this is my first post on Naira land and I would really like honest opinions as this has really bugged me for a while now .
I was quite young when I overheard my grand ma talking with my aunt. my aunt was having problems with her husband.My grandma was at her wits end as their problems seemed never ending. I heard my grandma say to my aunt in my day you marry because you love each other, and because you love each other you stand together and weather whatever life throws at you. She said there had been days when as a young couple she and her husband didn't have much they didn't even have oil for their lamp, but they would sit by the fire, tell each other stories,eat whatever they had and go to bed content, Knowing that even though they had nothing they had each other. Now that's the kind of love i have always wanted, but as the years have come and gone it seems to get more elusive. I'm now wondering if that kind of love really exists or is it just in my head? i would like to know what Naira landers think. Thank you

lov

what does it take? does it mean different things to different people or is it universal?