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Trust Issues by 190(op): 6:28am On Jul 04, 2009
Please how can i trust my girl wont snitch on me
the minute im away 4rm town 4 the next 1year.we have plans 2 see @ my new location,but
I mean i discuss this issue wit her,countless tymes
24/9**LOL 9**and she kips re-assuring me but im some1
who can take everytin xcept cheatin and i dnt tink i wud
eva be able 2 forgive her incase she makes 1 small silly mistake
and snitch.es on me!,please this is a trust issue,but im so bad to the xtent
of me tinking dat once im away, den she's sm1 else's
she has neva snitche.d on me b4 (@least not to my knowing all these years)
but now wud be a big test 2 both of us,pls landers (Insults allowed dat is if ure a physco, lol)
how best can i build my trust for this babe,
Re: Trust Issues by iice(f): 7:33am On Jul 04, 2009
[color=#9900ff]Is snitch now another word for cheating? undecided[/color]
Re: Trust Issues by Feelitx(m): 12:48pm On Jul 04, 2009
She probably will not but distance might be a challenge.You will need to work on overdrive as regards keeping in touch. calls,mails and the likes.

Goodluck.
Re: Trust Issues by C2H5OH(f): 7:16am On Jul 05, 2009
What do you mean by snitching? Are you high on glue?
Woreva the case, don't bother in relationship with the girl if you can't/don't trust her.
Re: Trust Issues by whitelexi(m): 8:58am On Jul 05, 2009
Dude, The fact that you've given it a thought gives me the impression that u already see a possibility of it happening.

The truth is hard, the truth is cold, and the truth is bitter. A woman is a woman, body no be firewood, the next hot guy that gets her in a tight corner is probably gonna do her. . . They are fragile, and if you're away for long, then they graduate from fragile to vulnerable.
Re: Trust Issues by 190(op): 5:16am On Jul 06, 2009
@poster
i have a strange feelin ure scared of loosin this ur girl undecided
Re: Trust Issues by 190(op): 5:31am On Jul 06, 2009
thanks ppl 4 all ur advices!
so are u peeps sayin that she wud definately cheat on me
no matter what
dis is a babe that hasnt gone near any man in 2years now
(none to my knowledge)
we had a long 3hrs talk jst yestday and i re-assurred her that
my trip was for her own gud,she promised waitin 4 me
but 1 truth is im scared big tyme out
even if she cheats on me,the truth is i dont tink i wud bow out
i love her 2 dat xtent,this wud be a massive test 2 bot of us
i know i can stand on my own and giv her NO regrets,i av set my records for the next 1yr on my own
and i wont dissapoint her,i have told her i wud go and com bak 2 her**and i meant it**
but its just left 4 her 2 play her own part now

some peeps no just de give me hope @all like whitelexi
Re: Trust Issues by Strz(f): 6:02am On Jul 06, 2009
190:
@poster
i have a strange feelin ure scared of loosin this ur girl undecided
https://naijazone.net/Smileys/default/uhh.gif Aren't you the poster?
Re: Trust Issues by peyt(f): 9:56am On Jul 06, 2009
@poster You need to build on ur trust, for any relationship to succeed you ve to trust ur partner absolutely, if not u'll both have problems. She has assured you that she will wait for you, please give her the benefit of the doubt, take her for her word. Not all ladies are cheaters like other are makin you to believe. Are you going to cheat on her while you are away? cosat times one thinks that other will do what they are doing.
Re: Trust Issues by Kelvinj(m): 10:56am On Jul 06, 2009
@190
letz hv a deal
assure me dat wen u get there ur nt gonna snitch on her nd i'll assure dat she's nt gonna either.
Do we hv a deal?
Re: Trust Issues by biola44: 11:07am On Jul 06, 2009
@poster: what r ur reasons/signs 4 not trusting her?
Re: Trust Issues by Kelvinj(m): 11:19am On Jul 06, 2009
@190
letz hv a deal
assure me dat wen u get there ur nt gonna snitch on her nd i'll assure dat she's nt gonna either.
Do we hv a deal?
Re: Trust Issues by v3: 11:33am On Jul 06, 2009
[quote author=St☆rz link=topic=292205.msg4140326#msg4140326 date=1246856540]https://naijazone.net/Smileys/default/uhh.gif Aren't you the poster? [/quote]Same question. . . .

Whereva's dat "'auto-slap" feature when i need it. . .darn!!
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