Hello all, this thread is meant to counter a thread that made front page yesterday " Men and their cheating ways".
Let me tell a quick story;
Early last year, a lady was ranting about how men are mean and wicked, in her words she said "All men cheat".
I asked her the kind of men she likes, I told her to be honest and she described the usual (I think you all should know... Lol)
Tall, handsome, well mannered, Masculine, a man with good fashion sense and all that.. .
I asked her if she could in any way date the was guy passing by (I pointed to a gentle looking young man), she replied with Hell No!!! She said the guy looks like a duck, and started pointing out many flaws of the innocent guy ..
I laughed at her and replied, maybe these are the kind of men that won't cheat, she got angry and started speaking in tongues (God won't make me marry someone like that guy and all that.. Lol)..
You want a man that, dresses well, a little flashy (maybe.. ), Eloquent, Rich (Or atleast Okay, which in Nigeria is not something you see everyday.. Lol) and you want him to be 100% faithful? .
Ofcourse it is damn possible .

Here is where I'm going: Ladies have pushed men over the years to live a certain way (some guys will deny it but it is the truth).
Nice guys were the Hit of the 80's now it's the rebel, the ones you know will eventually hurt you (deep down you know it ), but you hope he changes eventually..

Though there are some men that will start cheating, flirting (to you, he's now showing his true self. Yes, you are right, maybe brokenness was what was caging him then ) after marriage (after couple years) but trust me they are few, real cheaters would have shown you the signs before marriage but you ignore all that cos of his accent, swagger, eloquence, charm and all..
The world has changed ya'll, men cheat like it's nothing these days, cos in some ways the ladies have made it seem cool..
Y'all need DEAL WITH IT!!

sure. . .am a good example

#Yolo

I still don't undaerstand you OP. Are trying to be funny or trying to tell us how you guys laughed at perhaps a physically broken fellow

xpac01:
I still don't undaerstand you OP. Are trying to be funny or trying to tell us how you guys laughed at perhaps a physically broken fellow

Don't be like that bro, I was just giving reasons why many ladies end up with cheaters.. Well, in a funny way..
For every desire, there is a clause..

be back

I thought this was suppose to be a counter thread still reading the same thing over......guess op DOES not UNDERSTAND the meaning of COUNTER



in summary: all men cheat,YES they cheat if he doesn't cheat now be patient he would cheat later OP said so

bravolyk:
I thought this was suppose to be a counter thread still reading the same thing over......guess op DOES not UNDERSTAND the meaning of COUNTER



in summary: all men cheat,YES they cheat if he doesn't cheat now be patient he would cheat later OP said do

Lol.. I wasn't straight with my writings, I expect you to deduce my point..
Not all men cheat Bro.

richommie:
sure. . .am a good example


#Yolo

You sure?

Not all men cheat

But dey all have d tendency to do so

myfantasies:
Not all men cheat

But dey all have d tendency to do so

Maybe you are right, not that the ones that don't cheat are not tempted to but they choose to ignore..
Myfantasies, would you prefer a faithful man that gets tempted everytime cos of his good looks to a simple man that doesn't cos of his average look?

PureWays:
Maybe you are right, not that the ones that don't cheat are not tempted to but they choose to ignore..
Myfantasies, would you prefer a faithful man that gets tempted everytime cos of his good looks to a simple man that doesn't cos of his average look?

So u think an average looking guy don't cheat?

Good looking, average, ugly r all the same thing

Looking for a faithful guy is like finding a needle in a hay sack

myfantasies:
So u think an average looking guy don't cheat?

Good looking, average, ugly r all the same thing

Looking for a faithful guy is like finding a needle in a hay sack

Nah, I don't think an average looking guy don't cheat.. Anyway, you've already given me your answer which just proved my point.

myfantasies:
Not all men cheat

But dey all have d tendency to do so

Not all cheat. Just like me, I can play from now till tomorrow but what I won't do, I won't do...

Note: Some of us talk to women not because of SEXX but to relive them self's of TENSION/STRESS from work, home or our business.
Generally men deal with stress using different means...

dukeolumde:



Not all cheat. Just like me, I can play from now till tomorrow but what I won't do, I won't do...

Note: Some of us talk to women not because of SEXX but to relive them self's of TENSION/STRESS from work, home or our business.
Generally men deal with stress using different means...

So if you want to relive tension and stress u will talk to other ladies

Y not talk to ur woman instead

well not all men cheat but that's like 1 out of 100

myfantasies:
So if you want to relive tension and stress u will talk to other ladies

Y not talk to ur woman instead

Another example is my formal BOSS who was a MILITARY OFFICER. Whenever he is Stressed, he looks
for someone (a male or mostly a female) in his contacts and strikes a very long conversation like an hr or less on the phone
gisting and cracking jokes and in the end, u see him feeling better than before... at first I didn't understand him,
but the whole picture became clearer when I noticed he wasn't doing anything funny with the women involved.

NOTE: My job prescription made it possible for me to be with him from early morning till about 9 pm at night.
As for me I socialize, look for other people's trouble or go swimming...
Am not asking u to believe me. I am just telling u people are different and have different ways of dealing with Stress/pressure Q.E.D

dukeolumde:


Another example is my formal BOSS who was a MILITARY OFFICER. Whenever he is Stressed, he looks
for someone (a male or mostly a female) in his contacts and strikes a very long conversation like an hr or less on the phone
gisting and cracking jokes and in the end, u see him feeling better than before... at first I didn't understand him,
but the whole picture became clearer when I noticed he wasn't doing anything funny with the women involved.

NOTE: My job prescription made it possible for me to be with him from early morning till about 9 pm at night.
As for me I socialize, look for other people's trouble or go swimming...
Am not asking u to believe me. I am just telling u people are different and have different ways of dealing with Stress/pressure Q.E.D

U r right tho

People have different ways of dealing with stress

Different strokes for different folks

myfantasies:
U r right tho

People have different ways of dealing with stress

Different strokes for different folks

Yes ma. Welcome aboard!!!

myfantasies:
Not all men cheat
But dey all have d tendency to do so

happi, where have u been??

myfantasies:
Not all men cheat
But dey all have d tendency to do so

happi, where have u been??

firstking01:
happi, where have u been??

I have been around

How r u

dukeolumde:



Not all cheat. Just like me, I can play from now till tomorrow but what I won't do, I won't do...

Note: Some of us talk to women not because of SEXX but to relive them self's of TENSION/STRESS from work, home or our business.
Generally men deal with stress using different means...

Yeah.. You're right..

cruzita:
well not all men cheat but that's like 1 out of 100

Nah, that's outrageous.. Lets say, 2 out of 10.

myfantasies:
I have been around
How r u

been qudt

myfantasies:
I have been around
How r u

hws werk??

dukeolumde:

Another example is my formal BOSS who was a MILITARY OFFICER. Whenever he is Stressed, he looks
for someone (a male or mostly a female) in his contacts and strikes a very long conversation like an hr or less on the phone
gisting and cracking jokes and in the end, u see him feeling better than before... at first I didn't understand him,
but the whole picture became clearer when I noticed he wasn't doing anything funny with the women involved.
NOTE: My job prescription made it possible for me to be with him from early morning till about 9 pm at night.
As for me I socialize, look for other people's trouble or go swimming...
Am not asking u to believe me. I am just telling u people are different and have different ways of dealing with Stress/pressure Q.E.D

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Ooh

True. Not all men cheat

Fr33born:
True. Not all men cheat

Yeah

Dey there make pant dey wear you

Tales by moönlight..

smh...some guys here needs some crios wanking.