Mascotizer:


Abi o, sometimes i think in dat direction too.

Tkini:

its not abt dwelling in d past..............u kW some people hurt u soooooooo much u can't just trust and love again.

Well, you are ryt sha

Tkini:

its not abt dwelling in d past..............u kW some people hurt u soooooooo much u can't just trust and love again.

KINGinVAHALA:
[b]@Op, nowadays relationship is dependent on who breaks it 1st wins while d other feel heartbroken. Am nt advicing u to end ur relationship bcus i'm nt a believer or an apostle of putting an end to a relationship even if it totally goes soar, bt if u feel wats happening btw u both seem unredeemable then i would advice u hit d hammer on it 1st bfor she does it.

And mind u, d kinda "i dnt care" "always d victim in chats nd cals" nd other weird attitude ur gf is showing is so annoying i must admit. And no matter how sweet d words dt comes out of ur mouth is, u cant change her.

I just had a gf with such attitude nd i was happy she ended d relationship herself bcus i felt a huge burden left me nd i experienced an unexplainable relief after she put a halt to d relationship. Though, i loved her wit all my heart nd was ready to take her to mama nd i still do hv feelings for her, just dt she was short sighted in not been able to seeing d future wit me nd her in it together as one.

I Wish You Well Bro![/b]

Mascotizer:


Really. I'd like to see from ur perspective o....
I once asked her abt the hurt tin, but she said no, i even asked if she has been molested (sexually or physical) by a man before but said no still. But can't phantom y she's so irrational and callous.

so back to u, what exactly do u think can make u begin to have true emotions n feelings. How are u working on it? Or av u simply concluded that this is who u are n who u'll ever be.

sickstars:


Did u explain like dis to her?


I pray ur gf finds a better man i swear
Growing up i heard most guys are wicked i never blived it

Till now

Tkini:

hello

KINGinVAHALA:

Hehehehe. explained to her said? well, am nt gonna talk on that. but knw that i am a perfect man when it comes to relationship. Only a matured lady by mind and nt age would understand my actions in my relationship.

Sure, am nt the kinda guy that wishes a lady badluck or bad mouth her and her name just bcus she has become an ex. I'm way too matured for that kinda attitude. So, i also wish her well and pray she finds a better man, if she would see bcus i dnt think any man could be better than me.

Yeah, there re wicked guys same way there re also wicked ladies bt am telling you sickstars, lot of guys re good. its just a woman's attitude and imagination that makes her feel men re bad.

I hv dated a lady bfor, for gud 1yr we dated, there was ntin like misunderstanding, argument or quarel.

Cutehector:
hws life goin for u?

sickstars:

so true i can love again
but cant trust again

tosyne2much:
Well, you are ryt sha

sickstars:

Know thy partner well so as u wont make her pay d wages of sins ur ex made to u

Tkini:

don't want it to be so because I want to love again but I just can't keep holding back
BTW I love ur treads.......always on point.

Ooooooh !! so you have for once stumbled upon any of my threads?

tosyne2much:
Ooooooh !! so you have for once stumbled upon any of my threads?

Tkini:

can there be love without trust??

KINGinVAHALA:

Yeah, nt every guy is good bt there re lot of good guys

i cant judge or tell if u committed d sins u were prosecuted for or nt bcus i wasnt there.

I Knw u re going through mental nd emotional probs(there was a time i even planed calin u just to giv u d little advice i had, bt i just had to chil bcus u werent acting normal even to me here on nairaland) bt i also cant tel if u did any harm to d people bcus as i earlier stated, i wasnt there.

I knw it isnt by saying it bt acting it rather.

No human wil tel u he/she is a sinner. so i would allow her nd her conscience to judge my action towars her.

Yeah, i knw our actions begoth reactions we get. Thats d essence of karma.

Sure. whoever my nxt gf is gonna would find herself in safe hand bcus i dnt judge people according to d sins of others past. I'm surely gonna treat d next according to how she present herself to me.

sickstars:

So sorry u are free to call i just need all d support i can get now

KINGinVAHALA:

Pm me ur fb id lets chat there.

tosyne2much:
Bro, one thing I detest most in people is that they expect people to take them as they are, while they are not in any way ready to change.. I just can't imagine myself getting acquinted to someone who's nursing her flaws with "shebi you know that's the way I am" attitude


What I will suggest you do is that, henceforth, let your frequent calls, sms, care and affection head on diminishing returns and watch her reaction afterwards. If possible, stopping calling her and even if she calls you, act like you no longer care about her.

However, you can as well start giving her monosyllabic replies during chat
just to signal to her that your affection and interest in her is dwindling. If truly she loves you as she claims, she will come of her shell and start doing things in a different way in a bid to have you back. And if she doesn't still give a damn and still acts the way she has been acting, you don't even need to tell her that it's over, just let the relationship die like that


I hope this helps

sickstars:


Av left fb ever since

KINGinVAHALA:

Ahhh. why? i feel its more private than here. and there re lot of thinz dat cant be said here.

Ok, pm me ur number let me cal u.

sickstars:

my trust has been shattered over nd over again

Tkini:

but if u can't trust who u claim u love d r/p ain't going nowhere.........,.DTS d main issue I av now

sickstars:


Shebi u said u av my number look for it nd call me

KINGinVAHALA:

Dnt hv it and wasnt having it. i thought collecting it frm someone who was ur frnd wen u rd stil usin ur former moniker and also mine then. The person is nolonger on my good book. though, nt dt she wud hv easily gave me bcus all you ladies do is to jealous each other. SMH

Imaging her asking me then when u were stil using ur former moniker if i nurse the ambition to fvck you just bcus we had a little discuss then nd ur moniker got into d little discuss we had. When will u ladies stop acting jealous over each others.

Mascotizer:


I belive u got my drift sis/ma.
Perharps u can give me ur 'female perspective' on the issue. Seems u ladies understand each other better. If u were her, what could make u be so emtionless, what could resuscitate it...i dnt mind some pointers too

tosyne2much:
Bro, one thing I detest most in people is that they expect people to take them as they are, while they are not in any way ready to change.. I just can't imagine myself getting acquinted to someone who's nursing her flaws with "shebi you know that's the way I am" attitude


What I will suggest you do is that, henceforth, let your frequent calls, sms, care and affection head on diminishing returns and watch her reaction afterwards. If possible, stopping calling her and even if she calls you, act like you no longer care about her.

However, you can as well start giving her monosyllabic replies during chat
just to signal to her that your affection and interest in her is dwindling. If truly she loves you as she claims, she will come of her shell and start doing things in a different way in a bid to have you back. And if she doesn't still give a damn and still acts the way she has been acting, you don't even need to tell her that it's over, just let the relationship die like that


I hope this helps