1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at
you.You are each other's keeper. (Eph 5v12)

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov
15v13)

4). Never compare your
husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)

6). Never forget that your
husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own
responsibility.(Eph 5v33)

. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
(Deut 3v28)

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to
him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman
takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed
ones) (SS 7v12)

11). Never compare your
husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed
to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls. (Prov 31v23)

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women
who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste
your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke
21v16)

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the
bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal
6v10)

21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a
Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)

24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every
moment, resource as it comes. (Luke 11v3)

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of
attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)

26). Don't associate with
women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage. (Prov 22v14)

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give
it. Recklessness is unacceptable. (Heb 13v4)

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)

29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)
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Have a lovely day..... God bless u all. Tipnaija

Observing
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Still observing
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Think i will forever keep on observing

#passingby!




If only they will listen!

I disagree with 3 things..

10.) And if the woman is not in the mood for sex what happens? She should force her should elf because it's his right? That is wrong.. it's slavery.

12.) I thought couples are like partners not employer and employee.. she cannot answer for him ok... but he can answer for her? Excuse me she is an adult human being too. At least make it balanced. #Chauvinist.

20.) If her idea worked better she has to compare herself so the husband can learn and correct for next time.

Your post seems chauvinist in nature. I'm a man but many things there I disagree with. But I only point out 3. Alot there

Modified Again:

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

What happened to trust? If her husband is faithful and trustworthy, no matter what, being with a million of her friends wont change anything unless he is prone to infidelity.

4). Never compare your
husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

Then the love was fake in the beginning. The original love in marriage Should be unconditional. No matter what happens. Unless it is out of hand e.g adultery or assault or abuse. So attacking his ego should not diminish the love unless the love was never true. Its a union between two adults not some power tussle or power play for who is in charge.

Still observing...

end tim rules

31. Don't ever cheat on your man, Esp if He's a Yoruba Man or this happens