scaredy:
I have been married for a year now to a man that is very unattractive. I married him for two reasons

1. My younger ones and friends were all married and I was desperate at 32.
2. He treats me well

He's a good husby but I sometimes get ashamed walking with him because he's very ugly. I'm a pretty girl and when we are in public he's all over me wanting people to know we are together and I see the looks they give us.

I don't mind sleeping with this man and being his wife, I just want the feeling of shame to stop.I know some men don't treat their wife well and I feel lucky mine own does that.

Ignore his looks nd always think abt d'things he does dt mks u happy. The thought of his looks wl gradually be forgotten
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#be proud of ur man,even in public and u'll be glad you did
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#priortize his looks until he strts misbehaving wt gals dt appreciate his beautiful heart and u'll be sorry for urslf....BE WISE!!!

Dyt:


No wahala
I hope you have what I am looking for
Hard currency ni ooo
Not thousands but I can manage from 500 thousands of it

As u can see from my profile pix, I'm not doing bad. The meal u & I will have wld b d next I will use as my profile. Bet, after d taking out there shall b a taking home to ma bedroom.

niceeric:

so you're sayin she crazy right?...atleast!...

I've been waiting for someone to confirm wat I think is wrong with the lady....she sick in the head/mind!

This is not what I said!

emekachimek:

Obviously you are not married

Obviously you are wrong.

Sometimes in life, we are concerned in life about other people's opinion, rather than take seriously what concerns us. Your husband is ugly? Brush him up, if has poor dress sense- teach him fashion. Stop comparing what u have to what others possess.

Mindfulness:


This is not what I said! [

lol....was just kidding drawing that conclusion from your post....I really think she's crazy though.

just kill him...twill relieve u of d shame😷😷😷

niceeric:
lol....was just kidding drawing that conclusion from your post....I really think she's crazy though.

Being insecure and crazy are two different things.

Congratulations, u got what others want
He won't cheat on u

Sorry babe. It's a pity. I can feel your pains because I cannot imagine myself getting married to an ugly girl.

Tufiakwa!

Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do about his ugliness. It's inbuilt and worse still, one or all of your kids is surely going to get 'ugly' gene except if your 'pretty' gene will over ride.

You should have thought about all these when age was on your side but you kept on doing inyanga.

Now, you see what you've done to yourself

For a temporary solution, you can help him do a plastic surgery but like I said it's still temporary.

woman be proud of him stop complaining do no what other are facing in there home

Mindfulness:


Being insecure and crazy are two different things.

Yea sure, but I think realising a man is ugly after marriage is a good attribute of a lady gone crazy

niceeric:

Yea sure, but I think realising a man is ugly after marriage is a good attribute of a lady gone crazy

Whatever! Someone dug up the OP's old posts and the OP is a fake.

Human wants! Na waa Oooo! U marry fine guy u complain he's not giving u desired attention, u marry ugly guy u are ashamed of him in public lol. Its natural with human beings my sister but try to be contempt with what u have sha

Eyekandi:
Ndo, its your cross to bear, at least you got what you wanted...marriage...

Now give him what he wants..
Be proud of him in public

Gbam!!!

Eyekandi:
Ndo, its your cross to bear, at least you got what you wanted...marriage...

Now give him what he wants..
Be proud of him in public

The OP should stop this attitude other you'll ruin your home and happiness. Some men are handsome and yet they attract polygamy. Be proud of him. Ugliness or handsomness is a mind set which you can control. Build your home and don't pull it down.

The same mistake for getting married is the same mistake you are making while still marrying, the reason you are ashamed is that you don't know what you want in planing to get married, go and marry the handsome man and you will be his punch bag and you will be so ugly.… be contented. [b]The same mistake for getting married is the same mistake you are making while still marrying, the reason you are ashamed is that you don't know what you want in planing to get married, go and marry the handsome man and you will be his punch bag and you will be so ugly.… be contented. [/b]The same mistake for getting married is the same mistake you are making while still marrying, the reason you are ashamed is that you don't know what you want in planing to get married, go and marry the handsome man and you will be his punch bag and you will be so ugly.… be contented.

Well at your age i'm sure you must have heard of the saying: you love someone not because they are perfect but in spite of the fact that they're not. Shame is a love breaker. Just as you can see his imperfection ( maybe one of) has to do with his physical looks (now you can't say you have no imperfection even though you are pretty unlike him) but one beauty I can see in him from your description is the fact that he is so proud of his pretty wife, he treasure's her, and can't stop boasting of her. That's something that should keep you happy (except you'll prefer a handsome man who is ashamed of his wife. If I were to write everything I want to tell you, it would have been longer than this. So in short try your best to destroy that childish feeling of shame; it's evil and destructive. Try finding something good about him and let it fill your mind. Sorry for the long write-up.

