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Adultery is eating up today's marriages.I do wonder why people still cheat in their marriage.Is it that they don't love the other partner from the beginning or what? Who is guilty,husband or wife? Let's discuss

No one is guilty...
Till after the wedding!


Mind you, never blame those that cheats...
Most of them didnt really want to but their
partner pushed them to!

.the bitter truth is that a large percentage of men are more guilty when it comes to cheating in marriages than women,but never the less the women ain't exempted from this preposterous act.

Men cheat most times because there wifes push them to do so although it should not be a yardstick for them to justify there actions these reasons include:

1,nagging from the wife
2,she is always busy
3,too materialistic
4,a bad cook(never give ur man a reason to eat from another pot that is not yours)
5,you stopped trying to be attractive because u are now married!(men love what they see)

The aforementioned points if meticulously tackled should atleast curb the rate at which men cheat on there spouse!

Well said

Rexhenrex:
.the bitter truth is that a large percentage of men are more guilty when it comes to cheating in marriages than women,but never the less the women ain't exempted from this preposterous act.

Men cheat most times because there wifes push them to do so although it should not be a yardstick for them to justify there actions these reasons include:

1,nagging from the wife
2,she is always busy
3,too materialistic
4,a bad cook(never give ur man a reason to eat from another pot that is not yours)
5,you stopped trying to be attractive because u are now married!(men love what they see)

The aforementioned points if meticulously tackled should atleast curb the rate at which men cheat on there spouse!

The marriage is guilty why bind dem togeda

If not for marriage wat dey doing is nt wrong

Well,both parties can be at fault!! Sometimes,its the fault of the woman,due to her nagging,hectic days at work and so on. It can be the fault of the man due to excessive drinking, beating sometimes laziness making her to find solace in anoda man's arm.

1) Familiarity.
One will know d needs of his/her spouse, holds on to it then all of a sudden, familiarity makes them fade and disrespect gradually replaces respect.

2)Third party
Ppl overate 3rd party in this part of the world. Interference of a 3rd party is d product of misunderstanding that comes our from familiarity. What d 3rd party does is to make u see that thing in ur spouse which u used to see by urself alone b4 it faded off. Believe it or not it has helped some ppl. When u're in courtship and deeply in love, its not easy to see flaws in ur partner let's be frank. Only a 3rd person can help u see those flaws. Same with when u become too familiar with ur spouse, it won't be easy to see some values in him/her by urself

3)Civilization
Technology and open eyes have increased adultery opportunities.

I blame konji.pls hold it responsible