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Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by enedoboy(f): 8:47pm On Feb 02, 2016
Although getting a girl's number is not one of the easiest things to do in the
world, following up on her after getting her number is actually a more difficult
thing to do. Many guys usually get it wrong at this stage and if you get it
wrong, your chances of winning the girl over is almost zero.
Let's look at it this way. If you succeed in
getting a girls number, what should you do when you get home? Here are the
options you're faced with.
1. Call her immediately
2. Call her the next day
3. Wait a few days before you call her
Let's take a look at the three options.
Call Her Immediately
The advantage of this is that you will be following up on her when you're still
"fresh" on her mind. If she liked you when you met her and got her number,
speaking to her a few hours later won't be a bad idea.
The disadvantage is that you will appear desperate. It will look like you don't
have a life and women, especially the beautiful ones do not like that.
Call Her The Next Day
The advantage is that you will still be on her mind the next day. That will
encourage the "flow" that started the previous day.
The disadvantage is that you will still appear desperate. If she is a beautiful
woman, she will likely have lots of guys falling over themselves to speak to
her. If you call her the next day, you will simply join the list of "desperate"
guys.
Call Her Days Later
The advantage here is that you will appear to her as someone that is not
desperate to have her. It will look like you have a life (you should) and that is
what women like. By calling her days later, you will be telling her that you
won't be calling her (and bugging her) all the time if you eventually end up
dating her.
The disadvantage is that there is a chance she would have forgotten about
you. If she is a beautiful girl, a lot of other guys would have approached her
and we cannot expect her to remember all the guys she meets.
If we look at the three options above, the best bet is the third option. You
have more to gain than to lose. When you call her eventually, just let her know
you're the guy that she met a few days ago. Tell her the number you're calling
with is your number and that she can call you up if she'll like to. Be brief with
your discussion. Make her believe you have a lot to do and make sure you
hang us before she does.
Give her space before you call her again. Never put pressure on her. Be laid
back. Be arrogant. Be confident. You will have a better chance with her with
this approach.

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Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Feb 02, 2016
I can't believe this is a topic actually being discussed undecided
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Feb 02, 2016
Smh!
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by midehi2(f): 8:57pm On Feb 02, 2016
Be arrogant?
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by midehi2(f): 8:59pm On Feb 02, 2016
EroticAngelina:
I can't believe this is a topic actually being discussed undecided
that ur 2 ass be like 70 70 naira agege bread cheesy


*joke o* grin
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Feb 02, 2016
You just made this shiit look like rocket science

Congratulations of you advanced autism spectra...
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by AkProsper(m): 9:26pm On Feb 02, 2016
OP pls use paragraph
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by herboshedhe(f): 9:33pm On Feb 02, 2016
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Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by Emodeee: 9:42pm On Feb 02, 2016
Eroticangelina, see your YANSH.
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by Emodeee: 9:43pm On Feb 02, 2016
midehi2:
Be arrogant?
when will i see your pretty face?
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by midehi2(f): 10:08pm On Feb 02, 2016
Emodeee:

when will i see your pretty face?
or when will you see my ugly face cheesy
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by midehi2(f): 10:09pm On Feb 02, 2016
Emodeee:
Eroticangelina, see your YANSH.
wetin ya eyes go find for there grin
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by Emodeee: 10:17pm On Feb 02, 2016
midehi2:

or when will you see my ugly face cheesy


That YANSH succulent. If you touch am ehn, e go be like bread wey dem put inside water.
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by Emodeee: 10:18pm On Feb 02, 2016
midehi2:

or when will you see my ugly face cheesy

Gbogbo e.


Put ur picture joorh.
Re: Next Thing To Do After Getting Her Number? by kokoA(m): 10:50pm On Feb 02, 2016
Go and give testimony in church.. mcheew. Ode!

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