you guys are making a lot of sense but i'm suprised that not one of you have mentioned the most [b]IMPORTANT FACTOR: MONEY!!!!!!!![/b]

Guy you're still years away from being financially independent, not to talk of supporting a wife, a possible kid on the way and household/extended family responsibilities. except you want to be the husband that collects salary from his parents or wife. face it if you were a father would you give your daughter away to a man would can't take care of her.

Love is important in a relationship but money's also equally important. love can't be sustained on an empty stomach.

my advise: face your studies amd systematically cool the relationship down. if not you'll make it hard on her (her heart's with you but her head telling her common sense of looking for a stable guy). at 22 you should ideally be looking for a girl that you're 3-4 years older than. that way you can actually date purposefully for 4-5 years before tying the knot.

Peace!

oyinda.:



well i'm very happy 4 u. . . u have any doctor friends? 'cause i want to marry a doctor too jk
but on a more serious note, there is another member who is in a similar situation as u i think his username is Klassyguy you can look his posts up and read his topics for more advice and such.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-310654.0.html

Funny you, yeah thanks checked em up,

5p1naz:

think about it yourself and answer your own question . . . . stop been dependent on some bunch of nairalanders. . . . ahhhh u ppl sef. . . no be your mind go decide for u ni

@5pinaz, nah wah 4 u o, if u'v observed, i stated clearly dat i aint makin decisions, just wanted to see the views of those going through this , and man, is this not a forum wih humans in it?, it sure is, but i understand wat u mean, ths post is a yr old, was jst reading em al over sgain b4 makin some comments days ago, thanks 4 y'all input

if you love her engage her now, then when you finish school marry her

@op, so av u guys eventually gotten married?

Any updates, how did this end?