PunterTim:
Don't You Think You're Overacting Here And Being Unrealistic About This!.
This Is About Her And What She Wants.Didn't Want To Advise This But Now I Must:
Think You Should Sit Down With Him And Carefully State Your Reasons To Divorce Him!

Divorce.?? Just because he is ugly.?
Was she blind before.?

It's ur cross carry it madam

scaredy:
I have been married for a year now to a man that is very unattractive. I married him for two reasons

1. My younger ones and friends were all married and I was desperate at 32.
2. He treats me well

He's a good husby but I sometimes get ashamed walking with him because he's very ugly. I'm a pretty girl and when we are in public he's all over me wanting people to know we are together and I see the looks they give us.

I don't mind sleeping with this man and being his wife, I just want the feeling of shame to stop.I know some men don't treat their wife well and I feel lucky mine own does that.

You are basically confused

Is his prick and pocket ugly? Even if then keep ur marriage

nothing on earth can satisfy a nigerian girl

In addition to some of the reasonable counsel you have received, I have this as an addition to you.
1. It is what you are looking for in a relationship that you will always see.
2. It is how you see your husband that is how he would always appear to be to you
3. If you from today begin to see your husband as the most handsome man on earth, it would not take you time to see him just like that.
4. Lastly, two of you would in due time blend.

I wish you happy married life full of joyous excitement.

If that is ur problem, then you don't have a problem...just rember that God knows the best.

Its true that people don't understand the value of what they have until they lose it....

Dear OP, is your hubby uglier than Adams Oshomole, Obj, ibu whom we all celebrate in our country today
From your point of view, you seems to care more about what other people says than what matters to your life.

This man loves and cares for you. Learn to love your man, beauty and wealth will fade away but what will keep you both is love. Work on your mindset, if need be, meet a qualify marriage councellor who can help you psychologically.

Never think of divorce cause you will regret it.

In addition to some of the reasonable counsel you have received, I have this as an addition to you.
1. It is what you are looking for in a relationship that you will always see.
2. It is how you see your husband that is how he would always appear to be to you
3. If you from today begin to see your husband as the most handsome man on earth, it would not take you time to see him just like that.
4. Lastly, two of you would in due time blend.

I wish you happy married life full of joyous excitement.

Send me a mail, I think you need genuine help. okukufrede@yahoo.com

scaredy:
I have been married for a year now to a man that is very unattractive. I married him for two reasons

1. My younger ones and friends were all married and I was desperate at 32.
2. He treats me well

He's a good husby but I sometimes get ashamed walking with him because he's very ugly. I'm a pretty girl and when we are in public he's all over me wanting people to know we are together and I see the looks they give us.

I don't mind sleeping with this man and being his wife, I just want the feeling of shame to stop.I know some men don't treat their wife well and I feel lucky mine own does that.

Comic Relief

Obasanjo and oshiomole were seated next to each other during a service in church,
The pastor said turn to your neighbour and say, "you are beautifully and adorable created by God," Obasanjo looks at oshiomole for a moment, then laughs out loud and told the pastor, "please tell him yourself"...I don't want to lie in church!!!


One thing I believe is that no matter how pretty/handsome you/ur spouse is, when grading, both of you can't be among the first 100 most beautiful in the world.
In marriage, you should always have it at the back of your mind that your spouse is the most handsome in the whole wide world.
Let's assume you have a job interview, you will be graded based on ur dress code, ways u answer the interviewer, confidence and the likes. Sit urself and grade ur husband , not on the looks alone , grade him also on his attitude, God fearing, caring and the likes, whatever he score should solve the challenge u r facing.

a beauty like you with such a man no good, run get another husband.

PunterTim:
Don't You Think You're Overacting Here And Being Unrealistic About This!.
This Is About Her And What She Wants.Didn't Want To Advise This But Now I Must:
Think You Should Sit Down With Him And Carefully State Your Reasons To Divorce Him!

With much respect, you're selfish! Seeing how lightly and casually you treat marriage, I would advice that you don't attempt it at all.

Abaaaaaaaaaah y nahhh he cares much ad gives u all u have ever wanted, he took u frm relegation (single) to where u wanna b; champions league(married). na pipo b Mrs Oshiomole Foreign (u fine pass her) Mrs TINUBU(U fine pass her) Mrs OBJ( RIP stella) Mrs segun areze, abeg which other one remain

Op. I can bet u're not as pretty as star actress Mide-Funmi Martins who got married to fellow actor Hafiz Owo. The guy is damn ugly & trust coleagues & fans 2 wag their tongues...buh gudnews is dat She knows wat she wants in a man so she bluntly told everyone who cared 2 listen online that He was her choice & there was nothin anyone culd do about it... Now dats a woman with a very high level of self esteem...take a cue from her.

Hit "LIKE" IF UGLINESS DOESN'T MATTER, but CARE/RICHES/FAITHFULNESS MATTER "SHARE" IF FINE MAN HOPING TO BE THERE MATTERS