Hello house, i was just wondering how one feels when u lend money to ur boyfriend or girlfriend. I know is okey, but am wondering do u collect d money back from he or she when it is needed back. For me, i find it difficult collecting borrowed money from my girlfriend, i just let her have it out of love, i feel awkward whenever she returns money to me, she even complains at times dat she is scared of collecting money from me under the pretence of borrowing cos i always refuse collecting it back.

she even complains at times dat she is scared of collecting money from me under the pretence of borrowing

She is playing you like an out of tune guitar - at least she is honest about it (collecting, but pretending to borrow), and u also know it, as ur own words suggest