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Miss. Mom Can’t Stand Bae by domainservice(m): 6:08pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
Got this from BN and I thought of sharing it with you guys
I’m dating this amazing guy who is madly in love with me as
I am with him. Now, my mother is a very judgemental
person and a strict christian so in the past she has
discredited some of my friends for things that are either
superficial or beyond their control i.e family background.
My mother doesn’t like him for the following reasons: He’s
not from the same tribe as us, he’s mixed race, his parents
are not married or living together (however their
relationship is very amicable), and his educational
background is not up to par (he’s still in school doing
distance learning).
Another thing is that we are from different social classes but
he is intelligent and he hasn’t had half the opportunities I’ve
had in life, so his life didn’t work out in the best way but he’s
still remained positive and hardworking.
I love this guy because he’s a good guy, honest, kind and has
a good character. However, my mum keeps bugging me
about the relationship and has told me that if I eventually
marry this guy, our relationship will be strained and I won’t
get an inheritance from my father if he agrees with her; and
at the end of the day, they might not come for the wedding.
She is always so tense and upset when she talks about him.
She says that he’ll be like his father and that he’s no good.
Now, I know all these things should be considered when
dating, and when I started dating him they were issues for
me; but I see a different man from my preconceived
notions. He has a good relationship with his family and
siblings and he is a really good guy.
We’re both in our early 20s, so we’re not really talking about
marriage but he is someone I would like to marry. My only
problem with him is his future prospects and I’ve already
told him about this.
I told him I might not be able to marry him if he can’t
provide a certain lifestyle for me as a wife, and he has
agreed that money won’t be a problem. But my mother still
says that even if he has money tomorrow, she can never like
him or his family.
I obviously think my mother hates him for a very superficial
reason. My family appears together (successful parents, rich
family, christian, etc) but my parents have never been
together for more than a few months. I literally grew up
without my dad because he was rarely around, and my
parents are basically married but living away from each
other. And I’ve sworn to never marry a man like my father
or be like mother who has never been happy in the
marriage.
I would like to hear other people’s experience and
suggestions. My mother’s judgemental attitude towards
people is very annoying and driving me crazy. Thanks. |
Re: Miss. Mom Can’t Stand Bae by Philtim(m): 8:09pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
my dear please follow ur mind wif prayers nd u will av a perfect marriage....since u dnt want d type ur mom nd dad ran,den dnt allow her judgements ruin ur life. 1 Like |
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