Seeing my mates and younger ones getting married...
Living all alone
Cooking and eating all alone
Sleeping and waking up all alone
Working and coming home to meet no one
Driving all d time with no one at d passenger seat
It seems am getting tired and ashamed of this kind of life
...I need to be FOUR
Just 4
I&my wife
2 kids
Pls help is this thought normal for a working class guy
If u ar a young woman and feel d same let's make it a chat

I feel you, what a style to advertise that you are looking for a wife.

See rant o! LMAO!

Is your husband material up to 27 yards??

You are just 32. I know very well to do millionaires and billionares at 42, still single and not searching.

If your reason for needing a partner is cos of boredom then ur reason is pathetic.

Companionship is one of the reasons for marriage so you aren't wrong about your thoughts however it goes beyond just seeing a woman beside you. Are you ready for marriage?..... .... I do not think it is all about the age though age, growth, development and responsibility should b hand-in-hand

Pineapp:
Is your husband material up to 27 yards??

just continue with your tailoring work..

if that is you on your DP.. OP would rather wait till he's 50..

I'm 31....

I live like this and I'm very happy.


Na wa oo

I feel ur pain Oga, now that u r sure u want to settle down, approach any single lady that u fancy. It might just be ur lucky day.

God will help u locate the right one. Shalom

StPete:
If your reason for needing a partner is cos of boredom then u hav totally failed.

Conversely, you are the one failing, and not the OP; for the primary aim of marriage is for COMPANIONSHIP. Other things might follow, but they are just added advantages.
Go ask any marriage expert.

Ursino:


Conversely, you are the one failing, and not the OP; for the primary aim of marriage is for COMPANIONSHIP. Other things might follow, but they are just added advantages.
Go ask any marriage expert.

U may hav a problem comprehending wat companionship entails. Pls enlighten yourself and get a full grasp of d meaning of words before u quote me next time.

mylogic111:
Seeing my mates and younger ones getting married...
Living all alone
Cooking and eating all alone
Sleeping and waking up all alone
Working and coming home to meet no one
Driving all d time with no one at d passenger seat
It seems am getting tired and ashamed of this kind of life
...I need to be FOUR
Just 4
I&my wife
2 kids
Pls help is this thought normal @ 32 for a guy
If u ar a young woman and feel d same let's make it a chat

Don't be so hard on urself. Don't rush it n most especially, dont look for a wife on nl. Start or continue d search in ur church.....all d best.

Been married for over a decade. Your feelings are absolutely justified, desire for companionship is a key signal.

Being 32 as a guy isn't that old. For most guys, life starts at 30, hence there's a luxury and window of opportunity to make mistakes and live the life during ya 20s. Don't watch others and focus on yourself. At 32 - most of the most powerful and richest guys in the world today, were still trying to figure out what they wanted to do with their lives.

Relationship/companionship is grossly overrated, especially if you're in it for the sake of it. The most sacred and important thing in life is peace. And if you can't get the same peace you get by being alone from companionship/relationship - there's no point being in one.

Atlantian:
You are just 32. I know very well to do millionaires and billionares at 42, still single and not searching.

Pls let me meet just 2 of the billionaires

How else do you want to spend your lifetime?


Loneliness is not the issue, the problem is doing the same thing (routine) everyday. Bath, go to work, come back home, and eat. You will do this for 35 years say for instance you work with the civil service, with a wife or not. Don't get tired yet, you've not started.

What exactly are you trying to say You don't have any girlfriend @32 or they are not all good for marriage

The girls commenting you can start by sending them pm

timilehing:
What exactly are you trying to say You don't have any girlfriend @32 or they are not all good for marriage

One need to be careful with the girls outside now...... Women are good pretenders..... Shine your eyes...

yvelchstores:

Don't be so hard on urself. Don't rush it n most especially, dont look for a wife on nl. Start or continue d search in ur church.....all d best.

Church Church ..... He can try that....but a lot of hypocrites in church today......

Why don't u approach a lady n express ur feelings 2 her

Sunnypar:
The girls commenting you can start by sending them pm

@ OP, are you mentally, physically, financially, intellectually and emotionally ready for marriage?

Don't let desperation and people's opinions drive you into something you ain't ready for.
'sides, there should be a cutie that's got ya fancy

☹

SirShymexx:
Being 32 as a guy isn't that old. For most guys, life starts at 30, hence there's a luxury and window of opportunity to make mistakes and live the life during ya 20s. Don't watch others and focus on yourself. At 32 - most of the most powerful and richest guys in the world today, were still trying to figure out what they wanted to do with their lives.

Relationship/companionship is grossly overrated, especially if you're in it for the sake of it. The most sacred and important thing in life is peace. And if you can't get the same peace you get by being alone from companionship/relationship - there's no point being in one.

OP, listen to Shymexx.

Yieldings:


OP, listen to Shymexx.

Lol.

My beautiful yield the junior doctor. When are we going to start our companionship?

Who knows where that's going to take us? Erm, still daydreaming about what you look like and you need to make my dream a reality lol.

yvelchstores:

Don't be so hard on urself. Don't rush it n most especially, dont look for a wife on nl. Start or continue d search in ur church.....all d best.

CHURCH? I LAUGH IN SPANISH.

Na waooo!
hmmm...orishirishi!

Op, just ask yourself what you want.I mean what you really want. U will find your answers within you. I asked myself this same question some few months back,I got my answers...All I do now is watch and wait(as relating to my own answers o).

Stop looking at other people's life.Its not all engaged that are truly happy.You see two persons every Saturday, dancing n smiling to n fro the alta;it does not mean their life the best.It's always the smiling countenance we will always display outwardly.

Singlehood is cool ,as well as Companionship.Emotional attachment is not about how soon but how well! Its about the peace of mind one should derive from it.

The truth of the matter is, no matter how we 'singles' would try to hide it or form tough, we all SOMETIMES wish for a warm mate.A heart mate.But each time one remember that it is not just finding anyone but finding the right one for us,it brings the feeling of contentment.There are right ones o.But there are the one that is RIGHT for YOU(getting the logic?). OK.Now singlehood is the best time of ones life!...Quote me anywhere.Try to optimize it; Make the best use of it.


Marriage is sweet! With the right person though.

na for one news recently I hear say peson spouse send am go him afterlife so early so.May that not be our portion.


So don't rush.Don't b desperate.Be patient, watchful n trusting in ur creator.Op,prepare ur mind, heart and self for her.


Peace#

Op u can lie for Africa sha.
U opened a thread abt a girl u wanna marry.
So why deceive people here? Iranu!



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