A friend introduced me to a guy who is about 32yrs but based in abroad. We have been friends and we talked,chat and video call. Now he is back in Nigeria and he came to see me but his dressing was not pleased to me(ear rings) and my aunty was not happy with his choice of job.

Though I like him and he wants to settle down with me but still praying over it then my parents and spiritual director said he is not right for me due to his choice of job but I know he listens to me and love me so much. I have not gone to his place and he come over to see me anywhere I am. He doesn't call me that frequently to ask how I am?. Besides he has a white woman with him in abroad but he told me is just for papers. He told my parents that he wants to settle down
with me but am scared cos I don't know whether he is serious or not cos I have had so much encounter with men who comes in the name of marriage. Am not desperate mind you but am 28yrs.
What should I do? Should I give him a trial but s3x is out of it.


Source:http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/he-has-white-woman-abroad-for-papers.html?m=1

Women and men in dispora?

When will our ladies ever learn?

There are two voices ringing in ur head. The voice of reasoning nd ur own voice.
The hand writing is clearly on d wall nd ur instinct come make d doubt double, double.
If u feel he's nt d special one, no need to give it a trial. Why try to smell d aroma of a food or taste it whn u re very sure u re nt going to eat it.