Recently an older guy met a black and beautiful young woman who is a brilliant student. He always saw her with goodlooking young guys. But he called them small boys and she always giggled or smirked. During the celebrations for the Christmas and New Year, he did not see her and all calls to her number did not reach her. Then two weeks into the new year, he reached her and invited her over to his place. She came and he got to know her better. She visited him again and he asked her for a kiss before she left, but she only allowed him to kiss her on the cheek. The third time, she visited, she was more willing for kissing and smooching and was even willing to have sex with him. But he politely declined and she felt offended. He expected her to be glad that he respected her and did not want to rush her into sex. So, he asked me for a good advice. Should he do it or continue to decline? If he continues to refuse to sleep with her, I can bet that she will go to another guy who will be happy to enjoy sleeping with her. When a woman wants you to be her lover, preaching love without sex to her will only annoy her. It is either you do it or leave her alone.

He just have to becareful. I really don't advice Sex in a relationship, because it has negative consequences in a relationship. The only way sex is encouraging, fun and with a free conscience is when you do it as a married man/woman.
For your friend, i would advice him that he may just fall a prey. Above all, the whole scenerio sound tricky. He should be careful and be warned.
I know those below me will be saying he should go ahead and 'Lash' her. Sex is not all there is, he should remember that ''He will bear the consequences alone,'' when it backfires, not with his advisors.
For him mind now he don see free Serve-Yourself...

wetin I wan talk self?abeg I no get anything to talk