A newcomer to UK, I cant blend or understand the girls. Its quite different from my experience back home. Or what would you say to a girl that prefers a holiday in Barbados to a visit to good old naija.

How am I to explain that I should erect a house in my father's compound? Should I even think of ever returning to my dearly beloved naija in the end?

Of course every thing changes once you marry. The other person's interests count too.

Marry from home to a complete stranger? I know one or two guys who risked it and ended up regreting. (A few are enjoying matrimonial bliss too)

Indecision becomes my best friend as I get older by the day.

how about marry the woman that has the same values as u do, the same upbringing such as fear of God, humility, determination, hard work. eh. it might be hard to find a none nigerian who will fit that description but guess what there are also a million nigerian girls who dont fit it either and they might even be ur neighbors, marriage is a very very very serious matter, and i know that there are wonderful nigerian babes in london, so take ur time and make the right decision ok. and if u honestly feel that u cant make it in london, then go home and please plaease please marry a girl of your choice for the right reasons. Good luck bro

marry from where Ur d^^k points to!!!! what a Silly QUestion!!! U've reached da age Of getting married and yet U dont even know what U want

that is the problem!

most dudes think with their d~~k.

I just dont wanna be them.

It's not true that women from Nigeria are better than the one abroad. If you even look at it those now abroad also resided in Nigeria once. Sp my advice is to look for the woman with the right values. And who said you can only marry a girl from your country. try new horizon and extend your view. You might end up finding the woman of your life in a place you never expected. (Sorry I got transported by my emotions) So my conclusion is follow your heart.

Rhodalyn:

marry from where your d^^k points to!!!! what a Silly Question!!! U've reached da age Of getting married and yet U don't even know what U want

Rhodalyn remember a dick wants just a hole to fill and even if it gets one it will still be looking for another as soon as it gets used to the old one.

I can't imagine if I look up to my vagina to get a husband. I'd spend my life looking for the man with the bigget JT on earth!