Pls guys I need ur sincere advice..I ve been dating this lady for over 5yrs now, even my family members already see her as my wife to be...but all of a sudden, she came saying her parent says they will neva allow her marry me, cos she is their only daughter..and that am from the west...but she is from the east..and aside the parent verdict, she also said she can't wait any longer for me, that she propose to get married at 25, and now she is 25 and will b 26 by December...I told her I will kick strt the wedding process come August..cos I should finish serving by April...and she is in her finals...but she seems not to believe me..and there is this guy taking advantage of the parent verdict to woo her and talk her into marriage..so she told me we should let go and part ways, but yet she couldn't let go off me...neither could I...she loves me just the way I love her...please I need u guys advice...

Just hear yourself.

She loves me... And yet she is the one telling you to party ways.

You just finished NYSC and want to marry, how much is your monthly income? Can you even take care of yourself?

Those are a few of the things she is considering. Let her go and face your life.

I understabd how you feel,but since you have told her you will marry her Aug and yet she doesn't believe you and still wants to go,just let thing take shape on its own. What GOD has destined for you will never leave you.

neva beg a woman/man marriage... dey dunt see d ability in u as d best person prepared 4 dem by God den let dem go.............a sorry relationship is beta dan a broken marriage.......oboi face ur service & plan ur life

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Lover boy!


Isn't it obvious she doesn't love u?

you want my advice?
let no one or anything push you into making a decision you are not prepared to make, not marriage
unless your dad is very rich and ready to support you till you can stand independently, or you are ready to suffer your unborn kids. the economy is bad bro.
if she wants to leave good, when one door closes, a bigger door opens

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Lover boy!


Isn't it obvious she doesn't love u?

that might not be entirely true, he said they've dated for 5 years, ladies can easily yield when family pressure starts to build up on issues concerning marriage. he just has to brace up and prepare for the worst

Bro its so obvious nah.. She doesnt have enough faith in ur future and u promising to get married to her.. One thing i know for sure is that if a girl is truly commited to a relationship the parent pressure factor is the least factor and her being their only child makes convincing them very simple. The fact that u already know about this new bobo trying to take advantage means their relationship is already booming, coz she has even mentioned parting ways means that other bobo is winning. My advice finish ur service and then streamline new girl, for someone that would be finishing his service by april u even seem to young to be rushing into marriage by august. Peace.

Thanks guys...really appreciate ur candid advice, am more enlightened now...please keep them coming( advice)