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| Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Gabaleve(m): 2:07pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
A friend of mine,who is also a nairalander is madly in love with a girl he met 2 years ago and he is even hoping to marry her, my problem with their relationship is that the girl has a very very very ugly past. She confessed and listed18 guys she has slept with in our street alone,a list including his close pals and his immediate younger brother, another ugly episode of her past is that, she had a son at 16,but she never knew who was responsible, because she was involved with four different guys on the month she concieved . Please NAIRALANDERS, is this kind of past forgivable? Is this normal? Has anyone been in such situation or witnessed something similar before? does such blind,dead and dumb love stil exist? Please your advice is seriously needed as he doesnt believe he has a problem Cc: Lalasticlala |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
If u judged her in her past, that was pretty ugly...but if u think she changed for good and u can accept the fact that she slept around before u then nothing is wrong with it  at least she was honest of her dark past...1 Like |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by vizkiz: 2:19pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
I don't believe any thread that starts with "a friend of mine" too many lies 4 Likes |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by dulux07(m): 2:23pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Let her go, even if shes a changed person. |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Strahovski1(m): 2:24pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
It's not forgivable! She is a Slut and would forever be. In my religion and tradition such ladies are hanged and any man who sympathise with them be stoned. He should not marry her  1 Like |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
"Anyone who's without sin should throw the first stone" A person's past do not necessarily Reflect a persons true Nature. People could change. And by the way...sleeping with 18 guys isn't ugly. guys that are barely 25 have myriads of sexual partners, and they do not term it "Ugly" rather they get praised for it. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Smellymouth: 2:34pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Noooooo |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Joshchi(m): 2:34pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Hope your friend has gone for hiv test |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Kenzico(m): 2:37pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
vizkiz: |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Picture of the 18 guys or Adonbilivit 1 Like |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Dannidom(m): 3:55pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
KashyBaby:Kashybaby hwfar! you ma wan learn pidgeon english ke (Nija Flavour) I fit be ya teasher but na shikini moni wey you go fit drop for 'father' to tell am mak e carry on. but since say na you (you ma dawg) I fit collect 'Kiss' just daily dose will do you hear I still remain ya Aroba Dannidom *back to the kweshion* Shit's bout to get ugly just at the mention of that her gruvy past. Mehn! Aint taking that from any body, Your past? fine! keep that in ya past and dont mention shit whenever i get around. I love you for you, not because you trying to sell me ya past and trying to make me feel like I wana freak out with some dirty lines |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Dannidom: Nawa for me oooo..u dey scatter my brain  lol |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by cruzita(f): 4:10pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
old things are past away . |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Dannidom(m): 4:12pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
KashyBaby:Lol! I fit mend am na. I be 'doc' but na only home services na im I dey give for my pay hmm forget am because na still something you fit afford  |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Leriebloom(f): 4:13pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Her past is her past. She made an ugly mistake, true.And u v said she is a changed person, so let her past remain where it is and not something that would come interfering in her future. |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by executioner27: 4:13pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Strahovski1: You this religion guy....its like your religion is against women entirely. Maybe your religion and life style is Homosexual. |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by MzPecs(f): 4:15pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
I don't believe this! |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Strahovski1:Whatever your mission on Nairaland is...  |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
brandnew3: Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion. |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Dannidom: Watta word "home service" ...u remind me of sumtin else... |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Lyondavinci:That's true... Opinions are nothing more than that. "OPINIONS". He should be careful not to call Nigerian girls sluts, else every Lagosian would also see every Indo/Asian girl living in Ilupeju, Lagos as low life 'SLUTS'. *My Opinion* |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by AlienStar: 4:30pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
That's none of ur business, leave them the hell alone! |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by KingTom(m): 4:38pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
If your friend knows about her past and is still comfortable with it then what the Fûck Is your business and even if he doesn't know and he loves the babe then I wish them a happy marriage  many of us have ugly pasts . But bros when Una go grow up na every time my friend my friend all of us know say na you  1 Like |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by EOOJ(m): 4:45pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Well, there is realy noting wrong wit it if u ask me... Difrent strokes4 difrent folks. We are al humans wit difrent personalities. So d fact dat to u its ugly, to him its in d past and life goes on. Stop tryna force ur own thoughts on d guy na. If afta al has bin said and done and he stil chooses her, guy free him and wish him well. Except u ar insinuating dat sum one is dancing on his head in his vilage |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Dannidom(m): 4:53pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
KashyBaby:dang aint shit we go just get busy maybe to dey remove cloth no worri we go soon wear am back you hear, then we go just the run around the house We go visit the bathroom maybe the bedroom dont worri I be 'Rev. father' we go just go there go drink wine then after we go just play hide and seek still un*lad then maybe we go pass out then at night our lesson resumes after we don jack tire we go just say our morning prayers because na all night tutorial pidgeon is best understood at night then we call it a day to resume later in the day you dig |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by OneManLegion(m): 5:12pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Gabaleve: Short Answer: No, that kind of past isn't forgivable. Long Answer: Old habits die hard. Someone who was so favorably disposed to promiscuity might as well relapse - and that's assuming she isn't dating your friend because it suddenly hit her that her time is running out and she needs to get wedded, which would make your friend the sucker that wifed up the community slut. No man deserves to be married to a girl that screwed around like she was expecting medals or some'in. With that being said, if your friend is aware of her past and doesn't see a problem, by all means, cheer him on and eat their jollof rice when he marries the ex-MsBitch. I'm sure you won't have to be the one to suffer the ignominy of marrying an (ex)slut. 2 Likes |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Gabaleve(m): 6:01pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
vizkiz:ur biz |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Gabaleve(m): 6:08pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Estharfabian:sleepin with 18 guys ain't ugly?....babe,come to d real world,dis aint africa magic |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Strahovski1(m): 6:08pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
executioner27: Actually my religion is not against any gender. It does not entertain any form of immorality or trash from any gender. Even men are castrated some hexed with insanity. But civilization and western influence is changing it Its a fun one to be in. |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Strahovski1(m): 6:14pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
brandnew3: Did I mention Nigerian girls in general? I said the woman in regard is a Slut. I repeat. A Slut. 18 guys Whoever, African, American, Asian, European, or whatever that lays with 18 partners is a promiscuous person. Be it male or female. So again the woman is a Slut. So if you have a problem with strahovski quote strahovski not changing my words. Do you understand? 1 Like |
| Re: Please Nairalanders, Is Her Past Forgivable? by Gabaleve(m): 6:22pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
Suigeneris93:if i show u now,next thing u will say is, i should show u their joystick |
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