourself the blow jab you want

Just thet you are insensitive to her demands...
No lady will just visit you with no intention!



Did you know her love language?
She doesnt want you to touch her
doesnt mean she is not romantic...
Just that you are speaking to a chinese
man with Igbo language... They will never gat along!


You understand her love language first...I bet she will be
the one to call you to clap and dance!

Be bloody unromantic too now!!!

Dating for 8months and no sex? And you guys spend most of the time in your room?

If I were in your shoes I would have friend zoned her Coz I like my meat fresh. If I don't eat my meat with two weeks I end up loosing interest and you're here enduring 8months.

Dude to be honest she has another guy Coz women want sex as much as guys does so she would have been getting herself off with some other guy and the fact that she's always hiding in your room means she's hiding from her real bf.

A woman u want to marry. God go help you o

AfricanApple:
not having sex with you= to not romantic? how shameful.
the way to cope with it is to just give yourself the blow jab you want

Not every man can do that due to some factors.

1. It seems like a very homosexual act (no offence to homosexuals)

2. Some men may not have the necessary size

3. It may not be able to go up

Fulaman198:

Not every man can do that due to some factors.
1. It seems like a very homosexual act (no offence to homosexuals)
2. Some men may not have the necessary size
3. It may not be able to go up

Lmao indeed

Uzoraustin:
Hello NL's, I have been dating this girl for close to 8months now, we reside in different neighbouring states. She's the one that visit most often but her presence is almost equal to her absent. She'll just come, lay on my bed and close her eyes not that she's sleeping o. If i offer to take her out she'll object it with the reason that she prefer been indoors. If i try to make any advances she'll refuse. We only manage to hug and kiss but if i decide to go further she'll give me a back look and i'll stop. I used to experience this pain around my scrotum anything i have a very strong erection without penetration so i discussed it with her that we should stop clapping since we're not ready to dance. I suggested to her that our meetings will now be in public so that there'll be no room for kissing and hugging which she accepted but i'm not comfortable with it. How long will i continue like this with a woman i want to marry in the near future. Please I need your candid advise.

cc: moderators please do the needful. Thanks

1) You can kick her to the curb.Find another.
2) If you like her that much,keep her around and find some other kitty or kitties to pet if that is what u need.esp with the blue balls thing.
3) You can take it to the next level.pop the question and see if her sexual brain will change.
4) Abstinence is the order of the day.Men u should always go for thanksgiving when a babe say no to your 'i want to fvck' (IWTF) advances.You dont know what she is saving you from.it is not dulling.If you must always fvck, go rent a room in a brothel.

adegeye38:
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even when u be ftc, u still dey book space ...to the topic, i doubt if ur relationship was defined from the onset, else she should have had all these things on her mind even before visiting you...

Ebiz12:
no clapping if you don't intent to dance

ur hair tho

firstking01:
ur hair tho

leave me joor

I wonder how some niggas tend to cope with below par girls when there are many hot chics out there.

Break up with her, simple!! Unless you're not sure of getting another girl

Ebiz12:

leave me joor

hluv it ahswear

Ebiz12:

leave me joor

Ahluv it ahswear

Ebiz12:

leave me joor

Ahluv, it ahswear

Ebiz12:

leave me joor

Ahluv, it ahswear

I jus don't knw why sum guys like wasting their time...... the tym u wasted typing this thread is suppose to be used in typing her sack letter...... lobatan