As far back as I know,I have always been plumy. I got big bones and I got used to being got the fatty and all kinds of names kids used to bully me when I was growing up. I developed low self esteem because of this. Even my family members teased the heck out of me.

As I got older,maybe in the university,I began to use the mockery I got for being fat to be funny and make jokes about myself. Some how that seemed to work and I felt a little better that I was already mocking myself before other people even had the chance to mock me. But being fat was unattractive to guys. They were cool with sleeping with me but they didn’t want to be seen with me as their girlfriends.

I work in the media industry and I get to meet a lot of artists and that is how I met Jude,he is a promoter and has been divorced. he was also very broke.I think he married me because of the opportunities he could get through me: you know,connection in the industry and of course,I was more financially buoyant.

Did I care,not really? I was 36 and its not like I was getting suitors whom I could choose from. Jude is not a bad guy either but I knew we were not together for strictly love. I knew he had side chicks. I mean,even on our wedding night,I know he hung out with someone.I didn’t care. I was married and not going to die alone. I would have a child legally too from this marriage.

However,our challenge started when Jude stopped touching me like four months after the marriage. He said he was not into me. In order words,he was not attracted to me s*xually. He would touch me like once in a month and it would be two sloppy seconds!.I was unhappy cos it would be hard to get pregnant this way. Even when I try to let him know I am ovulating so we could try,he would say he was tired.

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U try

Post the rest of your story here or OYO.

This continued for two years. It became obvious that I was in a prison. I was not getting love or support or financial assistance or even s*x from my husband. I ran the home by myself. We were living like room mates or flat mates. My friend Oge,who was the only one I confided in asked me to file for divorce but I told her I was not ready to be single. It is not easy being single at all.

In my frustration and pain,I planned my vacation to Abu Dhabi to get out and have some fun. Away from my troubles. It was a well needed vacation. I was away for a whole month. But in that time,I met a man from Cameroon. We hung out a few times and were intimate actually. I didn’t plan it but I was in a very vulnerable place. He took interest in me and I just wanted to be happy for once. We both knew it was a fling.

That vacation was in June. And this month,I just discovered that I am pregnant. Obviously pregnant from my fling in the middle east. I am so happy about this pregnancy even if it was not planned. I told my husband when I discovered and he was like,ok,so you finally got what you wanted. He thinks the child is his. But his behavior has not even changed towards me.

I know some people might think I was crazy for thinking that having a baby would change a man. But really,I have been thinking,if I am going to remain in this loveless marriage just to have a baby,I might as well leave this marriage since I have gotten this baby now and its not even from this ungrateful man I call my husband.

I also sometimes wonder what will happen when Jude finds out anytime in the future that this child is not his? Would it not be better to tell him now so that he can decide if he wants to stay or not?

I cannot tell anyone this secret of mine. What do you think I should do? Do I keep quiet and have the baby in my marriage or what is the point of remaining in such a loveless marriage .Should I tell my husband and quit the marriage?

Amaka

yes ooo

segmond:
U try

I'm taking your story with a pinch of salt!

And if, just if the story is true, what makes out think he does not know, some1 else got you pregnant?

That is a dicey situation dear

Restroom:
I'm taking your story with a pinch of salt!

And if, just if the story is true, what makes out think he does not know, some1 else got you pregnant?

Keep the Secret for a couple of years... Believe me he will be in same situation as you.

Since she rightly said that she wasn't getting sex from her husband, why would he think the child is his own?

Abi?

ImaIma1:
Since she rightly said that she wasn't getting sex from her husband, why would he think the child is his own?

This husband of yours wants to roast you up and you are using palm oil to rub yourself. If you tell him the pregnancy is not for him, it makes it easy for him to leave you. Better tell him and be ready to be divorced.