The frequency of intercourse that satisfies you and your spouse is the "normal" frequency for you. Some couples have intercourse only once in a month; others have intercourse every day. Either one of three habits of intercourse and anything in between or beyond is normal if the couple is happy with it. Most young middle age couples, however, wants to have intercourse about two or three times a week unless there is a medical or emotional problem. For the purpose of fertility couples who have intercourse (sexual) three to four times a week are the most likely to get pregnant during a one year period. One of the most down-to-earth directives concerning frequency of intercourse that I know of is in 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 where the apostle Paul states: "the husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband, in the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer". If you (or your husband) are extremely dissatisfied with the frequency of your intercourse, don't pretend there is no problem. Get sexual counselling if you cannot work it out on your own. Too often a husband or wife will tolerate the frustration related to frequency of intercourse, suffering in silence until he or she is filled with anger and resentment, finally "bursting out" and saying and doing things that would not have been necessary if the dissatisfied partner had been more open earlier. In most such cases the wife is satisfied with the frequency of intercourse, but the husband wants to have relations more often. He may need to adjust his demand to some extent, but the wife may also need to modify her willingness to satisfy his needs and desires. Compromise on both part is the ideal, and communication is usually the key. It is best to know that you and your husband have promised yourselves each other. You will want to enter into intercourse with your husband frequently enough to relieve the emotional tension that sexual needs produces in him. He can become filled with resentment and anger if you habitually avoid having intercourse with him. He can feel trapped, caught between your resistance to his advances and moral values that deny him sexual release with anyone else. A situation like this can affect not only his happiness but your own as well.

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