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Right Or Wrong? by Kizmilz(op): 1:06pm On Feb 01, 2016
Why is it so absurd especially in Nigeria for a guy to call a fellow guy pet names such as: Sweetheart, my love, darling etc., While ladies call themselves such names.
Questions bothering my mind.
1. Why are guys not comfortable when same sex calls them such names?
2. What comes to your mind as a guy, if a fellow guy calls you such names?
3. How do you feel if a fellow guy tells you he loves you?
Feel free to add yours.
IMO, There is nothing wrong with a guy telling a fellow guy that he loves him, though I'm not comfortable with any as stated above.

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Re: Right Or Wrong? by Kingsasian(m): 1:12pm On Feb 01, 2016
I find it irritating and feminine.
Re: Right Or Wrong? by Trapnews: 1:14pm On Feb 01, 2016
Gay alert!

Re: Right Or Wrong? by ronald4ever(m): 1:18pm On Feb 01, 2016
undecided
Re: Right Or Wrong? by Pucaxo(m): 1:20pm On Feb 01, 2016
The OP is GAY! Nobody should try and convince me he's not! angry
Re: Right Or Wrong? by Kizmilz(op): 1:26pm On Feb 01, 2016
Pucaxo:
The OP is GAY! Nobody should try and convince me he's not! angry
Lol.... I was actually expecting this... OP is not gay, he feels the same way @Kingsasian feels. It is very irritating.
Re: Right Or Wrong? by Elosky20: 1:47pm On Feb 01, 2016
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Re: Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 1:49pm On Feb 01, 2016
The first respondent said it all and brief.

A fact to that is the culture wiring in us Africans, Men are not to show love to each other but to the opposite sex.

Reason for this is, The Africa system breeds you to be alpha male and be socialized to survive independently so no room to show love in the jungle of survival predominated by males.

#survival of the fittest.
Re: Right Or Wrong? by jonaifame22(m): 1:52pm On Feb 01, 2016
Hey!

Re: Right Or Wrong? by cruzita(f): 2:06pm On Feb 01, 2016
those things are girly stuffs.it is associated with femininity
Re: Right Or Wrong? by Alfred234(m): 2:07pm On Feb 01, 2016
OP let me answer your questions
1) We don't do that sh*t cuz it's not manly its very feminine.
2) Maybe he's gay or he's just trying to wash me to do something for him
3) It depends on how he says it... if he sounds so emotional saying it then I'll feel uncomfortable and just conclude that he's gay
Re: Right Or Wrong? by Kizmilz(op): 2:22pm On Feb 01, 2016
Alfred234:
OP let me answer your questions
1) We don't do that sh*t cuz it's not manly its very feminine.
2) Maybe he's gay or he's just trying to wash me to do something for him
3) It depends on how he says it... if he sounds so emotional saying it then I'll feel uncomfortable and just conclude that he's gay
Nice 1bro
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