So I was asked this question that
If I had a daughter and she married a man I never knew was violent and a year into the marriage he starts beating her.
she comes home to visit me and I see bruises all over her everytime and this getting to an extent that she was hospitalized, what will I do?

An I replied immediatly that seeing that me talking to the husband about his attitude hasn't changed him. I will ask my daughter to leave his house and stay with me for the mean time while we pray that GOD intervens. Cos she being alife for her children is the most important thing of all.

Did you know i got crucified for this answer. That I was wrong bla bla bla bla bla, that by this action I will be distroying my daughters home,that am suppose to pray for her and send her back to her husbands house.I swear i got so confused,cos Is saving her life not more important than her marriage?

NLders just wanted to know your answer to this question.

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U for tell the person weh criticize you say make you test koboko for her body whether she fit stand am for one day.

That is why its good to have a senior military officer in the family weh go fit teach that kynd husband sense. He dey mad ni? What if na my only child. Make he no even try am.

Its only if I do not do what's necessary as a father that I can be blamed. So far I've talked to him severally and he refuses to stop then my daughter leaves. I give u wife to love and cherish.. dat was the vow. Not to brutalize her. She has to be alive for her children for God's sake.

Snapping pics of her injured body while on d hospital bed would be a good evidence. And I will personally record my conversations with d husband without anyone's knowledge then keep it incase he wants to deny 2mrw.

grad2012:
So I was asked this question that
If I had a daughter and she married a man I never knew was violent and a year into the marriage he starts beating her.
she comes home to visit me and I see bruises all over her everytime and this getting to an extent that she was hospitalized, what will I do?

An I replied immediatly that seeing that me talking to the husband about his attitude hasn't changed him. I will ask my daughter to leave his house and stay with me for the mean time while we pray that GOD intervens. Cos she being alife for her children is the most important thing of all.

Did you know i got crucified for this answer. That I was wrong bla bla bla bla bla, that by this action I will be distroying my daughters home,that am suppose to pray for her and send her back to her husbands house.I swear i got so confused,cos Is saving her life not more important than her marriage?

NLders just wanted to know your answer to this question.

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No body dare be violent with my sister. While I won't fight or get violent with husband, there is no way she's staying in the same house with him till he comes to his senses.


Violence is not the best way to handle a woman, even if she has a running mouth.

OP

You gave the right answer. Marriage is challenging and has both good and tough times that one should weather. But one thing a woman shouldn't tolerate in a marriage is a violent man who beats her. Staying back to pray doesn't make sense cos your prayers may get answered when you have crossed to the other side.

Leave the man for a while and only go back when he shows genuine and visibly signs of haven changed. The person who told you your answer was wrong should pray they never find themselves in such situation or the story will change.

RadicallyBlunt:
U for tell the person weh criticize you say make you test koboko for her body whether she fit stand am for one day.

That is why its good to have a senior military officer in the family weh go fit teach that kynd husband sense. He dey mad ni? What if na my only child. Make he no even try am.

Its only if I do not do what's necessary as a father that I can be blamed. So far I've talked to him severally and he refuses to stop then my daughter leaves. I give u wife to love and cherish.. dat was the vow. Not to brutalize her.

Snapping pics of her injured body while on d hospital bed would be a good evidence. And I will personally record my conversations with d husband without anyone's knowledge then keep it incase he wants to deny 2mrw.

Good point

when they were loving up... did she complain...?!

Before i answer ur question Op, how old are u?

iPopAlomo:
when they were loving up... did she complain...?!

misspicy:

Yeah....

If the parents couldn't access the husband's temperament... and accepted his bride price... when Shit got down... don't they hold as much blame...?!

I really should have written something lengthy... but I'm not really in a good mood... I hope you get the drift...

I won't let it happen the next time because I will poison him after the first time.

iPopAlomo:



Yeah....

If the parents couldn't access the husband's temperament... and accepted his bride price... when Shit got down... don't they hold as much blame...?!

I really should have written something lengthy... but I'm not really in a good mood... I hope you get the drift...

his temperament? I have seen gentlemen hit their wives, nothing justifies a man hitting his wife,he should rather walk away...


I don't want to say much on this,those that wears the shoes knows where it pinches

misspicy:

his temperament? I have seen gentlemen hit their wives, nothing justifies a man hitting his wife,he should rather walk away...


I don't want to say much on this,those that wears the shoes knows where it pinches

And you call him a gentleman...?! Lol... you're funny...

iPopAlomo:


And you call him a gentleman...?! Lol... you're funny...

if that's all you can deduce from my post,you are funnier.
yes a gentleman,not only men that are violent or temperamental hit their spouse

misspicy:

if that's all you can deduce from my post,you are funnier.

yes a gentleman,not only men that are violent or temperamental hit their spouse

He can't be a gentleman again ooo... you still don't get it...